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I think I like my best guy friend but he doesnt like me (I t


Question Posted Friday November 10 2006, 11:56 pm

OK, this is kinda like my other question but more centered around him. He is my best friend and im really starting to like him. But I think he likes the school queen. Im 13 years old and in grade 8. Can you guys give me advice wether or not he likes me. This is what weve done in the past 3 or so months.

ok everyday we like talk all the time. whenever im outside his class he'll give me a big smile and then when the teachers not looking playfully stick out his toungue at me he trusts me alot and asks for advice all the time he likes my worst enemy We sometimes pretend to be mad at eachother and start pushing eachother
at voleyball he said i should get the best player of the night reward cause of my lovely smile
dunno umm a few times weve been caught holding hands we give eachother hugs sometimes one time i got soaked at his house and he let me change into his sister's pj's and let me lean against him to get warm we always sit beside eachother he seems to love making me laugh and defends me quite a bit

yea my friend says were flirting with eachother. Is this true? And do u think he likes me?


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Ahnee answered Sunday November 12 2006, 2:19 am:
this does sound like flirting yes. but if you think he's interested in other girls maybe he's just playful. me and my guy friend play around like that all the time but we'd never get together. but if you like this guy, and he does seem like he likes you, and you guys have a good amount of trust with eachother, maybe you should try getting a little closer

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mitsugi answered Saturday November 11 2006, 8:18 am:
Honestly, the best advice I can give you is talk with him. If you're really close, then you should trust each other.

In my case, I couldn't talk with him face-to-face so I did it over the internet. When the talk was over, I confirmed that he didn't like me, but somehow I always felt jealous before when he was with other girls, coz he seemed to care so much for me. Guys are like that, sometimes.

But after the talk, I was so relieved. I didn't realize how unhappy I was, but when I talked to him and we worked it out, I'm much better. At first, I asked him not to go near me because I might fall for him again, but after a few weeks or months, I decided that I could finally deal with him and we're close friends again now, with so less of the pressure, for me.

So what I advise you is that you should get it together now, because you don't want to be affected when you find out that he likes other girls and flirts with them. You have to ask him or it'll get more difficult because you'll fall harder for him as time goes on.

Oh, and to answer your question, he is flirting with you. I asked my guy best friend (the one I liked) if he was, and he said, yes, but he didn't like me in that way.

I'm not saying you guys will end up together or not, but you can be surer of your feelings toward each other and you'll be happier that way. :)

Good luck and God bless!

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