Question Posted Wednesday February 15 2012, 8:49 pm
i am a 16 year old girl, i recently lost my virginity 14 days ago to be precise. im not in a relationship it was a one night stand, we also used protection but im not taking any other form of contraception. im worried that the condom may have split as we were both very drunk. iv also been experiencing pains and cramps in my lower abdomen, im constantly bloated and have been for days, found blood spots in my underwear, have back ache and experiencing nausea. the first thing that came to my head was 'im pregnant'. i came off my period 2 days before i had sex with the boy, i know he ejaculated and im not due for my period until another week or so. i would like to know if these are signs of early pregnancy?? please help me i do not want to wait to see if i miss a period
Alright no lecturing on how you lost your virginity. First off if you keep thinking you are pregnant your body will make you FEEL that you are pregnant even though your not. If you havnt already looked them up I'll list a fee early pregnancy signs.
1. Missed period( as you know),
2.Just "Feeling" Pregnant
3.Fatigue (tired)
4.Frequent Urination
5.Nausea
6.Dizziness and/or Fainting
7.Food Cravings, or Aversions to Foods
8.Sensitivity to Aromas(outer side of nipples)
9.Heartburn and/or Constipation
10.Mood Swings and Irritability
11.Higher body temp
12.Low back pains
13.Discharge
14. Bloated or weight gain
Actually here's a type website you should check it out
Cause it'll explain each sign believe me iv had these worries quite a few times ( I lost my vCard at 16 as well o am now 18 with the same guy) [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
adviceman49 answered Thursday February 16 2012, 9:44 am: It is really hard to say as everyone's body is different and experiences things differently. You should try a home pregnancy test.
As a parent I will offer you this advice. If you are not pregnant you are really lucky. The first thing you did wrong was to allow yourself to loose your natural inhibitions by drinking. There is a reason young people are restricted from drinking and you are now experiencing one of those reasons.
I'm not going to lecture you on whether you should be having sex. I think had you not drank you would not have had sex. Now that you have you need to think about will you have sex in the future. If the answer is yes or maybe then you need to think about birth control.
By federal law known as HIPPA you do not need parental permission to request birth control from a doctor. Your family doctor may say differently because of the relationship the doctor has with your family but the law says differently.
The law says anyone over the age of 14 may seek medical treatment in total confidentiality. Meaning you and the doctor make speak openly on any subject or anything that is bothering you. None of what you speak to the doctor about, what the doctor examines you for, treats you for may be told to your parents or anyone else without you written permission. This law was expressly written to cover the female reproductive system. So if you want birth control you can ask your doctor for it or go to any women's clinic to get it.
Chances are you are not pregnant. But, every women is fertile during different periods during their menstrual cycle. There is the chance you were fertile and if the condom did break you could have gotten pregnant.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday February 16 2012, 9:34 am: Yes you could be pregnant, but I don't know nor does anyone else 100%. I would wait until you are suppose to get your period if you don't get your period than take a at home pregnant test if it is positive than you will need to contact your doctor to confirm it. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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