I go by Ahnee, to some. and you.
I live in Orange County CA, and it's not as great as it seems. it's just as shady as everywhere else but we're polite enough to keep it behind closed doors. Great.
I'm in highschool.
I have an opinion on just about EVERYTHING, but won't give it to you unless you ask.
I talk to people.
Sometimes i can just be a brutally honest bitch, don't ask me a question you don't want a real answer to. I refuse to coat my thoughts in sugar
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15/f
so i just found out the love of my life is goin away for 6 months. we were together for a month then we broke up but we still acted like we were together u know kissing and everything. he told me today that he was goin away. he wants to have sex and so do i but do you think this is rite?? so you think im gonna git my heart broken? all my friends think so but thats just because they dont know him. by the way im a virgin so this will be my first time. PLEASE HELP!!!! (link)
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sorry but i wouldnt suggest it, especially your first time. If you want to do it it should be because you really feel it's right, and right now you don't seem too sure. This does seem like it's going to lead to a broken heart if you do sleep with him, not because he wants it to be that way but the situation isn't very good for you.
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OK, this is kinda like my other question but more centered around him. He is my best friend and im really starting to like him. But I think he likes the school queen. Im 13 years old and in grade 8. Can you guys give me advice wether or not he likes me. This is what weve done in the past 3 or so months.
ok everyday we like talk all the time. whenever im outside his class he'll give me a big smile and then when the teachers not looking playfully stick out his toungue at me he trusts me alot and asks for advice all the time he likes my worst enemy We sometimes pretend to be mad at eachother and start pushing eachother
at voleyball he said i should get the best player of the night reward cause of my lovely smile
dunno umm a few times weve been caught holding hands we give eachother hugs sometimes one time i got soaked at his house and he let me change into his sister's pj's and let me lean against him to get warm we always sit beside eachother he seems to love making me laugh and defends me quite a bit
yea my friend says were flirting with eachother. Is this true? And do u think he likes me?
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this does sound like flirting yes. but if you think he's interested in other girls maybe he's just playful. me and my guy friend play around like that all the time but we'd never get together. but if you like this guy, and he does seem like he likes you, and you guys have a good amount of trust with eachother, maybe you should try getting a little closer
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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch (link)
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You should just bring up her birthday to him, like "hey, ****'s birthday is this weekend, remember her? she's having a party, you should go" maybe make some small talk if you do want to start talking to him again. if he's up for it, i don't see how hanging out can hurt. but keep in mind he is dating another girl, it doesn't seem worth it since he is still on and off with the girl he cheated on you with already. Now, i don't go by the "once a cheater always a cheater" thing because people change, but this guy doesn't seem like good news. Id say leave the past in the past and move on
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does anyone know where i can get eyeshadow like Brenda Song in Wendy Wu [like the purple eyeshadow] or something like it? thank yoU! =] (link)
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MAC for sure, they're kind of expensive but worth it. and actually, Hot Topic has some good make-up like that sometimes, even if you're not the "type" of person to go into a place like that check it out.
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I hav just got in to high school from my small (100 people) primary. My friends are nice but they have this sort of dark side. When ever I do well at school or sport or talk to the girls, when i come back to them the act different and more negitive around me. One day I they pissed me off so bad.
Later when I went on the in ternet a (guess what) a sex pop-up came. Being immature I clicked it. Wow i thought when it came up. I've heard of porn but not on this lv. I also visited it again but stoped because i (dunno) said this wasnt 4 me. Also when I get pissed or sad in my sleep i have dreams of sex and get an erection and allot of feelings. so thats what happens. Its wierd.... When at school things r going bad..... i think and sometimes want sex bad.......why GOD WHY!!!! (link)
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ok jealous friends suck and should be let go. but im more focused on the other part of this question.
First of all, sex/masturbation are stress releivers. guys wake up with erections all the time (often referred to as "morning wood" if you didnt know). plus, guy's are usually thinking about sex anyway. you're normal, don't worry about it.
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not to offend anyone. but if youre a virgin right, and then like you get raped.. and then later on you were asked if youre a virgin or not, would you say yes or no? (link)
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no, you're not. but you can be a "born again virgin" no matter how lame it sounds. alot of people who claim to be saved or enter in a stricter religion sometimes do this. It really depends on who is asking. if it is for medical purposes then yes, you should tell them you're not if the hymen is broken. however if it's just a random person, why even bother explaining?
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So, next week i'm going to a Reel Big Fish concert with the guy I like. I'm just now getting into ska music, and I want to fit in with this guy and his friends. What clothes do I wear that won't make me look like an idiot? Because even though now I'm listening to this music that I'm starting to love, I have no idea what the "look" is supposed to be. Basically I want to look like I have a clue what's going on.
Thanks,
Sweets (link)
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theyre big on checkers (like black and white checkered things) and flat, probably slip-on, shoes. but theres no real dressing up for a ska show. you just want something you can skank in (aka ska dancing)
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Ok well.... let's say that all of my frieds agree that i should become a doctor when i grow up. It runs in the family, so I know alot about health and such. another reason why I think I should become a doctor, is that in science class in school today, we dissected a Sheeps Brain, and a Cow's eyeball!!! and I was really good, even some of the guys asked me to help them!
what's the problem right??????????
welllll... I'm good at dissecting, and good at health BUUUT.. I CAN'T HANDLE BLOOD!!!!!!!
whenever i look at blood, i get all grossed out!
so how can i become a doctor if i cant even look at blood???
soo my question is... does anybody have any ways to be able to handle blood??? I look at the tv show ER sometimes.. but I just get all pale! HELP ME PLEASE!!!
16/f
PS: dont tell me to choose another job, or that i'm too young to even start thinking about choosing jobs.... i've made up my mind about this! (link)
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well my dads friend went to medical school for 7 year only to discover he couldnt stand blood either and basically it was 7 years of school down the drain. but there are people you can contact (like therapists almost) that can help you overcome your fear of blood. I don't know exactly how to contact these people but id try google or something
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well before basketball practice everyday i go like a hour and a half early, well my crush stays after for the weight room. & we contantly like play fight, and stuff. Well he had hit me to i went to run away and he chased me, then he cornered me in a doorway. & put his nose to mine then kissed me and we had started making out. Then i kept being a tease and either not kissing back or grabbing his hand leading him away, slipping a little tounge and pulling away again. Then hes like can i use your cell phone to call my mom, I was like no and i smiled & then we started to kiss somemore. Then we walked out of the hallway we were in and a bunch were down at the other end then his friend jake was like are you to dating and I was like ask him & then I went to practice. Do you think I was to easy, he knows I like him alot & do you think were dating ? (link)
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its not that you're easy, you guys were playing around and you've known him for more than like...a minute so it doesnt make you easy. as for the dating thing, i wouldnt say you were unless you guys have actually gone out someplace or he's tried to make it sem-official somehow. but this really could be the beginning of something, i hope so he sounds cute ha
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well okay on thursday night my mom picked my sister and i up from my gradmas house at 1am, even though so was supposed to pick us up around 8:30. she was so drunk, and i was scared to get in the car. my sisters 7 and was asleep so i carried her outside with me. i get in the car and my mom goes crazy for NO REASON! she's being so mean, and i asked her why are you doing this to yourself? and she called me names. we got out of the car when we were home and i was on the phone with my gram and she hit me in the face and tried to get my cell phone, but i ran down street until she got inside, then i went in and ran up in my dads room (the attick.) he has a lock in the inside that i locked it. and sooo, she comes upstairs and trys to open in and calls me EVERYTHING in the world. a cunt, she hopes i was never born, ALL FOR NOTHING! as i was on the phone with my gram she heres everything. my dad comes home from work bout 1:45 and my moms passed out in her room and my sister is forced to sleep with her. she hurt me sooo badly, and i got no sorry. i wanna move out more then anything in the world. since then we haven't even talked. even before this TERRIBLE DRUNK DISASTER she was always so rude and treated me so much different then my sister. i don't like her, and i need help. sorry this is longg. (link)
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it looks like your mother has a drinking problem. people need to know that alcoholics don't necessarily drink every minute of the day, its the amount they drink and why theyre drinking in the first place. You need to basically have a mini intervention. talk to your father about it and decide to talk to her about this. explain what she does and how it makes you feel when she drinks. You shouldn't have to deal with this anymore expecially since it's turned physically violent. if all else fails, you need to tell someone like Social Services because this is child abuse and makes her an unfit mother right now.
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one of my breast is smaller than the other. Is that normal? (link)
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theres only a problem when one breast has a 2 cup size difference from the other, otherwise every girl is like that (every girl without fake breasts that is, and even then you never know)
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I had my period almost two years ago and I nevr developed. No size increase in my breasts, no curves, just growing hair and that's it. Other girls in my class had their period this year and they already developed (and I would be lying if I didn't say that boy's are starting to get attention form their breasts). I don't think it's the normal "you're just a slow developer" because that's way to long to not develope anything and I'm too scared to talk to my doctor about it because he's a guy. Do you think it's a serious problem and that it'll effect my body in a bad way like getting cancer or something? Yes, stupid question but I'm serious. (link)
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you know some girls just take a while. like my mother for example had basically no curves or breasts or anything 'till she was like 15 or so, and even then it wasnt an insanely noticeable change, then she had two kids and now her boobs are huge. but my mother isnt the point. the periods thing, thats up in the air because young girls often have irregular periods. i used to have mine for over 2 and a half weeks then it wouldnt come again for 2 and a half months. you just never know till you get older. you could ask your doctor about it if you think its really serious though.
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What kind of shoes do i wear with leg warmers?
I bought a cute pair of cream colored leg warmers at hollister and i thought they would look really nice with my tan mini skirt from american eagle but i wasnt sure with what kind of shoes look okay because everything i can think of sounds dumb
any suggestions? (link)
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ok i may be the only one who thinks they look cute with a short skirt and heels but i think they do. but yes, ballet flats are cute with them also
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What is Magmum/Blue STeel (link)
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Magnum and Blue steel are like...expressions hahaha (zoolander hells yes)
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ok so i was drunk at my friends house and so was her brothers friend...we will just call him trav... and we were flirting all night until i went to talk to my friend. she said that she was really protective of him but i just left and when i got inside trav grabbed me and kissed me, several times. we have been talking ever since but my friend doesnt want us to be together because she is protective of him. We want tobe together but neither of us wants to hurt her. and she doesnt like him. What should i do? (link)
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ok i was in almost this exact situation. your friend has a certain view of this guy, most of it having to do with certain situations she has had with him which isn't portraying his real self but a tainted version.
You need to do what you want and not let your friends opinion get in the way unless she really truly believes he would hurt you, but keep in mind that people change
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okayyy. well this is getting pretty complicatedd. I'm 15/f freshman. so theres these 3 guys. im not sure which one i like or which one i actually should like because theres a flaw with each one.
1- freshman- he is new to our school but in two months he is moving back to texas and we live in pennsylvania. we both like eachother but for those two months he is getting home schooled. i have no idea why but that means that i will never see him and if i do it wont be alot and only for a month or so but he is the cutest kid ever and i really like him. he is so nice and cute and aahhhh. but hes moving.
2- sophmore- me and him had a thing in the summer which ended as nothing more then many hook ups. he claims that he likes me a lot and all this crap but i dont know if i want to believe that or if he just wants to hook up again. i like him also but im worried that is all he wants. i like being around him becuase we always have fun and i can be myself around him most of the time. and we kid around is that cute little flirty way and i love it.
3- senoir- we're crazy about eachother but he's 18 and we've already talked and we realized that we probably couldn't go out. i would want to be with him more then anyone of them but thats the problem. he's in a band and he's perfect. nice, amazingly funny, sings to me, always makes me laugh, calls me all the time just to talk, and knows just about everything about me.
--when ever the sophmore calls me the senoir gets really jealous but i think its cute but they really hate when i talk to either of them. the freshman doesn't mind much. we aren't as close as the other two though.
i dont know what to do.
i want to be with #3 more then
anything but its like sorta illegal
right? what am i supposed to do? (link)
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Senior. for many reasons obviously. and no it's not illegal unless you guys are having sex and someone presses charges (such as your parents).
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do guys like it better when your completely shaved down there? thankss. (link)
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it really does depend on the guy. some want it completely shaved others say "if i wanted it to look like a 10 year old girl's id go find one". so whatever floats your boat
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Riiight...
I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.
Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...
The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.
The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds really disgusting for her. I would never make ANY girl do that for me". She says it doesn't bother me, but I don't know...
What you have to understand is that it's not her, it's me. I love and trust her indefinitely, it's issues I just have with myself. I think I also feel a little insecure about my body... I'm also afraid, however, that if I continuously pass something like this up, I'll just never be ready no matter how old I get.
Please don't answer this from a religious standpoint, and don't just say "talk to her" because I'm already doing that. She'd like an answer by Saturday.
Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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I wonder why she wants to do it for you so badly if you're not even sure about it yourself. I mean, it's usually for the guy anyway. But, i do think you should bring up your insecurities with her, being open is key.
I always say this but if it feels right, then do it safely. Plus, this girl sounds like she kind of knows what she's doing so theres not much you have to worry about with that one.
by the way, pressuring you even a little bit isn't going to make things any easier on you, maybe she could consider that
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Well last year i dated this guy and he was kinda my first boyfriend. And we went out like 4 times and i dumped him 4 times. So ever since I broke-up with him. I kinda had no feelings for anybody(i mean crush not like friends) and i`m sure i have no feelings for my ex boyfriend because he spreads bad rumors about me since i dumped him. is this normal and what should i do? (link)
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yeah it's normal. there's no by-the-book way to deal with relationships no matter how much people try to tell you there is. Just do what you want and let whatever happens happen, don't try to plan out things too seriously. plus, ignore the rumors your ex is spreading, he needs to move on and get a life. Dont rush into thing just because you think they're expected of you.
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f/13
hey this is embarasing to say (and i'm not sure if it's normal) but i got hair everywhere on my body. Not jsut where girl grow hair when they get puberty but on my face like the cheeks, my back, my whole front, everywhere and it seems kinda nasty and wrong because i htought only boys have hair everywhere but sometimes i'm confused of my sexuality because i'm pretty sure girls don't grow hair everywhere like me. I'm practically a monkey now! which products should I use to get rid of hair in certain areas? i shaved my public hairs but it's always red now and irrating. i heard about people putting hair removing cream (whatever that is) but I don't know if it can rip or wreck my skin of I wax since the skin there is sensitive and delicate (link)
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well first i'd go to a doctor and see if your estrogen and testosterone are in balance, this could be the source of your problems and there may be a way to fix it for a longer time than waxing would. waxing is good for most areas though. but dont shave anything on your face, seriously it will just make it worse when it grows back in (no not thicker like people think, just more obvious and it'll grow faster than if you were to just wax it).
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