HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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alirght im a male and 16 and usually i know what im doing around girls but this time im in a hole,well me and this girl were going out awhile back and she dumped me and it didnt bother me,but the next day she was all over me again(well apparently she doesnt know that doing that hurts) anyways she did this the rest of the school year until about the last week then she just stopped.Well now to the question recently shes been inviting me just about everywhere cause we are freinds but than she messages me saying things that well lead me to believe she liked me so then the most recent time we were hanging out with a group of people and a kid pulled up to a car well you could tell she was trying to make me look at her cause she was doing "certain thing" i will not speak of but nothin dirty,but next thing i know i turn around from talkin to someone and shes all over him and i mean kissin and all of that but she wpuld stop and flirt with me a little bit but go right back to him and she continued the back and fourth. i think it was trying to make me jealous but i let you figure that out.
Apparently people dont understand that makes people mad not wanting them.
thanks for the advice i may get. (link)
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she is definetly DEFINETLY trying to get you jealous,its so obvious.i mean,she stopped being all over you all of a sudden because she decides...you know what,i have a better way to make him notice me.so she kisses that guy and flirts with him in hope that you still didnt get over her and that you would come outta nowhere yelling at her and telling her not to kiss him so she can get the feeling that you still like her.anywayz dont give her ANY attention and itll piss her off more like....if she kisses another dude or flirts with him and comes flirting with you,act all normal as if nothing happened,if you act mad that she was flirting with the other guys she get stuck on you more.and when she flirts with other guys dont look at her AT ALL(itll piss her off and shell give up)
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My friend is mad at me. We are both thirteen. And we are both girls. She has been calling me names. I keep telling her that she's acting like a five-year-old. And every time I email her she keeps saying I'm acting dumb and weird... and up until now she's stopped talking to me. What should I do? (link)
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she cant be mad at you for no reason,its just impossible.you need to ask her whats been up and find out why shes mad at you,its the only way youre going to know whats wrong.mabey someone told her something about you that isnt true,you never know thats why you have to ask her,
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i have curly hair and i'm really sick of itt. sometimes i think its cute, but other times i feel like its just frizzy and not attractive. what are some cute styles i could use? please don't suggest straightening it, because it takes a long, long time & with my straightener, it doens't work that well. i already know the basic hair styles so please suggest some good ones =] thankyouu (link)
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yeah visit this website http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/
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In the song "Buttons" by the Pussycat Dolls what does it mean to 'loosen up my buttons' lol caus i know it doesnt literally mean to undo like pants buttons? yeah i feel like a retard but oh well... (link)
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yeah you got it right,to undo their buttons
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16/F,this girl who use to bully me so badly in 5th grade continues to gossip and say all of this crap about me in high school. Because of her actions, I've had a low self-esteem.
I could care less about what she says or thinks about me cause her opinions don't matter to me at all. Usually, I'll just ignore her and I won't let it bother me. I was willing to forget about the past and forgive her but she just refuses. I think that she is really immature for holding a grudge against me for so long. My best friend told me that she could be jealous or she needs to pick on someone to make herself feel better. But, I'm wondering what is her problem and why do you think she continues to do this? (link)
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shes obviously mad jealous of you,because mabey there a guy she liked that thought you were pretty or something.she wants to get attention in any way possible cuz you are probably more popular.but in the end the only attention shes getting is ppl calling her a 2 faced hippocrit for talking about you.forget about her man,if she wants to be jealous she can stay jealous
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Is there a certain way you give a hand job? You didn't exactly specify. (link)
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im sorry i didnt really try it before
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me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!
PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:( (link)
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you shouldnt have said that you guys are going out if you know he been cheatin on you,anywayz thats not important now.....hes playing with you and doesnt like you or eles why would he come telling you he has a girlfreind??he only hangs out with you because he likes the attention from all sides and is arrogant.you should call him up and say...you know what?im dumping you....as mean as it is...he didnt give a damn about hurting your feelings when he said he has a girlfreind so why should you.forget about him because even if he DOES have a new girlfreind hes never going to succed in a realationship cuz hell be like im sorry i found a hotter girl,you cant trust this guy he is totally unpredictable.you need to find a guy that treats you the way you desserve to be treated and dont worry about getting over him,time heals everything
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How do you give a hand job? (link)
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you touch and feel a guys "thing"
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okay, i'm 14/f and there's someone that i like, but he's 2 years younger than me. is it okay to like or date someone 2 years younger? it seems kind of weird, but it's not that big of a difference and in fact i think my parents are 2 years apart. thanks (link)
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yeah it is weird a lil(no offence)cuz the guy should be your age or older so he can be more mature and know how to treat you and be more experienced than you.for your parents its ok cuz theyre a lot older and are experienced and know how to treat eachother but this guy is 12.its not a big age differenc and age usually dosent matter but i think hes too young to even be in a realationship and isnt ready i think you should wait till hes a teenager at least.
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Wearing a thong will make me feel sexy around guys i know im only 13 but just about everyone wears a thong in my school that my age. Should i just go off and buy one or should i tell my mom i want one. Im afraid shell think im a slut because she dosent want me to date yet but i do behind her back. (link)
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wearing a thong isnt slutty at all,it makes you feel feminine and if you dont wear it,who will?lol.i think you should buy one if you want it,its not gonna show anywayz its not like your gonna walk around with it!ok your mom might not want you to date but wearing a thong isnt dating.tell your mom if you want unless itll get you in trouble with her.
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im 16/f and this guy is 14 i know age difference but i dont care..
i started to kinda like this guy before he got a girlfriend. we always flirted and he would touch me and we would wrestle and i would get on top of him but then when i find out he asked this girl out that he liked i was kinda..heartbroken (link)
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he obviously took you as a freind while you didnt.he probaly just flirts with you to make you like him more although he doesnt,im sure he got the point that you liked him by all that flirting but i think you should find someone eles.flirt with another guy and it will really help you to get over this guy.u guys just wont work out,admiration has to come from both sides or eles itll be very painful.you can change the way you feel for him,like you can like him like a freind or take him as a younger bro or something,cuz guys dont always tend to find a girl thats older than them.get over him by hanging out with your freinds more and different guys cuz liking him obviously wont get you noowhere....what if you tell him you like him and he says he likes you as a freind??ull be devastated!so 4get it.
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I am a female and I am a virgin. If my boyfriend has cum or precum on his hand and fingers me, can I become pregnant? I really need to know this as soon as possible! Please help! (link)
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if he fingers you while he has cum on his fingers its 50/50 chance BUT you say youre a virgin so he didnt pop your cherry right?so its a mabey
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okay.. well this is a huge problem for me and has been going on for a while now but is getting worse.. for the past two days ive been eating almost nonstop & its hard for me to stop when i do.. its crazy.. im normally not like this.. i dont know what to do. ive tried everything.. it might be lack of sleep but then again how do all those movie stars that maybe get 4 hours of sleep & hardly eat!! I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO AND REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS.
p.s. im thinking maybe its just im so bored!! i dont know what to do. (link)
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there are so much reasons as to why you eat a lot.one reason could be that you have been on a strict diet and prevented yourself from everything then one day you just couldnt take it anymore and ate it all,its not good to go on diets that prevent junk food completly cuz youll stop for a while then go crazy.another reason could be that you watch a lot of tv and eat,eating infront of the tv makes you just eat and eat and not even notice it.another reason is that you can be bored,you just cant find anything to do so you eat and last reason is sometimes when ppl are sad they take it out on the food.so in order to stop this you have to arrange your meals breakfast and lunch and you dont have to eat dinner its much healthier and you can eat a lil junk but not too much good luck
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Hi everyone, this is the first time im trying this site, but my situation has gotten so serious, i really need some advice from outsiders. Im a 18 year old male.
Alright, the situation is that at our college we have this group of friends that we all hang out in. We are all a pretty close knit group, go to the movies together, lime at each others houses etc.. In this group there are a few relationships, one of which is Julia and Danny. They were in this constant on and off sort of thing for 3 years, he would break it off to give her space and they used to fight all the time. One time when it was off, me and Julia started talking alot, some flirting started and she eventually told me she liked me and i admitted i did to. I had liked her but was always afraid to admit it. Anyways, things took off from there and everything was great. She still didnt want to commit so soon after ending a 3 year relationship..which i understood..so we just dated.
But then we started to do "stuff". Not sex, but nearly evreything except sex. And I am not the type of person who just gets into a relationship to do stuff. I really want to be comitted..and even though we do evreything a commited couple do, knowing that we werent really together and she still thinks about gettin back together with him really pulls at my heart.
I have really falling in Love with Julia, I do these spontaneous things around her that in never knew i was capable of and she makes me feel complete. I know it is not Infatuation cause i have felt that before with another girl and this is far different. And btw, we have been out for two months constantly now, and we find it impossible to argue with each other.
The real twist in our relationship now, is that now he really wants her back, and he is saying all this mushy stuff like "he is changed person and wil treat her better". HE USED TO IGNORE HER FOR VIDEOGAMES! and didnt make alot of sacrifices for her. I would sacrifice anything for her. and i mean ANYTHING. So now she is between two minds wether to hold onto the past or wether to move on to something new. And she was kissing both of us at one point...now she has stopped kissing both of us till she makes her decision. Plz give ur comments on this situation, I want to be with her so badly it hurts...and give her some advice too, and i will relay it..anything is much appreciated (link)
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wow...you need to tell her everything thats on your mind and how it hurts you to see that she wants to go back to him cuz hes the PAST.tell her how much you love her and that youd do anything for her and how he always argues with her and how you never did with her and how youd give her all your time and how hed ignore her for video games.she needs to let go of the past to enjoy the future.tell her that.and if she STILL doesnt make up her mind and still kisses you both at the same time,shes obviously not worth your time(no offence) and just loves getting the attention from both sides.
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((this is for my friend named chelsea)
well, theres this guy on my brothers baseball team, and hes really hott and sweet. the only problem is that he is 10-and i am 13. what do i do? is it okay if i still like him or is it too weird? (link)
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she is older than him which makes her more mature than he is by 3 YEARS.the guy is the one that is suppoesd to be more mature than the girl so hell know how to treat her.tell your freind what you think.age doesnt really matter but hes only 10 years old!if he was like 16 and shes 19 itd be better because hed be more mature.
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ok so i have this friend who is one of my best friends. we always have fun together and just have a good time. i've been friends with her for years. but we have been through alot. at one point less than a year ago i basically hated her. she was really fake and friends w/ these 2 girls who brought out the worst in her. she is still friends with them and i have a feeling they are going to lead her into bad things in high school. im worried and idk if i should be as great of friends as i am w/ sum1 like her. im just confused. shes rele cool but yeah and she is super stubborn and treats some people like crap. i just dont know what to do. help? please? (link)
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omg amazing,ive been through the SAME THING!i had a best freind that started hanging with this other girl and CHANGED.and they expected me to hang out with them when they are like this.this is what you do.tell youre freind how shes changed and how her new freinds will change her to the worse and whatever happend to her friendship with you?and if she dont change then dont be sad and totally forget her,or youll be like her and do bad things in high school,tomorrow you will see for yourself how bad of a reputation they will have and how much trouble they will be in and youll thank god that youre not hanging out with them.good luck:D
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Ermm.... I'm a 15 year old girl, and when I was 10 my grandma gave me this teddy bear for my birthday. It's very cute, with brownish fur, and little button eyes. And it has a green vest. I named it "Mr. Paddington". Lately, something weird has been happening. Whenever I've been around it I've felt... odd. As though I had a crush on it. Now I'm embaressed to change with it in the room, and at night when I imagine my first kiss, it's Mr. Paddington I imagine having it with. I've told my friends that I'm dating him, but they think I'm joking.... I'm afraid to tell anyone for real, because what if they took him away? I was just wondering if this is normal..... and if I'm allowed to someday marry my teddy bear? (link)
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youve obviously been through a really bad break up or lost someone you love in a way and now your taking that lack of emotions on your teddy bear.dont worry its just a stage your going through and youll get over it.why dont you tell your grandma about this?isnt she the one who got it for you,mabey she can make you feel better in a way.
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ok i have friends of mine that i grew up with and knew my entire life they soo sweet and innocent and everything and they were my best friends.. but now they are doing stuff that they would normally not do like one smokes pot now which is not like her.. and another one of my friends that i grew up with is not her self she drinks now to the point that she vomits and thats also not like her and all of this just recently started like a week before school ended.. i dont know what to do i thought that i would be friends wit them forever but i guess not.. and i use to chill wit them a lot but now we just act like strangers i still talk to one of them but the other one were not even really friends n e more. also this makes it harder because the one that smokes doesnt know i know she smokes so what should i do? (link)
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something is definetly wrong,shes going through a very hard time and obviously SOMETHING made her do all of this,she wouldnt do it for no reason,something must be depressing them.you need to talk to them and ask them whats happened and convince them that what they are doing to themselves is total suicide,find out whats bothering them and tell them drugs and alcohol will not solve their problems itll only make things worse.ask them whats been hapening and why they did this and tell them how much they mean to you and you dont want to lose them.if they are mean and dont stop dont hang out with them anymore cuz they can influence you to do something bad.good luck :)
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my boyfriends birthday is in less than a week and i need to find a good gift for him (hes 14 by the way) (link)
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buy him a HUGE teddy bear(weird but cute) and let it be holding a big card that says 100 or 50 reasons why you love him.
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I am from India. Me and she were madly in love. the relationship continued deeply for about 8 months. There were there were occassions when she was angry with me. But, I was always nice to her and declared my unconditional love. We were very close to getting married. Then it happened ... Her mother has convinced her not to marry me due to my financial situation and my family responsibilities. She still talks to me and listens to me when I say "I love you". But, she tells me that she only wants to be friends with me and nothing more. Was I too nice to her that she got bored? Will I ever get her back? Will she marry me? (link)
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sorry but if she really loved you she wouldnt have cared wether you had a million dollars or DIDNT.she wouldnt have let her mother change her opinion about you so fast.forget about her,your a really kind guy and im sure youl find the kind hearted girl you are looking for.but this bad stuff happened so you can become more experinced so it actually helped you out in a way.go talk to her one last time and tell her, if money is more important to you than me then i will leave forever and that you never loved me and if you did you wouldnt have let your mom change your mind.good luck
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