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I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!
Thanx,
~lost lover~
NO NO NO. It doesn't really help you. Think about it. Your cutting your flesh, hurting yourself, how is that going to make anything better? I know it's hard, but you can't run away from your problems, you can't go the easy way out. You have to be strong, not only for your friends, but for you. You sound like your young too, and trust me, there are going to be many many guys in your life, one broken heart, is just the beginning. You have to learn how to deal with your problems. Always be around people that love you and care about you. Try to spend more time hanging out with friends, and just having fun! Please, you have to be strong!!! There are more fish in the sea. A good idea to do, is to stay away from this guy and have no contact with him, until your sure your over him, Because if you see him and talk to him all the time, it's going to be a lot worse on you. Give yourself time. Life is tough, everyone's been in your position at one point or the other. Guys are not worth hurting yourself over!!! Having a broken heart sucks, no one likes it. ~good luck~
okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
Right now, your still not sure if your mom saw it or not since she hasn't said anything...Yet...Maybe it opened on it's own in the washer?? You could tell your parents the truth. Your not having sex, but you have a condom just in case anything goes to far? Or you can tell them they were giving them away in school, teaching students to have protective sex?? (that's if your in high school)...Good luck!
dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-sign, flat as a wall
Everyone's body type is different. Everyone develops at different times and ages... Trust me, not even super models are happy with their bodies. You will never find anyone completely happy with their body. Since your mother grew at a slow rate, it makes sense why your like that. Your probably growing at a slow rate as well...But, if you really want, you could get those types of bras that have gels or little water filled cups to make them look bigger and if someone accidentially touches you, they feel real too so you wouldn't have to worry! *hope i help*
MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do?
You need to talk to him. Face to face not over the phone or IMs. You really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel honestly. People say things they don't mean when their mad, just like you did and now he's doing it back to you. At this time in his life, I think he needs you there for him...Maybe he's going through rough times, if he's trying to kill himself, the last thing you should do is piss him off and get him more depressed....Be there for him, talk to him!
I have a spot right below my lip on the bottom left. My boyfriend probably wont kiss me until it's gone so does anyone know any good, reliable home remedies to get rid of it quickly and easily? Thank you.
I heard toothpaste works.
There was a kid in our school who was 14 and he died. Many Ppl knew him so our school has this big assembly, we didn't have to go to class for weeks, we didn't have to do any work or anything like that. 6 months after that when one of my Verry close friends died, it was like the teachers and schoolboard didn't even care. My mom told them my friend and i were upset that there was nothing for him..no assembly..and a ton of work. it wasnt fair.. They told my mom they weren't going to do anything because "nobody signed a sign we made" but 100's of kids signed it! its bullshit! and its not fair.. what can i say to the school people to make them at least have an optinal assembly!
Make a petition or just get a bunch of people to protest at school with you! ~good luck really~
ok. the other day my one friend went and sent me a link that said xanga and a couple other links that said buddy4uprofile and all so i thought they were all her info stuff. so i clicked on them alll and it came up that they were a bunch of porno sites and 3 of em i think were lesbian sites. I clicked outta them as soon as i realized wut they were and yelled at her for it. Well, today my mom woke up and yelled at me for them becuz she gets emails telling her what i go on. Well, now she thinks i am a lesbian even tho she says she believe me i kno neither of my parents do becuz my dad always. and i mean always says he loves me when he leaves to take her to work and he didnt until i said i love you too. I know they think im a lesbian and that they hate me even tho im not. i hate this and i dont want them thinking this. I told them a hundred times what happened and theyre like, "wut did the advicenato people tell u to say that." what do i do to make them believe me?
Bring home guy friends and get one of them to act as your boyfriend...Then once they see that your not really a lesbian, you could pretend you dumped your "boyfriend" and everything would go back to normal again! Or you can ask your friend (the one that sent you those sites) to talk to your parents for you and explain that she really did send you those sites
My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
Don't do anything. You can't change your brother. You can't change ignorant people's minds. Show them it doesn't bother you when they say stupid things about your brother. Eventually they'll stop. (I'm sure there only doing that to piss you off anyway) Or you can let them meet your brother. Once they see how a cool guy your brother is, they'll stop.
I met this guy back in September over the computer.He is from the same state as me and he lives pretty close too.I'm really in love with him,and he loves me too.He is the sweetest guy I've ever met.He treats me so right.Yet I get upset with him alot and we fight.He calls me every day and we talk online.The only thing I hate is that he has a girlfriend from another state who lives like 4 1/2 hours away and they never see each other.I'm always getting mad at him over that.He told me he wants to marry me in 2009.I don't know what I'm suppose to do.Should I get over the fact he has a girlfriend,and that I probably won't have a chance with him? Please help me,I'm not sure about what I should do.
I'd appreciate the help...Thank you!
Hey, this guy is totally unfair. I'm sure he was feelings for you, but you shouldn't wait around for him...Honestly, if he really cares about you and is planning to marry you, than he should be with YOU!!! Not the other girl.
i have a friend that has recently become bi. she always tells me that i look hot, and she always comes around and slaps my ass. it's starting to bother me. what should i say to her? becuz i cant take it for much longer..!
Tell her honestly how you feel. If she's your friend, she'll understand...You could also explain to her that you respect her being bi but that you aren't, so you feel uncomfortable when she touches you...~good luck~
does anyone know the lyrics to blessed be the name?
Try going to www.azlyrics.com or www.lyrics.com
Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz.
Call her!!! Call her and get to know her, then ask her out! ~good luck!~
aight my b.f is being really immature and sometimes i think he flirts with other people too, and i mean i flirt too but ahh i dunno. but then on the other hand he's really sweet at times and his kisses are amazing. but im not really sure if all of me is in this. what do you think?
Before you think of breaking up with him, I think you need to talk to him. Tell him exactly how you feel. You have to remember guys will be guys and they'll always be immature. All of them!!! But, if you don't like him flirting with other girls, then you shouldn't flirt with other guys because that's not fair.
hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long??
Maybelline is great! Although it's liquid. It lasts up to eight hours! Anyways, The kind I use (which is obvisously Maybelline), is an oil-free foundation, so it doesn't clog your pores, so you don't break out!!!
i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13
It really doesn't matter if your friends are shorter or smaller. Their bodies are changing (going through puberty). Maybe your body isn't ready yet? Trust me, enjoy your life now before you get it! It's a pain in the ass! But honestly some girls don't even get their period until their 16.
Ok hi my name is ashlee and im 13 years old. Anyways I really would like to wear makeup and stuff like that but i have a little acne. Its going away now because I just started using my acne medication right. Bad on my part I know. Wouldnt it look bad if there was like little bumps in the makeup though? What is the best foundation or powder that wont cause you to break out? Also, I've noticed alot of people having Coach bags and Gucci bags and dont they cost alot of money? Is there like some place where they dont cost alot that I dont know about? Thanks. Also I would like an honest opinion. I will rate high if I feel that you have tried.
Foundation only covers the redness from ance and help hide little imperfections. Using foundation will help hide your ance but of course there's going to be bumps. Don't use powder, because it looks flaky. Try Covergirl Foundation. They have this new kind out, it looks good, maybe you can try that! And all those people that have Coach, Gucci and Louis Vitton (*spelling) aren't real. Their fake. The real ones are soo expensive, but I know a lot of people with those and their fake. If you want one, just try going to any mall, they've have them! ~hope i helped~
I have these dark circles under my eyes. They're huge though, and I can't cover it with makeup! They go from my nose (by my eyes), and go down in a round motion (which lines up with the end of my nose). They fade as they go down. How do I get rid of it??
They have creams that you use right before you go to bed, it helps get rid of those dark circles. Try going to a drugstore, you can find them there. Or, you can try using teabags, put them over your eyes for like 20 minutes each day. That helps too.....~Good Luck~
im friends with all these guys and when im around them they always tickle me but sometimes it isnt in the right spot like either right under my breasts or where my hips are...i told them 2 stop and they listened and all but when i was with this one guy lets call him bob. well i was talking to bob and we were talking about sex and i felt really comfortable with him but then next thing i know we're at his house and we start making out.... i dont have a bf so it dosnt matter but at first we were in his car and then we went to the family room and sat on the couch i told him that i like him and he said u only like me and im like yea and he said well i love you i stoped talking and i was sorta scared but then i kissed him and said i love you too. i took his hand and asked him where his room was but when we were walking we were kissing and all but when we made it too his room my pants were already off and his shirt was off but right when he was gonna turn the doorknob we found his friends and i ran in the family room bob came back out and he said he really didnt know they were there and i said ok but now all my guy friends look at me different because they have seen my ass and shit bc i was wearing a thong and when im around them they always ask me dosnt it hurt and sometimes they mean with the thong or sex
i need to know how to make them shut up!!!
HELP!
THANX
I think you should just ignore them. Don't talk to them for awhile. Let them realize that they've been acting like jerks because if they were your friends and they know how you feel about it, they shouldn't bring it up. Or if that doesn't work, pants them!!! Then they'll be joking about that and forget about joking about you.
I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to?
How did this "question" get through the Admin? I'm sorry, but that was a waste of my time. A free lollipop? Now, who cares?
13/f
hey i wear contacts and i really want colored ones..but im not sure what color would look good on me..is there any way to try it out without buying them first..? Oh and if you think you know a good color..please let me know..I am indian with tan skin..dark brown hair and i have dark brown eyes! thanks!
Yeah, you can go to the contact store and they'll let you try them on to see if you like them. A really really good colour for you would be "gray". That colour really matches people with tan to dark skin. It doesn't look fake either because it really really matches. It'll look so hot on you. Go and try them, I know you'll like them! (I wear that colour!)