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Member Since: March 7, 2012
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Okay, so I need advice on how to deal with my parents' extreame aggression.

Here is the thing, I am not a perfect child, and I know I can do wrong sometimes, but sometimes my parents get mad for littlest things. Their way of dealing with situations is not pleasent. Whether I deserve the trouble or not, this is usually their dealing process.

1. Extreamly loud shouting (not bothering to listen to explanation)
2.Hit me/Throw stuff at me (they have punched me, pulled my hair, whipped me with a cord, slapped me, etc. I wouldn't considerit child ABUSE, but rather excessive force.)
3.Threatening to kick me out/police station (I've been taken their, and kicked out of the house on a cold night)

What should I do? I don't know how to deal with their anger rages, and all the hurt... (link)
tell someone!!! that is so illeagl and wrong


im in year 9 and ive known this girl for about 5 years and i really like her but im to shy to talk to her how do i get the confidence to talk to her and could i have like a couple of tips on getting her to notice me (link)
what have you done already? how old are you? i would be very nervous to but i would just be a man and go on up to her and say will you go out with me? and walk away


Our school has a talent show coming up, and almost every year its monotonous singing and bad dancing, with the ocasional gymnastics routine or guitar player. I and a friend were trying to think of something fun and different to do, to get the crowd interested and laughing. We're not afraid to be silly in front of people - but we can't think of what to do that isn't OVERLY stupid.

Any insight on this? Details would be great...not something just like "Do a skit." (link)
what about a funny skik? can you hula hoop?


well one of my really good friends has this notebook that she writes all her feelings in I guess its a way to get rid of her stress..but anywayz i read it last night and it talked about getting rapped and why did it have to happen to her and stuff..well i asked her if it was true and she didn't answer me i kept asking her but she said she didn't want to talk she cuts and I can't get her to stop..how can I get her to open up so I can help her? i dont want her to hurt herself more than she already has! Plz help!
Sincerely,
*Concerned* (link)
have you been nice and caring to her


Ok so now I'm 11 turning 12 in june and my boyfriend is 12 he wants to do sex with me and I think I'm 2 young but he says he'll brake up with me if I say no and I don't know what to do! Please help me! (link)
do you really like him because the right thing to do is break up with him because its just not right


People want to fight me and they make fun of me.I want to fight them to make them stop saying ''your to scared,you(CENSORED)retard,ect'',but something in my head stops me. I could when I was in grade 1-3 now I can't,but I really want to.This is going on still 7 years and counting so don't say ''its good to not fight'' What else could I do?

It also made me pretty much emotionless.
(I don't feel scared,happy,pain anymore just revenge.)

Before you say your just nice,this making fun of me thing lasted 7 years and counting...I'm not happy. (link)
why don't you talk to an adult about it they will understand and will fix the problem




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