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I need advice on first kiss
okay im sorry if this is really long but i need advice -_-
so i have never really "kissed" like i have pecked my past boyfriends on the check but thats all
i am a female and have always been afraid of kissing for weird reasons like i'll mess up , be bad or the guy is just trying to get laid and bulding up
but last night i was at a birthday party an every one had been drinking & everyone had had a bit to drink , so this guy i have had a crush on since i was 11 (i am 15 now) was there and he is 18 but throughout the day he had been telling me i was "ideal" and anyway back to the nightit was abouut 3 in the morning an we were told to go sleep in our tents but he wasn't tiered and i wasn't ethier so we went for a walk an sat down a bit away from the house , we chatted for about an hour and then walked back to the tents cause i was cold and got a big blanket and walked off again an sat in a felid and i could he was feeling me up but it started reall subtle like him playing with my hands an then boobs but then he asked me if i had ever hooked up with i guy an i replyed no so it went quite for a bit but he kept trying to get me to turn my head to face him but i couldnt do it i was to scared an i kept making excuses like i said there was something in the bushes and he just pulled me closer but i don't know
Was this just the alocohl that he was trying to kiss me cause he has a girlfriend (which was another reason i couldt do it) but i might be seeing him next month what if it happens again i really like him an i am kicking myself for not kissing him now but any advice would be great
Thanks (:
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sorry for my spelling,like the other person said. he is taken by someone else so i think you did the right thing your a good person for that. not to nock you down or anything he may have been feeling you up because he was drunk & if you were a lil buzzed he may have thought he could get lucky, or i could be wrong an he actually does like you but obviously he doesnt seem to care much about his girlfriend and i dont think they will be together for much longer they may break up and sense you like him so much you can date but just remember what he did to YoU while he was with the other girl. ahh to the kissing part to be honest i was the same way an my boyfriend made the move(i was 15 at the time now 18still together) with the nice soft gentle kiss my god did i turn red!! but i walked away with the hugest smile. it was nice you can hug him look him in the eyes and go for the kiss but dont be tence you have to be loose if that makes sense? gently kiss his bottem lip or top what ever u like and bite it softly(turns guys on iv found out) then pull away gently. i like to keep my eyes closed when i kiss i say that cause some people kiss with there eyes open and omg the make out i didnt make out untill i was 16 he made the move for that to..i have rejected guys for that soooo many times and when i finally decide to let him make a move i turned my head cause i was nervous and he licked my face yep all on my cheek:/all slobbery and this happend a few times but it was funny i told you that cause if you mess up which could happen it can end up being funny or he may find it cute tell him your a lil nervouse theres nothing wrong with being afraid because i sure was he will understand im not quite sure if this is helpful but i hope everything goes well for you darling :)
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this guy has a girlfriend!!Don't fool around with someone who has a girlfriend weather he has a girlfriend or not!I think you did a good thing!!imagine he comes to you and ask you out and breaks up with his girlfriend.so you you go out and then another girl comes on his way!and this thing will happen to you,other than that he should have been drunk.so don't take him to srs.but If you really like him SO MUCH go and talk to him about it.tell him about the night he was trying to kiss you,ask him about it!!:-)good luck
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