Gender: Female
Location: eagle river alaska
Occupation: in high school almost graduated
Age: 18
Member Since: March 8, 2012
Answers: 9
Last Update: March 24, 2012
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i am a 16 year old girl, i recently lost my virginity 14 days ago to be precise. im not in a relationship it was a one night stand, we also used protection but im not taking any other form of contraception. im worried that the condom may have split as we were both very drunk. iv also been experiencing pains and cramps in my lower abdomen, im constantly bloated and have been for days, found blood spots in my underwear, have back ache and experiencing nausea. the first thing that came to my head was 'im pregnant'. i came off my period 2 days before i had sex with the boy, i know he ejaculated and im not due for my period until another week or so. i would like to know if these are signs of early pregnancy?? please help me i do not want to wait to see if i miss a period (link)
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Sorry about spelling
Alright no lecturing on how you lost your virginity. First off if you keep thinking you are pregnant your body will make you FEEL that you are pregnant even though your not. If you havnt already looked them up I'll list a fee early pregnancy signs.
1. Missed period( as you know),
2.Just "Feeling" Pregnant
3.Fatigue (tired)
4.Frequent Urination
5.Nausea
6.Dizziness and/or Fainting
7.Food Cravings, or Aversions to Foods
8.Sensitivity to Aromas(outer side of nipples)
9.Heartburn and/or Constipation
10.Mood Swings and Irritability
11.Higher body temp
12.Low back pains
13.Discharge
14. Bloated or weight gain
Actually here's a type website you should check it out
Cause it'll explain each sign believe me iv had these worries quite a few times ( I lost my vCard at 16 as well o am now 18 with the same guy)
http://www.womens-health-questions.com/pregnancysymptoms.html
Goodluck sweetie
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Well Me and this guy have been seeing eachother for about 3 years now and ill be in grade 12 next year and the guy ive been seeing is in grade 10 right now but when i grad he'll only be in grade 11 and i told him i dont know what is gonna happen between us and told him i loved him and we will always be together in some way or another but outta the blue he gives me a promise ring and tells me he donest want o be without me even for a second! I dont know what to do he wants to follow me out to university and i dont want him throwing away his education to be with me!! (link)
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so im going to tell you about my relationship it maybe helpful or useless but i am/was in the same boat as you.sorry for spelling.
alright so my boyfriend and i have also been together a lil over 3yrs, we started to date when i was a freshman(15) an he was a junior(16) im now 18 hes 19 im a senior c/o 2012 and he grad 2010 he stayed with me even though he has graduated and has joined the airforce as im still in high school hes being patiant and waiting for me, i had to move to florida bc my dad passed away so he did his best to get stationed as close as he can and hes in GA (we were in alaska) he is doing everything he can to stay together and to be honest our love is whats keeping us together the distance isnt a problem idk if that makes sense.. anyways my point to this information was. just because your about to graduate or moving doesnt mean it wont work for you guys, obviously he cares a whole lot about you and will do absolutely anything to be with you, i dont think hes throwing his education away i think he ment that after he grad and finishes high school he will move to ware ever you are to be with you. if you truelly love him then be with him but if you dont think youll stay together dont hold onto his heart and let him free. alot of people say long distance or after aschool relationships dont work but so far i have proven that wrong. and it really does if you put the effort into it. i do have to say it is hard work and it suxs not being with him everyday but just think hecould be the one you marry your high school sweet heart.(im marrying mine ;)) goodluck sorry if you found this pointless
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okay im sorry if this is really long but i need advice -_-
so i have never really "kissed" like i have pecked my past boyfriends on the check but thats all
i am a female and have always been afraid of kissing for weird reasons like i'll mess up , be bad or the guy is just trying to get laid and bulding up
but last night i was at a birthday party an every one had been drinking & everyone had had a bit to drink , so this guy i have had a crush on since i was 11 (i am 15 now) was there and he is 18 but throughout the day he had been telling me i was "ideal" and anyway back to the nightit was abouut 3 in the morning an we were told to go sleep in our tents but he wasn't tiered and i wasn't ethier so we went for a walk an sat down a bit away from the house , we chatted for about an hour and then walked back to the tents cause i was cold and got a big blanket and walked off again an sat in a felid and i could he was feeling me up but it started reall subtle like him playing with my hands an then boobs but then he asked me if i had ever hooked up with i guy an i replyed no so it went quite for a bit but he kept trying to get me to turn my head to face him but i couldnt do it i was to scared an i kept making excuses like i said there was something in the bushes and he just pulled me closer but i don't know
Was this just the alocohl that he was trying to kiss me cause he has a girlfriend (which was another reason i couldt do it) but i might be seeing him next month what if it happens again i really like him an i am kicking myself for not kissing him now but any advice would be great
Thanks (:
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sorry for my spelling,like the other person said. he is taken by someone else so i think you did the right thing your a good person for that. not to nock you down or anything he may have been feeling you up because he was drunk & if you were a lil buzzed he may have thought he could get lucky, or i could be wrong an he actually does like you but obviously he doesnt seem to care much about his girlfriend and i dont think they will be together for much longer they may break up and sense you like him so much you can date but just remember what he did to YoU while he was with the other girl. ahh to the kissing part to be honest i was the same way an my boyfriend made the move(i was 15 at the time now 18still together) with the nice soft gentle kiss my god did i turn red!! but i walked away with the hugest smile. it was nice you can hug him look him in the eyes and go for the kiss but dont be tence you have to be loose if that makes sense? gently kiss his bottem lip or top what ever u like and bite it softly(turns guys on iv found out) then pull away gently. i like to keep my eyes closed when i kiss i say that cause some people kiss with there eyes open and omg the make out i didnt make out untill i was 16 he made the move for that to..i have rejected guys for that soooo many times and when i finally decide to let him make a move i turned my head cause i was nervous and he licked my face yep all on my cheek:/all slobbery and this happend a few times but it was funny i told you that cause if you mess up which could happen it can end up being funny or he may find it cute tell him your a lil nervouse theres nothing wrong with being afraid because i sure was he will understand im not quite sure if this is helpful but i hope everything goes well for you darling :)
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How can I make a guy horny by tex ting. I really want to get him horny. He ask me questions like. If you could have sex with a guy right now would you? Any ideas ooo yeh he is 18 (link)
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please excuse my spelling.
and there are many ways to turn a guy on over text besides pictures. play the question game, start with regular questions like whats your fav movie/band and then slowly move into the dirty question. it tends to be fun once you really get into it or tell him what you would like to do to him. example.. i want to push you on my bed and slowly start to kiss you on your lip an your neck and slowly work my way down...and well you can guess the rest. you could also start to talk about his fantasys and bring that into play. i have no idea if this was any help at all but i hope it was a lil good luck ;)
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Ok, so this boy who is in my grade, and 12, (I'm 11 soon to be 12) really hates me, and I want to talk to him when Spring Break is over. Unforchanetely, (please exuse my awful spelling) every time I try to practice what I'm going to say in my head, I either get insulted after "hi" or there is a really really awkward silence. What should I say after "hi", asuming it's the awkward silence option? Oh, and a few addition details is that he is always surrounded by a bunch of people and if you didn't figure this out for yourself already, I have a crush on him. Kk, thanks, any advice helps! Just no advice telling me to not talk to him I yet that enough from my friends! Thank you! :D (link)
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first if he insults you everytime you talk to him then obviously theres a problem and u need to figure out what it is. but it could also be that he likes you guys arnt very good at expressing there emotions besides being a jerk. so you should pick out clues. if hes always with a group then hes trying to show off and trying to come off as the "cool kid in school" by being a jerk to others. mmmm starter conversations.. well you can kinda listen in on his conversations with his other friends (i no rude but everyone does it) and see if you have anything in commen and if so then bring that up. like music or sports .dont say hi and just stop that tends to be akward at least for me and im a pretty outgoing person who talks to anybody even if the dont like it. "i say hey im erica how are you today" u can walk up to him and say hey whats going on. dude did you here there new song! i dont know just dont overthink it cause you make yourself nervouse by doing so. if he is single. and you try to talk to him and he is a jerk belike and you wonder why you dont have a girlfriend? theres alot of ways ah and yahooanswers is also a good website for advice. im sure this didnt help much but i tried
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I have been dating this guy for a while now and I don't think he is really that attracted... I want to do something that will make his eyes pop or something... but I don't know what.
PS. We have not kissed yet so it can't be too forward, but just forward enough. (link)
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like the two people who have already responded, he must be attracked to you or you wouldnt betogether. be yourself thats who he fell for. and you can change things up a lil mm example.. if your hair is always curlly straiten it, if you ware make up dont one day or u could do it differently. if ur a jeans and shirt person like i am ware a cute lil sundress one day just so hes like wwwooowww this is different. and kiss him i mean you dont have to go straight for the lips kiss him on the cheek and walk away with a smile. maybe he thinks you find him unattractive cause you guys havnt even kissed yet, change things up sometimes iv been with my bf for a long time and im still shy and have to find ways to change it an surprize him it is hard but the effort makes him smile even when my hair comes out bad (im horrible at curlling it) goodluck sweetie
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Long story short :( , thing is my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now and well it was only yesterday he found out that i spoke to my ex. Thing was that i told him i didnt speak to any of them until i spoke to my last ex , we dont speak it was just once. and he found out so ever since yesterday we aint spoken , he told me how things like this puts him off , how why would i say i dont speak to him if i do, he thinks i still feel something for my ex boyfriend but I have NOOO feelings towards him :( i took the blame cause i know shouldnt have spoken to him, then he said how im making him lose his trust in me & he had weird thoughts he thinks i want my ex back , but im in love with my boyfriend i love him more than anything i wouldnt leave him for my ex. I didnt mean to speak to my ex, it was just a normal conversation we had, & i told him i was sorry he was really angry , i dont wanna lose him :'( im scared , i think i made him doubt my feelings :(
PLEASE HELP MEE
iv apologised so much & nothing (link)
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im sorry for my spelling.
everybody talks to at least one of their ex boyfriends or girlfriend,an im sure he does talk to his & doesnt tell you.im not quite sure how old you are but im guessing your about 16 or so.he needs to relize that he cant contral you an tell you who you can & cant talk to. just like you cant contral him.anyways it depends on what your conversation with your ex was about if it was inappropriate then yes i understand why he would be up set.but if its just a conversation like "hey how have you been" kind of thing it shouldnt really matter.maybe he(your ex) is just trying to become friends an patch things up. but in your boyfriends eyes he sees him as a threat he thinks your ex is trying to take you from him,sorry for that,ok to the advice part.. if you are concerned about why exactly hes upset (dont let him say cause you lied & u talked to your ex) ask him and ask him to give you a REAL reason why,an explain.then discuss the problem,if your conversation with your ex was over text an you havnt already deleted them then say would you like to see what we were talking about (dont be a smart butt) just be honest an if it was over a phone call tell your bf an look him in the eyes and say "sweetie i wouldnt be here right next to you if i didnt love you, if i wanted to be with someone else then i would be but as you can see im here with YOU..doesnt that say something." we can always say im sorry but to some people its just a word. my bf is hella jealouse/protective an i always have to remind him that im with him if i didnt want to be then i would have left by now.but it also depends on his past relationships i find it easiest to be honest & discuss the problems even if its going to make them mad you may not talk for an hour or so but it helps alot believe me.i tried to help goodluck darlen
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how to say goodnight in a cut yet flirty way
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i dont know i jusst do the tipical goodnight sweetheart. or nighty night darling. hmmm idk the nick names usually makes him smile but his name is joey so i say goodnight joeybear ily or nighty night boo bear. haha sorry this isnt helpful but i try
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He gets a boner by just looking at me, or being around me. I don't have to do anything...is this weird?
He said i just really excite him and just thinking about me has given him a boner.
i didnt think this was possible. lol
he's almost 18. (link)
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ok first i apologize for my horrible spelling.and im sure you already know this..
he just finds you quite attractive, and it makes him excited no its not a bad thing at all actually you should be proud that you can do that to this young man, im sure not many girls can. and its also his hormones because hes still a teenager and not a man yet so his hormones are still going crazy.plus im sure hes haveing some thoughts
my boyfriend who i have been with for a lil over 3years used to be the same exact way we met when i was 15 and he was 16 (im almost 19 and hes about to be 20) we dont get to see each other often because he lives a few hours away now but when i do see him he gets excited like when we were young teenagers which means hes still attracted to me and actually cares about me, over all these years(yea sorry that was useless info) but it may be the same way with you and this young man its completely normal, dont be weirded out be happy you can do it and enjoy it while you can ;) use it to your advantage tease him a lil. its alot of fun.
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