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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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about how much are digital cameras? thanx in advance

It depends on what kind of camera you want, I suppose. Most digital cameras are very cheep now-a-days; especially if you get them on sale. For REALLY good cameras they're $1,000+. But, you can get them for cheep. I have a Kodak CX73300 Zoom and it works great! It wasn't too pricey, either. I think mine was on sale for $200-$300; I got it at Wal-Mart. ♥

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hi. does anyone know any good quotes like about friends or graduation or something that would be good to use for a scrapbook? or any sites? thanks

I suggest checking out the following website:


-- http://www.holliesquotes.com


She has AMAZING quotes. I look at her site everyday for updates. ♥

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what are some other good stores that have clothes like forever21, ae, hollister, delias, charlotte russe, abercrombie?

- West Seal
- Old Navy
- Eclipes (don't know if you have that store, though.)
- Gap


Hopefully this helps you out, some. ♥

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okay so i have shaved down there twice but both times i get all those little red bumps which are painful and i was wondering is there a way to not get those when i shave or are there any creams that i could use?

When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)


Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥

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What is the difference between body spray, like secret body spray, and deodorant?

Deordorant is for under the armpits. It helps with the smell of bad body odour and keeps you dry through out the day.


Body spray just makes you smell pretty. It gives you that scented small that you can apply all over your body. ♥

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im 13/f and i weigh 135 pounds. am i fat? if it helps, i look like this:
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/024.jpg

i will only rate if you are completely honest.

and be honest because i am trying to lose 10 pounds and i need to know if it's worth it

Sweetie, you aren't even close to fat. You have the perfect body. You're also very gorgeous! Don't even think about loosing 10 pounds, you really don't need it. You're great the way you are now. ♥

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Hey anybody who reads this. I just wanted everybody to know that the user "ShannonBond" is fake. I personally know Shannon Bond and this girl is NOT her! She's faking Shannon Bond and using her pictures, when really this girl IS NOT her. Please Advicenators, DELETE HER PROFILE! That should not be acceptable for people to have fake pictures of other people, and pretend to be them. THAT'S JUST WRONG!

Thanks Advicenators.

Yeah, that's what I thought when I came across her column lastnight. The REAL Shannon Bond does have a column, which she never updates.


Just file an abuse report (on the left hand side of your screen) and DangerNerd will definitely take care of it. ♥

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hey, well sometimes when im looking at questions t answer i see something say a word then write (sp?). im wondering what (sp?) means.

-caitt

They just put (sp?) by the word that they don't think they spelt correctly. ♥

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Ok..im 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?

Lots of girls your age haven't had their first kiss/make-out session yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time to have their first kiss. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only get their first kiss when they're 18. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to kiss. You always remember your first kiss. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're kissing. Give it time, though. You're first kiss will come and it'll be that much more special when it does. ♥

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umm this may be a stupid question, but how do you kiss? i mean do you just go for it? what do guys expect out of a 13 year old? closed mouth open-mouthed? please help!

I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser (that's what everyone thinks when it comes to their first kiss), but really, that's all in your head.


I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.


Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing


Just make sure, you're 100% ready for this kiss and you're comfortable with this person. Your first kiss should always be special. If this is the guy you want to share your first kiss with, then go for it. ♥

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how do u make the little hearts thing where you can actually see the heart???

thanks in advance

& hearts ;


But, without the spaces, of course. ♥

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What the heck is a pube? I hear people use the word in jokes alot, someone tell me what it is pleasssse!

It's a pubic hair; hair the grows on your vagina/penis. ♥

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Hey im getting a new digital camera.
What in your opinion is a really really good quality one? Price is no option.
GRacias!

I have a Kodak CX73300 Zoom and it works great! I just love it. I suggest looking into this type of camera. It takes great pictures! There's also so many different things you can adjust on it to make your pictures different. You can have black and white pictures, zoom in, zoom out, etc. It's a really great camera. It isn't too pricey, either. I think mine was on sale for $200-$300; I got it at Wal-Mart. ♥

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How do you apply eyeliner? I don't know where to put it or how to put it on without poking my eye. please help!

How to apply eyeliner:


1. Choose an eyeliner appropriate for your eye color. Brown, navy and charcoal accent light eyes well, while brown and plum shades flatter brown eyes. Make sure your liner complements the color of your shadow.


2. Consider the type of look you're after. Pencil eyeliner gives your eyes soft definition, while liquid versions offer precision and drama. You can also moisten dark eye shadow and apply it with a small, flat brush.


3. Prepare a cake liner or a dark eye shadow by applying a small amount of water to your brush. Or, if you're using a pencil eyeliner, ensure that you've sharpened the pencil adequately.


4. Move the wet brush gently through your cake liner or dark shadow. Hold the brush or pencil as you would hold a pen.


5. Tilt your head back slightly and bring your eyes to a half-open state. This creates a good angle for application, while allowing you to see what you're doing.


6. Draw a line across the upper lid just above the lashes, from the inside corner to the outside corner of the eye. If you're using liquid liner, allow it to dry before opening your eyes all the way, or the color may transfer into the crease of your eye.


7. If you used a brush or a pencil, soften the look by gently smudging the line with your brush, a cotton swab or your finger.


8. Line the lower lids. Moving from the outside edge inward, draw a line on the outer two-thirds of the lid or more, depending on the look you're going for. Your line should be slightly thicker at the outside corner, becoming thinner as it moves in toward your nose. Using your brush or pencil, lightly stroke the area. If using a liquid liner, apply it in one smooth stroke. Apply less color so your eyes don't appear raccoonlike.


Hopefully this will help you out some. If you want more ideas, just go to the following website: http://www.ehow.com/how_157_apply-eyeliner.html Or, you can even search up 'How to apply eyeliner' on http://www.google.com ♥

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OKAy whats the code to put just my comments in a scrollbox but not my top friends????

I do believe you can find the HTML code for that at the following website: http://www.chasebadkids.net ♥

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What is carpal tunnel? How do yu get it?

Carpal Tunnel Syndrome is a condition affecting the hand and wrist. The carpal tunnel is a space in the wrist surrounded by wrist bones and by a rigid ligament that links the bones together.


Through this small tunnel pass the flexing tendons of the fingers and thumb as well as the median nerve. These tendons attach muscles to bones in the hand and transfer the movement of the fingers from muscles to bones. The median nerve carries signals from the brain to control the actions of the fingers and hand. It also carries information about temperature, pain and touch from the hand to the brain, and controls the sweating of the hand.


In the carpal tunnel, the tendons of the fingers surround the median nerve. Swelling of the tendons reduces the space in the tunnel and squeezes the median nerve which is softer than the tendons. Pressure on this nerve can injure it.


Such injury results in sensations of numbness, tingling, pain, and clumsiness of the hand. This combination of symptoms is called carpal tunnel syndrome. People with carpal tunnel syndrome experience difficulty in performing tasks such as unscrewing bottle tops, fastening buttons, or turning keys.


For more information, check out the following website:


-- http://www.ccohs.ca/oshanswers/diseases/carpal.html


Hope this helps you out some. ♥

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are there any signs youre going to get your period for the first time? and ifso how long after you get the sign will you get your period?

Usually you get moody, cranky and stomach pains before you start your period. Also, a lot of girls get discharge before and after their period. ♥

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Hi I'm trying to put a div layout on my myspace but their so complicated can someone PLEASEEE help me with how to do it?

The easy way to get a div layout, is to get one at one of the two following websites:


-- http://www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?type_id=3
-- http://myspace.com/xohromancex


They both have instructions on where to put the codes and such. So easy! ♥

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well im overly jealous, like words couldnt explain. and i want to stop it. My boyfriend has tons of girls that are friends, and he talks to them and stuff, and i just dont want to be jealous any ideas on how to make that feeling go away? Because i know guys dont like it when they know a girl is a jealous person.

Being jealous is normal. Everyone is jealous of someone at one point in time in their life. It's only normal to have that feeling. Just remind yourself, even though he's talking to other girls, you're the only girl he is with and wants to be with. You guys are in a relationship, not him and some other girl. It's you he thinks about, not those other ones. So, feel special, he's all about you. ♥

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im always shy, i just need advice on how to be more out there and my self and more outgoing.Also, this might not be the right topic but also how to be sexy ( for my boyfriend ). thanx to anything

A lot of people are shy. I used to be VERY shy when I was younger. But, I grew out of that stage. I think everyone is shy at one point and time in their life. While they grow up, they become more comfortable with themselves and aren't as shy as they used to be.


I do have a great site that'll maybe let you come out of your shyness stage. I highly suggest looking at this website; http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/Tips.HTM I'm pretty sure it'll help you out, a lot. It's not going to work, just like that. You should be able to work on this shyness stuff, though. Hopefully you'll become more outgoing and it'll help you out some. ♥

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