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jealousy
well im overly jealous, like words couldnt explain. and i want to stop it. My boyfriend has tons of girls that are friends, and he talks to them and stuff, and i just dont want to be jealous any ideas on how to make that feeling go away? Because i know guys dont like it when they know a girl is a jealous person.
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Being jealous is normal. Everyone is jealous of someone at one point in time in their life. It's only normal to have that feeling. Just remind yourself, even though he's talking to other girls, you're the only girl he is with and wants to be with. You guys are in a relationship, not him and some other girl. It's you he thinks about, not those other ones. So, feel special, he's all about you. ♥
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Oh jealousy, it sometimes feel so involuntary doesnt it? Like wait,I cant help but be jealous.
What works the best is to tell yourself, wait, why am I being jealous of them? I've already got the guy. He loves me, not them& we share a special relationship. And also trust is another big thing, if you trust him, dont worry about him being friends with other girls :)
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Well you could prove to your boyfriend that you are not jealous.
ADVICE:If you call while he is talking to is friend thats a girl.Just say ok well just call me back when you get through.Or something like that.
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Jealousy using comes from a deeply rooted feeling of insecurity. eg. Do you feel he is too good for you? Has he had a lot of girlfriends? Do you feel the other girls are better than you? Have you had difficulties in your life that makes you feel he is likely to leave you?
There can be lots of reasons why a person feels insecure and jealous. If you don't know the reason, talk to your parents or another adult that has known you all or most of your life, see if there was an event that could have triggered these feelings.
Then talk to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and that you want to overcome this, preferably with his help and support. If he is doing nothing to actively encourage this jealousy, (and if he is, you should question whether or not you should be with him anyway), he should be more than happy to help.
Mostly, it will be just getting your mind into a state where you can accept that other girls are not a threat and that the past should not be allowed to affect the present.
Hope that helps and the best of luck to you.
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okay i know this sounds wierd but if my gal was jealous of me talking to other girls it would kinda turn me on.I don't know why but I guess I feel that if she really likes me and wants me all to herself then she would act the way she is acting, cause if my gal didin't feel jealous then I guess I would be pretty insecure.
But again,that's just me.
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You could say to yourself"I have to show I'm mature,that I trust my boyfriend because trust is important to maintain a relationship,that whenever he's talking to them he's only thinking of me,he has me who he kisses,cuddles,and they don't".So you're really the lucky girl and not them just keep saying that whenever you start getting that feeling.
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inorder for you to get over your jealousy with him, why don't he include you in his circle of friends, then i think you would feel more comfort,I no me personally if my man has a group of female friends, unless he's a star i would feel pretty uneasy.
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