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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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When your pregnant, do you still have periods? What about if you breastfeed?
When you're pregnant, you won't get your period. When you have a baby and you're breastfeeding, you will have your period. Periods do come back after you're done with pregnancy. ♥
what does hit me up mean? is it like call me or something?
Yup, that is what it means. When a person says 'hit me up', it's just slag for call me later. ♥
Ok...Well...When your breasts are REALLY TENDER does that mean that they are growing or what or is it just when they itch?? please help!
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You're probably going through pubrety, depending on how old you are. But, when your breast are really tender, they're usually just growing. ♥
my friends invited me to go camping in NY but im on my period...theres going to be a trailer but im worried of how to "dispose of it." lol
also its only going to be about 2 days so what should i pack?
any thoughts would be great
I suggest packing 24 pads/tampons; whichever you use. Just bring a lot, to be on the safe side. You don't want to be camping and have no pads/tampons left and not be able to go into town and get some. So, just bring lots, incase something like that happens.
For clothes, I suggest bringing; 3 pairs of pants, 3 shirts, 3 pj pants and shirts, 3 bras and a couple of sweaters, (it might turn cold out.)
You might also want to bring a sleeping bag, blanket, pillow(s), sunscreen, sandals, sneakers, swimming suit, etc.
Hope you have fun camping! ♥
can u make perfume stay on longer
If you spay it on your clothes, instead of on your skin, it'll last longer. ♥
hey guys....
okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?
I suggest waiting til you're about to start your period. Since every girl knows what date they're suppose to start their periods, just wait til you're suppose to start yours. If you haven't started it and it's a couple of days after you should have, then I think you should take a pregnancy test. ♥
okay this is really gross so if you dont like gross questions, dont read this.
when i get my period, i have these like blobs of blood that come out ...and idk what i should do. it doesnt seem normal... =/
Don't worry about this, hun. Every girl gets it. You're completely normal. ♥
is there such a thing that you can delete a Question/Answer on your advice column? I really want to delete this one Question/Answer, but I dont know how... Is it possible?
Please and Thank You!
-volleyball2150
Just go to your advice column and find the question you wish to deleted. Click 'View', then click 'Answer This Question'. Once you're there, just deleted everything you wrote, then press 'Submit Answer'. ♥
I have had discharge for a very long time. About two day ago I started getting some werid brown stuff on my underware am I getting my period or is it an infection or something?
It's not an infection, hun. So I wouldn't worry about that. However, your period is right around the corner; since you're getting the brown discharge. Just bring some tampons or pads along if you go out with friends, or out of the house. ♥
I've seen people's computer and they have their toolbar thing at the top or on the side, how do I do that?
Simple :] All you do is drag the toolbar to the side, top, or where ever you want it. ♥
ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?
I don't think you wanted to go further, anyways. You did kick him while he was trying to undo your belt. So, obviously you just wanted to stick to kissing and nothing more, which is great. When you're ready to go further, you'll know when you're comfortable enough to do so. ♥
hey, well on my old account that i had on this site [ i lost the password ] i had alot of people who listed me as there favorite columnists. now i only have one and i dont understand why. i give like the same type of advice as i did with my old account. can anyone tell me what the problem is?
-caitt♥
It could be that the people that listed you as a favorite before, just haven't came across you new advice column yet. Or, they could have deleted their column awhile back. But, just give it sometime and keep answering questions. I'm sure people will start adding you. ♥
what are the best ways to learn the words to a song? and good tips??
I usually just listen to the song over and over again. Then, I start learning the words. You chould also just look up the lyrics, then sing along. ♥
I made a new myspace recently to get away from some people that are herassing me and other things. I would really like to make my myspace really nice. Do you know any sites that have myspace layouts besides whateverlife and createblog
http://myspace.com/xohromancex has AMAZING layouts. ♥
Alright, I realized shaving "down there" isn't that hard, you just have to be careful...But after I get out of the shower, I don't think it appears right away, but I get little bumps around the area. Like, razor burn I want to call it. How do I avoid this???? Do you put lotion around the area like you do on your legs? hellpppp
shanks.
When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)
Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥
Ok I was wondering what to say to "friend" like if he or she say things such as WHAT'S COOKIN GOOD LOOKIN & things like that. I don`t need advice on love i just want something that rhymes & that is cute just like the rhyme above.
Thanks in advanced! :)
What about 'What's new, Magoo?', 'I know what you mean, jellybean!' or, 'See ya later alligator!' :] I don't really know any others.. ♥
Everyone says American Eagle is the best store, but personally I hate it. All of their t-shirts are basically the same things with different words and colors. A lot of their clothes are really bad quality. I bought a cami from there once and I only wore it once and a HUGE hole ripped and I wasn't even running around or anything. It may be a little cheaper then Abercrombie & Fitch or Hollister, but atleast if you buy something from A&F or Hollister, you know the clothes are going to last. American Eagle's clothes arn't the most attractive things, and they look cheap. What do you think about AE?
I agree with you. American Eagle does have some nice clothes, but they're so not worth the money you're paying for them. You can get just as nice clothes some place else, without the name brand; American Eagle. Most of their clothes are all the same, but just differen't colors. I wouldn't know about Abercrombie & Fitch, or Hollister, though; we don't have those stores around here, sadly. ♥
Can you feel it when your hymen breaks.
Because every time I put in a tampon, I can always kind of feel my hymen.
When it breaks can you feel it? Does it hurt?
When you're putting your tampon in, I don't think it's your Hymen that you're feeling. Most girls don't even know when their Hymen breaks; it doesn't hurt. ♥
well i just started shaving down there. and like when i do i shave it but it is still kind of rough down there u know. is there anyway i can make it soft and smooth or is that just how it always is. sorry if this was nasty i was jw.
When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)
Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥
Oh my lord!!! Someone hacked onto my account and asked a question in my column that said my friend was going to commit suicide because she was ugly!!! I did not write that and the question is not even true!!!! I don't even know who that girl is in the picture!!!! So shes not even my friend and I didn't write that question!!!! Please don't believe that question!!!! My question is I want to find out who hacked my account and wrote that question, so how do I find out? My password is not easy to uncode so I don't know how they did it!! I'm scared because I don't want that person to stalk me. If any of you answered that question that talked about my friend being ugly, please leave hate mail to the answer of it. I repeat, I would never write a question like that.
Just file an abuse report (on the left hand side of your screen) and DangerNerd will definitely take care of it. You can also send him an e-mail; dangernerd@gmail.com ♥