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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

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Hey, I'm getting my haircut tomorrow and I know I want something a little different, but I have no idea what! I was thinking of maybe short layers in the front and long layers in the back, but I'm not sure. Right now, my hair is about 3 inches below my shoulder, and I want just 1 inch off. I also want it to be straight. If it helps, here's a picture of me: http://www.myspace.com/go_weasel

Thanks, I'll take any suggestions! I'm really bad with hair, so please help!

hey i went to your site and noticed that you live like 20 min away from me ish but anyways


my hair is like the same as yours and im getting a hair cut tomorow too and having the same problem

for myself i was thinking of like a kelly clarkson hair cut and maybe it will work for you too. here are a few i had in mind


http://www.mtv.com/news/photos/c/clarkson_kelly/getty_images_flip_041119/09.jpg

http://us.tv1.yimg.com/tv.yahoo.com/images/he/photo/tv_pix/mtv/mtv_video_music_awards_2005_arrivals_photos/kelly_clarkson/vma9.jpg


http://www.sonshinefm.ws/Images/MusicPoint/Kelly%20Clarkson%202.jpg


hopefully they will give you some ideas!

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What's a site that I can make my own web page? I need something like geosites but without having to use all the HTML.

i used to use freewebs.com its pretty easy to use and you can do basically whatever you want on it

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Hello there i'm having problems getting pregnant, we've been trying for over a year and i still have had no results. i don't don't understand what is wrong with me. i do have irregular periods and when seem to be ontime i always watch my fertile days and all but still no luck. What can i do to speed things up? please help!!

maybe you are infertile or your husband is sterile? i would go to a doctor, they can help you solve your problem and tell you when your most fertile days are for sure to help you along

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i live in rockville maryland and i want to start acting and modeling but i have two problems.
1) i dont know how to make a resume
2) i dont know any places to start auditioning or how i can find out where to audition
please help i rate high!!!!

well your best bet is to search online... or have your parents look around for places in new york city and send the best photos you have there. that is really your only option that will accually get you anywhere. also you can try local department stores like macys and call there like 1 800 number (not their local one) and ask them if they are looking for models and send them photos as well. just dont do any of the phony "casting calls" that you hear on the radio they are scams and NEVER send money unless they say like $1 for postage or whatever and make sure your parents are involved so you dont get into anything bad!

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I decided this year to skip over the bikini for a one piece bathing suit because I have a chunky stomach...but I have no idea where to get a cute one at!! All the one pieces I see are all ugly. I really dont want to wear a bikini because I feel self-conscious but I may have to resort to that if I cant find a good one-piece, something cute and sexy. So please help me! Thanks everyone who helps!!

maybe you should try a tankini! kohls has alot of cute ones along with target (my new favorite clothing store.. check it out they have really cute stuff) tankinis cover as much as 1 peices but are easier i would say to wear and what not.

http://www.belabumbum.com/garments/swimwear-tankini-boy.jpg

this is what i tankini looks like if you were unsure

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this is kinda gross i gues but w.e. okay so i have had discharge for like 2 years/a year and a half now and for a period of time i had it and then it went off and then back on. and i dont know like am i ganna get my period soon or something? and like i guess im pretty active (i dont even know if that means anything really) but how long do people ussally have it for before they get their period....is that even natural to have discharge for like a year and half?

well you are supose to have it basically whenever you arent having your period (sucks i know) i ussually get it extremely heavey 2 weeks before i get my period then a week before my period it stops but i think its different for everyone and really cant predict your period.

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Does it hurt to get ur belly button pierced???

ive heard the accually piercing part doesnt hurt but after words for the next few days it does

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is it true that you have to be really tall to be a model?

i asked this quesiton to some people and they said yes.. but some said you just have to be really tall if you wanna be a runway model..

what about normal models in magazines and stuff cause i'm 5'2" but i really wanna be a model and i don't know if i could be one since i'm so short=[

thanx! i'll rate high for nice, realistic answers =]

a runway model yes you have to be atleast 5'8" but like a face model it doesnt matter

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Hi, my name is Vanessa. I am 26 years old. My husband and I met in May 2003. only 4 months after having met, I fell pregnant with my little boy. In the early stages of pregnancy, I bled everytime after sex. This put me off sex for the rest of my pregnancy and my partner Jason had to either satisfy himeself or I would have to do an 'obligatory' act to satisfy him. I had absolutley no sexual drive whilst I was pregnant and everytime my partner tried, I rejected him or satisfied him begrudingly. I convinced myself that it was the pregnancy and theat after the birth of the baby, everything would go back to normal.
After my son was born in June 2005, it went from bad to worse. The first time we had sex was on our wedding night 7 months after the birth of our son. Since then (January 06) I have found excuses and ways of avoiding sex. Everytime I do have sex I find myself crying and wishing that it would be over. My husband (like many men I would suppose) is very sexual and now sits up late looking at pornography on the internet.
I feel as though I can not please him and I really don't want to. My son is now 9 months old and the idea of sex still makes me feel a little sick. I have never really been a very sexual person but I used to enjoy it a little bit. Now everytime I cry, feel uncomfortable and wish it were over!!

Is this normal??? Can I get any help?? Is it sex or my husband that I do not want?? Should I suggest my husband get sexual gratification from other woman. I would do anything to take the pressure off of me!

The scary thing is... I really want another baby!!!

Sorry if this is a bit long :) Can you offer any advice?

Thanks so much for your time. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

Best wishes

Vanessa :)

i would say it sounds normal.. although i have no expirience i think rushing into having a baby just made your mind think of it as a bad expirience maybe. maybe you can seek some sort of sexual counseling because im sure its not him but he needs to know how you feel and then i would go from there

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Hey
I'd like to know the best straitener that you know of
also what is the best protective spray out there less than $100?

thanks!

well i think the best straightener for your money is helen or troy. its only $30 and it works just as well as a chi but for 1/3 of the price but it doesnt work like a curling iron like a chi can.

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sorry about spelling, but I am really considering getting my cartilage (spelling?) pierced around my birthday day (July 1st) and I know this is a stupid question but how bad does it really hurt, and I don't really remember getting my ears pierced because I was young. And also when you do get your cartilage pierced how long do you have to keep it in? Well, thanks and if theres any other information about getting your cartilage pierced please tell me

well the accually piercing doesnt hurt at all. the only time it really hurts is when your sleep on it and it hurts bad for a while but you get used to it. and you keep it in for 12 weeks or so but you can leave it out for a long period or time (more than an hour or so) until about 8 monthes

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there are these curler things but are like noodley that you put in your hair to make it like spiraly scrunchy curly...what are they called? are they called spoodles? and where can you find them? thanks i will RATE HIGH!!!

well i have ones called solar rollers but they make several dif brands of the same thing and they sell them at sallys!

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hey what's a really fun place to go to on vacation but it's not too expensive? a list would be great :)
and in the USA of course lol
thanks so much!! and this is for summer vacation or something i guess..
i rate 5s

well i love the beach like Myrtle beach is fun! someone said philly was fun, i think its alright but kinda boring! also virginia beach is cool b/c you have the beach and williamsburg. also cedar point and 6 flags are fun for a few days (well now its geaga lake where i am)

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OK i was just wondering if it was ok if i wore a tampon to school all day without changing it??

like i would put it in around 7:15 and take it out around 3:30

Is that to long?!?!

tech. its okay to do but i wouldnt do it.. like i do that and by 1 i start feeling sick and its not good. what i would do is wear a tampon for like most of the day and then wear a pad like the last period or 2 thats what i do

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i'm a female and i just turned 14. i'm 5'3" and i weight 80 pounds right now. a bit ago i went on meds for adhd innatentive. since then i dropped 5 pounds so now i am 80. (i was 85). i've always been tiny. my eating habbits were fine before meds, i would eat only slightly smaller portions than my friends would, just because i am smaller. now that i am on meds i am never hungry, there for i dont eat as often or as much. i was warned this would happen if i go on meds. i need meds to function well at school though. i've been told to force myself to eat, but i just can't. i'm satisfied. not hungry, not full but satisfied. its a combination i assume-me forgetting to eat lunch and me not finishing because food just is boring now. i dont like it. i am so self concious of my body because i'm so bony. i dont know what to do. i want to be like at least 95 pounds. i'm tired of being picked on.

i have the same problem although im not that tiny (shorter but not smaller) but anyways i would say eat highcalorie things.. like instead of eating peanut butter and jelly eat like a hamburger.. youll gain weight faster. also eat smaller portions like double your meals like have 6 small meals instead of 3 and snack as much as you can.. youll be able to get more down that way. and with your lunch start with the most fattening part first like fries and try to finish that first and if you can drink something like coolaid for lunch. for your height you should be atleast 100 pounds so you have alot to work at (my sister is 5'3 and the skinniest person i know and shes 108 pounds)


and snack as often as you can like while you watch tv

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So im a 15 year old sophomore and my dream has always been to be a competiton cheerleader. I am soo dedicated to cheerleading and would do anything to do this. I found a cheerleading place that im going to go to 2morrow to tryout and some people are telling me theres no way i can do it. People are really starting to make me feel down about this. So is competition cheerleading really hard to get into?
Do you have to be a really pretty skinny girl to get in? Im 15...5'6 and weigh 115...and i wanna be a flyer but do i weigh to much to do this or what? this means soo much to me!!

i dont think you way to much but i think for your age group you are way to tall. all the flyers i know are under 5'2 with most of them being under 5 foot.

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Iam 16 years old and I was wondering how old do I have to be to move out without a parent's permission in the state of georgia so I can move in with my boy friend?

Thanks in advice.

well its 18 unless either your parents give you permission (like a written court paper) or they sign for the apartment or you can sepertated from them in court

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Iam 16 years old and I want to get a job like my other friends.Iam sick and tired of having to ask my mom for money all the time I want to make my own money,but my mom dosn't want me to get a job becouse she says if I do my disability check would get get canceled.Is this true?my mom says she dosn't understand why I want to get a job when I could just sit at hom and get a check,but the money I get for my disability check goes to my mom to help take care of me.what should I do?

well as far as i know your arent even supose to be getting a disablility check till you are 18.. or maybe that is just in my state but anyways you need to check because most states have rules like if you work under 20 hours you can still get your check or whatever because your a minor you need to check without your plan and what not

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I am a 16 year old girl from georgia and I want a job becouse iam sick and tired of having to ask my mom for money all the time,but my mom seems to think that since I have attention deffisence disorder(add)it would be harder for me to get good grades and have a job at the smae time is this true?

i can be but add is never an excuse.. if your fine now it must not be bad enough to affect your performance.. trust me i have add and i can handle a job. after school sports and still get really good grades. if it starts affecting you basically its all in your mind. you just think you can do it because of your add but your making it happen to yourself not your condition, so go for the job

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I got my belly peirced about 2 months ago and I am wondering if it's normal to have a little bump right next to the peircing.

yep thats just from it healing.. it should be gone within a year

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