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I Can't Fight... After 7 years of bullying what can I do?
People want to fight me and they make fun of me.I want to fight them to make them stop saying ''your to scared,you(CENSORED)retard,ect'',but something in my head stops me. I could when I was in grade 1-3 now I can't,but I really want to.This is going on still 7 years and counting so don't say ''its good to not fight'' What else could I do?
It also made me pretty much emotionless.
(I don't feel scared,happy,pain anymore just revenge.)
Before you say your just nice,this making fun of me thing lasted 7 years and counting...I'm not happy.
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I am not going to tell what you asked not to hear but I can tell you that I can relate to what your going through.
I was bullied for 11 years and to make matters worse? They LIVED IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD. So when you think you have it wicked bad just remember there is always someone out there that has or had it much worse off then you do.
Really the best thing you can do is talk to an adult and let them know what's bothering you. If punks are threatening to beat you up then like a user below me said consider some martial arts or a self defense class. Trust me they don't hurt I was in karate for 7 years. The only thing you need to know is that self defense can only be used in a self defending manner not out of anger to get revenge. If your parents aren't an option then try talking to a school counselor or even a therapist to vent too.
Still don't think I had it worse then you did?
I couldn't ride my bike around the block because if I did I'd have rocks throw at me, I've had metal gate locks tossed at me as well. It was hell, Not to mention there was not one but 7 bullies all at the same time. Yes, I had it pretty bad but it wasn't the end of the world. ;) Now I'm in college and 4 of the old punks live at home jobless. Karma's a real bitch isn't it?
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The solution is that you learn how to scrap. Ideally you should find a real mixed martial arts gym or boxing gym and receive formal training. If that is not possible search youtube for videos on grappling and stand-up techniques. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai is a good combination.
Find a buddy to practice with and develop your technique. It is also important to develop your mind. You should have a warrior mindset. Read about and understand Bushido. Live the way of the warrior.
When you do this you will achieve enlightenment and realize revenge is not the answer and fighting should only be done defensively.
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why don't you talk to an adult about it they will understand and will fix the problem
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