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Three girls can it be one!!
I'm a guy 28 years old staying at South Africa dating three girls so I wanna settle down with one, with the 1st we have been dating for eigth years now,she's working at the clothing store. we did have our ups and downs but we manage to work things out, when I transfered from my home varsity to another province. At my home vasity I had a female friend(recently completed her diploma), was there for her in hard times she had with his boy friend so when she broke up with him and we became too close that laed us to dating, its has been 4 years now we're together but we never made love. Three years down the line while I'm at school in the place that I'm currently staying at meet this girl(working for government) through a friend, didn't tell her that I have two girls at home, but she find out about the 1 I have 8 years with, she told me to 1st sort out my problems then we will take it from there. I didn't fix my problem but now we are together again, I'm scared that if she find out again I will lose her for ever, we have a 2 years now. The thing is with the other two they are far and I hardly go home. My life is here and I wanna work here when I'm done with my doing Btec. Only if I knew what future holds for me I would let 2 of them go, cause its really so unfair what I'm doing to them. Help how can I make things right.
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well dude, sounds like your leading the girls that are at home on. and i mean who knows if they already moved on too, you need to let the 2 at home know that you just want to be friends and that like you said, who knows what the future has to hold. just tell them you want to finish up with your btec and since your so far away and never home its hard on you and must be for them, with you not being there. thats what i would do. long distance relationship are hard and its definitely not okay being with 3 girls...cause if you don't fix things, well you could end up losing them all. just think about it, how would you feel if a girl couldn't decide between you and 2 other guys, its just not fair. goodluck.
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