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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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why do i have girls as friend but not a girlfriend?
There could be more than one answer to your question. Do you like any girls? If you do, get to know her better and hang out. If you hang out with your "girl" friends a lot more, they might start to like you. Just be yourself, fun and outgoing.
can anyone tell me about vivienne westwood and betsey johnson?
They're designers.. but what do you need to know?
my hair falls out constantly
what is the average hall fall out rate?
and plus i am getting lots of white hairs sometimes
im only 16
is it from stress or bad nutrition?
Bad nutrition can cause hair loss but everyone loses hair. In order for healthier hair to grow, the damaged hair has to fall out. It could also be the hair products that you're using. The white hairs could be from stress. Try eating healthier though and take care of your hair. If it continues to fall out, ask your doctor just to make sure everything is okay.
hello i am 13/f
i have been known to have like a pretty nice body, curvy and all that. i have gained i wouldnt say alot but kind of a medium range of weight these past few months. i have found myself eating non stop, i just cant stop eating i am ALWAYS hungry! im not dprest or anything i have alot of friends and im always hanging out with people but i am always hungry. do you have any ideas of whats wrong with me?! thank you so much.
Nothing's wrong with you. A lot of people eat without realizing how much they actually eat. When you're out with your friends, pay attention to the food that you're ordering or that's around you. Don't get too distracted that you don't know how much you're eating. Try getting healthier snacks for all of you guys.
Okay so everyone uses that "T9" texting thing, and they are always like WHY DONT YOU USE THAT ITS EASIER, and i just dont understand how to use it. can you explain to me how to use it, because i would really like to learnn...? it takes forever for me to type the regular way, even though im fast at it. typing each letter just takes too long..thanks.
Every phone has it. You should just type the word and it should come automatically. I use it too and it's much easier. You can also use abriviations. Instead of writing out you, type u .. just short things like that would make it a lot easier for you to text.
where can i listen to whole songs for free i no yahoo.com and aol.music.com but what others
I usually go to launch.com It's also yahoo but there's music videos and such.
well i'm geting my hair cut tomorrow and i need some ideas. hair color doesnt matter. but i want a lenth between my sholder and chin. i'd like it choppy and kindof punk style. i'm not dying my hair tho so it doesnt matter. does anyone have any pictures? i've already searched it on yahoo,ect. thanks
If you go to Myspace.com you'll find tons of people with those hairstyles. Also if you google it and type in punk hairstyles you'll get websites and pictures.
if pee is clear does that mean youre hydrated
My doctor told me that if you pee clear that you're drinking a lot of water. If it's yellow it means that you drink a lot of soda and things like that.
about a month ago i was walking into my sisters room to go straighten my hair, because i had to leave for school really sooon. and as i walked into her room i stepped on glass. and the blood was gushing out soo bad, and now a month has passed and i have this medium sized black circle. I can barley walk on my foot, and the place where i got hurt is on the bottom of my foot, and it is sort of close by my toe about 2 or 3 inches away. i can barley walk on that half of the foot, i have to walk on the side of my foot. my mom said she is going to bring me to the doctor tuesday or something. do you know whats wrong with me? thank you for reading this, i appreciate it alot!
I'm not a doctor and I don't really know much about this so I don't want to give you the wrong advice. The cut probablly swelled up and got a lot worse. You might have some glass still in your foot. You should of went to the doctor right away though. Sorry that I'm not much help on your question. I honestly don't know exactly what's wrong. Hope everything's okay though ;]
Are you supposed to put bronzer or your foundation on first?
Foundation. If you put bronzer on first, there's no point on putting the foundation because it'll cover it.
a butt? i mean i dont have a HUGE a*s but i do have one. I get complimented on it all the times from guys, but i was wondering if guys do like butts?
Guys love butts. If you get compliments on your butt, they obviously think you have one and they like it. :]
i want those brown boots that are in now. some have like furr or balls and such.
Some stores might not have them anymore because the season is almost over but try Dillards, Nordstrom. I'm not sure where you live and I don't know the stores around you so you could just look at any stores that sell shoes.
where can i find some really cute boots?
Well.. what kind of boots do you want?
hey i was wondering how you put your same buddylist on another sn? i know that, for the old aim, you just save it, and open it up again on your new sn... but ive had aim triton/6.0 for a while now and i love it, i just dont know how to transfer my buddies ? i finally figured out how to link screenames, so i just need the buddies on it.
I don't have that kind of AIM and I just think it's confusing. I'm pretty sure you still just go to my AIM, save your buddylist and then load it but if not, then I have no idea. Sorry.
Does Anyone Know How To Make An Album On Facebook? Can You Walk Me Through The Steps? Thanks In Advance!
Log in, go to My Photos. On the right corner it will say Add Album. Type in the information and find the folder that you're pictures are in. Upload them, tag it & you're done.
What is Sparkling wine?
Personally what is your opinion about it? To you like it better compared to regular? What different about it? Is it sweeter?
Sparkling wine doesn't have alchocol in it. My mom used to give it to me couple years ago for New Years. Regular wine has alchocol. Sparkling wine is good. It's flavorful& yummy ;] but that's just my opinion on it. I like alchocol .. haha so I'd take the regular anyday.
Okay...this is a really weird quesion....but how can i become a prep? (and i dont want to dye my hair...highlights are fine though) like i need tips on personality and looks. thanks:D
No one should give you tips on how to change your personality. Being "prep" doesn't mean only wearing Hollister or A&F. You don't need to be someone you're not but I'll answer your question anyways. If you really want to become a prep, be outgoing, fun, and girly. Be yourself and dress cute, do your make up & hair cute. Just don't lose the personality you have now because you still should be unique.
today i smoked my first joint. nothing happened except my pupils got REALLY big and i felt jittery. then about 20 minutes after, i jugged a freaking beer within a minute. now that i think back about it, i did it only to dispite my parents, and it was a real immature & dumb decision to make. my question is, is how can i control myself from not doing it again? now that ive tried it, i know im going to want to do it again because im not going to be scared next time it's around me.
also, i've noticed my attitude has changed once i got into highschool. last year i was a straight A student and was such a good, stable, smart kid. but now i feel like im throwing my life away... i drink when i can and could care less about school. how come my attitude changed so much, i dont hang out with different kids either; it's just we discovered "alcohol".
another thing; i've noticed ever since the first time i drank, i've only gotten drunk off of hard liquor (maybe 3 times a month). how can i control this habit?!? it seems like nothings fun anymore unless i drink! and i dont want to start partying this hard especially cause it's only my freshmen year!
15/f in need of desperate help! im finally noticing im throwing my life away :[
To answer your first question. You can easily stop yourself from smoking another joint. You've done it once, and you're not addicted. If you know you don't want to do it again, you can easily say no. Some people like to make it a bigger deal than it actually is. If it's around you of course you're going to want to do it but you can stop yourself. No one is making you do it and no one is pressuring you. If they are, you have to handle that.
My attitude has changed once I got into highschool. It's normal and every teenager goes through it but it doesn't have to be a neggative change. You're still a smart kid but you're letting yourself get like this and you're letting everything slip away and that's your personal choice. Everyone goes to parties, drinks and such but that's just highschool. We're going to do stupid things that we'll regret but that's where you learn from. Change is normal but just don't let if effect you that much.
I don't really know what you mean about your last question. How can you control not getting drunk of hard liquor? Well, you really can't. You shouldn't drink it if you don't want to. Whenever I go to parties, I see people just drinking all at once and they have a beer after beer. If you REALLY want to drink that badly, take it slow and don't drink just to get fu@ked up. Things are fun without drinking. It really bothers me when people say that. One of my friends told me she can't have fun without alchocol and that's just pathetic and not true. You're caught up in the party scence and that's all you care about now.
If you feel like you're messing up right now, fix it. Don't let it get to a point where it's too late and you end up doing something horrible. You're the only one that can change for youself and that can help yourself. If you're not willing to do that, I don't know what else to tell you. Drink less, have more fun & study. Life's too short to mess up and just expirience things as they come.
i've seen a lot of pictures where people have themselves in a picture a lot of times. liek it looks like there is clones of the same person? how do you do that? obviously you need a picture editing program but do you know what its called and a program that has it?
thank you.
You don't have to download anything special if you don't want to. Paint is probablly the easiest thing that you can make a collage on.
my best freind is getting on my last nerve and she had been eversince we got back from christmas break.she takes everything way to seriously and she thinks shes sooooo hilarious but shes not funny at all. shes just sooo annoying sometimes and its getting on my last nerve! how do i get her to stop? ive already talked with her but shes still doing the things itlkd 2 her about and she hasnt stopped doing anything at all!!!!!!!!!!
Best friends get on each others nerves but that's the whole point. You know each other too well that everything will bother you. You guys should just hang out with other people for a week or so. Just talk to her once again but nicely and paitiently. Let her know that it's very annoying how she does that and if she won't stop, let her make a fool our of herself but she doesn't seem to care. Just break apart for a while and hang out with your other friends besides each other.