Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 9:42 pm
my best freind is getting on my last nerve and she had been eversince we got back from christmas break.she takes everything way to seriously and she thinks shes sooooo hilarious but shes not funny at all. shes just sooo annoying sometimes and its getting on my last nerve! how do i get her to stop? ive already talked with her but shes still doing the things itlkd 2 her about and she hasnt stopped doing anything at all!!!!!!!!!!
BriannaBaybee05 answered Thursday February 15 2007, 12:48 pm: omg! this is what i went through with my ex best friend! i went through the same exact situation. and as of right now i dont consider her my best friend anymore. my best friend thinks everything she does / says is funny and when she doesnt like something, it could be so little, she can be the bitchest person ever. so what happened was that one day she messaged me on the computer and told me how she doesnt like how i dont say hi to her in the halls but when i told her why she just blew it up and made the situation worse and made it into a bigger deal then it already was. and this wasnt the first time cause i can take a certain amount of stuff but its all of the time. thats it. i did exactly what you did and told her about it but when i did, she just told me how it was my fault and that she isnt doing anything wrong. so i just distant myself from her as much as i can. i mean im still her friend cause i could never drop her like that but i dont consider her my best friend. my point is that best friends arent supposed to be like that. especially when you tell them whats wrong and they dont listen, that proves how much your friendship is truely worth. maybe once you distant yourself from her she will realize how shes acting and will change until then, you are your own person and it could only make you stronger.
Teza answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:34 pm: Best friends get on each others nerves but that's the whole point. You know each other too well that everything will bother you. You guys should just hang out with other people for a week or so. Just talk to her once again but nicely and paitiently. Let her know that it's very annoying how she does that and if she won't stop, let her make a fool our of herself but she doesn't seem to care. Just break apart for a while and hang out with your other friends besides each other. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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