I am from India. Me and she were madly in love. the relationship continued deeply for about 8 months. There were there were occassions when she was angry with me. But, I was always nice to her and declared my unconditional love. We were very close to getting married. Then it happened ... Her mother has convinced her not to marry me due to my financial situation and my family responsibilities. She still talks to me and listens to me when I say "I love you". But, she tells me that she only wants to be friends with me and nothing more. Was I too nice to her that she got bored? Will I ever get her back? Will she marry me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? caramella answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 12:16 am: sorry but if she really loved you she wouldnt have cared wether you had a million dollars or DIDNT.she wouldnt have let her mother change her opinion about you so fast.forget about her,your a really kind guy and im sure youl find the kind hearted girl you are looking for.but this bad stuff happened so you can become more experinced so it actually helped you out in a way.go talk to her one last time and tell her, if money is more important to you than me then i will leave forever and that you never loved me and if you did you wouldnt have let your mom change your mind.good luck [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
sassysara answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:38 pm: In my opinion if she was deeply in love with you then her mother could not have talked her out of marrying you. It sounds like you are her "safety net" or someone she knows she can turn to when she needs to but she will always be looking for someone better to come along. You deserve someone who loves you the way you love her, don't settle for anything less then devotion from a partner.
I know it will be hard but letting her go may be the best thing for you, maybe it will open the doors of opportunity for you to meet your true soul mate.
mrs.hernandez answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:16 pm: IT sounds to me that you give it your all and she doesn't tell you or says anything about her feelings. My advice is if she's for you no matter how long it takes will be with you and if she doesn't she was never for you. And if you love her just give her time and be her friend. Because is better to be her friend than have her out of your life right [ mrs.hernandez's advice column | Ask mrs.hernandez A Question ]
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