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im in year 9 and ive known this girl for about 5 years and i really like her but im to shy to talk to her how do i get the confidence to talk to her and could i have like a couple of tips on getting her to notice me (link)
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I had the same problem when I was your age. Don't just walk up to her and just tell her how you feel. If you have any classes with her, a project where you work as partners or in a group would be a good opportunity to get her to notice you. Simply ask if she wants to work as your partner.
If that isn't possible simply try to look for an opportunity to talk to her in a friendly context. If you notice she is wearing a cool looking outfit, piece of jewelry, or other accessory tell her. If she ever does anything special with her hair tell her that it looks nice. It's a friendly gesture that doesn't necessarily give away too much about your feelings and leave you vulnerable. It will let her know that you notice her and girls love that kind of thing. Pretty soon you will stand out in her eyes and be noticed.
After you get to know her a little better you can start to be more open about your feelings and let her know that you'd like to spend more time with her. If she agrees, give it a little time and then tell her how you really feel. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't. I guarantee it. It will haunt you to dream about what could have been. At least if you try and fail, you know it wasn't meant to be.
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People want to fight me and they make fun of me.I want to fight them to make them stop saying ''your to scared,you(CENSORED)retard,ect'',but something in my head stops me. I could when I was in grade 1-3 now I can't,but I really want to.This is going on still 7 years and counting so don't say ''its good to not fight'' What else could I do?
It also made me pretty much emotionless.
(I don't feel scared,happy,pain anymore just revenge.)
Before you say your just nice,this making fun of me thing lasted 7 years and counting...I'm not happy. (link)
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The solution is that you learn how to scrap. Ideally you should find a real mixed martial arts gym or boxing gym and receive formal training. If that is not possible search youtube for videos on grappling and stand-up techniques. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai is a good combination.
Find a buddy to practice with and develop your technique. It is also important to develop your mind. You should have a warrior mindset. Read about and understand Bushido. Live the way of the warrior.
When you do this you will achieve enlightenment and realize revenge is not the answer and fighting should only be done defensively.
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