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going to soon
First off I'm in the navy and I'm 20 years old. Me and my fiance have.dated for about 8 months. At the beggining I didn't get off until she did like 2 times. Now honestly minus foreplay I don't last but about 7-8 minutes of straight going at it. Why is this?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
Now i don't know if you are a guy or a girl so i'm not going to spit statistics at you like the other guy did. BUT... i will tell you, the whole staying horny thing is great. I mean who doesn't want a lover that lasts. BUT maybe look into what makes her finish and what makes you finish coordinate it. Then maybe you can even finish at the same time.
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Your normal. The average male last from 3 to 5 minutes. If you are lasting 7 to 8 minutes you are above average.
There are somethings you can research to make yourself last longer. One such thing is the use of desensitizing creams. The other alternative is to spend more time on foreplay to get your fiance more excited so she gets her two orgasms before you get off.
One other suggestion I can make is that you and your fiance talk to each other about likes and dislikes about sex. Like most males I thought my wife when we first met was like most female and vaginal in her stimulation. Turns out she is clitoral. She had to tell me this as I was, like most males, unaware. Sure I knew you had to stimulate the clit but felt the vagina was the seat of pleasure for a woman.
Once we had that discussion we spent time relearning about each others bodies. She showed me where she was most sensitive and how she liked to be touched and stimulated in those places. I in turn showed her where I was most sensitive and how I liked to be touched.
It was the best thing we have ever done for ourselves. I always include communications as part of recommendations for a good sex life.
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