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Conversation Starters For Talking To A Guy That Hates Me
Ok, so this boy who is in my grade, and 12, (I'm 11 soon to be 12) really hates me, and I want to talk to him when Spring Break is over. Unforchanetely, (please exuse my awful spelling) every time I try to practice what I'm going to say in my head, I either get insulted after "hi" or there is a really really awkward silence. What should I say after "hi", asuming it's the awkward silence option? Oh, and a few addition details is that he is always surrounded by a bunch of people and if you didn't figure this out for yourself already, I have a crush on him. Kk, thanks, any advice helps! Just no advice telling me to not talk to him I yet that enough from my friends! Thank you! :D
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first if he insults you everytime you talk to him then obviously theres a problem and u need to figure out what it is. but it could also be that he likes you guys arnt very good at expressing there emotions besides being a jerk. so you should pick out clues. if hes always with a group then hes trying to show off and trying to come off as the "cool kid in school" by being a jerk to others. mmmm starter conversations.. well you can kinda listen in on his conversations with his other friends (i no rude but everyone does it) and see if you have anything in commen and if so then bring that up. like music or sports .dont say hi and just stop that tends to be akward at least for me and im a pretty outgoing person who talks to anybody even if the dont like it. "i say hey im erica how are you today" u can walk up to him and say hey whats going on. dude did you here there new song! i dont know just dont overthink it cause you make yourself nervouse by doing so. if he is single. and you try to talk to him and he is a jerk belike and you wonder why you dont have a girlfriend? theres alot of ways ah and yahooanswers is also a good website for advice. im sure this didnt help much but i tried
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Boys can be really stupid sometimes. The reason why your friends are telling you not to talk to him is because he's a jerk. Guys who insult you aren't worth having around and aren't nice people.
If you really do talk to him, just make small talk like how was your day or tell him about something cool that happened earlier. Or talk about school.
Anyways, don't push yourself on him either. Keep it calm and cool.
I'm pretty sure you can find someone better who won't be so mean and insult you. Those people are a waste of your time.
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Why waste your time with anyone who won't give you the time of day and to be blunt treats you like shit? Not to swear for the sake of swearing but he sounds like a real asshole when you think about it. Why have a crush on someone like that?
For every person who treats you like that there's 20 that will give you the time of day. Trust me, if he hates you now there's no chance in hell he will improve nor want a relationship. I think you shouldn't waste time on him as he's bound to say or do something mean if he finds out.
I would introduce yourself to him and ask him what his freaking problem is when it comes to you just to know for reference and move on hard as it may be and realize the crush is fantasy and reality is he's a jerk.
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