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I have a boyfriend and I have NO IDEA what to get or make him for Christmas. I've asked him, but he keeps saying he doesn't know! AHH! && Well he plays the guitar and I don't know I was thinking about making him a double necklace with 2 crosses on them, but then I'm not sure! What do guys want for Christmas?! Or good ideas for other gifts to make? Anything. Please.

5's for thoughts.

Thanks. :0)

cds
movie
boxers
cologne
video game
guitar music
candy
dinner for the two of you

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I'm pretty sure i'm a christian. But i sometimes doubt God and if he's there or not. Does this mean that, if i like... died tomorrow, i would go to hell. Am i not allowed to doubt God? It seems like the only people who are considered religious are the ones like "i'm sure he's real b/c i've read his word and i believed it" but... i'm a very doubtfull person and i can't just believe things like that. Does this mean i'm not going to Heaven?

just make good choices. you're not going to hell.

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I have a friend sleeping over tonight and I would like to see if anyone had sum ideas on what to do at the sleepover besides renting movies or being on the computer or prank calls. i already knw about that stuff no typical stuff either ok thnx!
I RATE HIGH TO ANYONE WHO ATLEAST TRIES!!!

take pictures.
truth or dare.
bake cookies.
do facials/facemasks
paint your toenails/nails
have a pillow fight
play a game

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Basically, I would say that around school I am pretty popular with all of my girlfriends and i hav eno trouble being myself and having fun. HOWEVER, once i get around boys I quiten up so much more and i get all nervous like a little girl! I don't know what's wrong with me because I used to be fine but some of my girl friends can be a little too loud and overpowering...HELP! x x x

just be outgoing and fun. what is there to be afraid of. be yourself.

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What should I get my bf for Christmas? There is a Christmas Dance today and I am going with him. I am not sure what to get him. Does anybody have any cute ideas? I was going to give him a kiss (it would have been our first kiss) but he suprised me yesterday before school and kissed me. I want to get him something cute, that he could keep forever. Mabye something that I can make at home. Not a CD because that wouldn't be very special. Thanks =]

a scrapbook filled with pictures of the two of you and memories you have had together. very cute.

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I tried using tampons yesterday but i messed up on the first one, the second one i got in but it hurt really bad and i dont know what to do I wanna wear one but it hurts like when I sit down and stuff any tips on how to make it not hurt? thank you!

if it hurts when you sit down, you're not putting it in all the way.

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What the crap is up with me getting BAD ratings from Level 2 or 3 or whatever moderators? I am getting like 1's and 2's and I am giving good advice! Has this happened to anyone else?

yes. its wrong.

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my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and me and him are really close but i do not know if i like him more than a friend he likes me and he wants to go out with me but i don;t know what to do please help me thanx confuse.

wait about 2 weeks. then she'll be over him and won't care. if you think she will, maybe ask her if it's alright first? but i would just go ahead and go out with him. all that matters is the two of you.

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Ok so everyone I know is always over a friends house but im never invited and i cant invite people over here becasue i live in a small apartment. I get really depressed knowing that no one includes me in their fun how can I have them want me around all the time?

be friendly. be cool. invite everyone to go out somewhere (not to your house) but for like dinner, movies, bowling, something fun like that. then once they see how fun you are and you start hanging out with them, they'll invite you to come along.

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today is my boyfriends birthday and I want him to have a good day but I already gave him his birthday present and I don't have no money. What could I do to make him have a good birthday?

go for a picnic and make him lunch/dinner. watch a movie together. set the room up with rose petals and candles. go downtown wherever you live. whip up a banana split to share. play a game. go to the beach. go swimming. play pool. go ice skating. pillow fight. walk your dog. finger paint. snuggle in front of the fire place. go sledding. build snowmen. make sno angels. cook dinner for eachother. roast marshmellows. have a shaving cream fight. go on the trampoline. listen to music. go window shopping. go on a hayride. i hope some of these ideas help you.

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okay there is this guy i talk to him online but we dont talk in person (funny i know) and after church all the non-adults (haha) go outside and so our(mine and his) groups (whatever you want to call it) are always like next to each other or together and whenever i glance at him he is looking at me too and also one day one of my friends said he kept glancing at you so what does that mean? does he like to stare at me or does he like me??

he likes you.

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im 14/f and the guy is 15 okay so i have liked this guy for about a year now but like last night after i left church (he goes to my church) i dont know but i had butterflies in my stomach and like i couldnt sleep well at night and like this morning i had butterflies and now i get to see him (i dont talk to him in person but just online) does anyone know what that means?

yes you like him, only you can really know if it's love though. if it feels different then any other guy you have ever liked in your life, then yes it probably is. try talking to him in person though, then you will be able to tell for sure. = )

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ok..i'm more of a tomboy..and my best friend is a tomboy too. but lately, all the preps and 'popular girls' are getting all the guys. haha. and so me and my best friend decided we were gunna act preppy and shit. and so she got kinda pissed that all the popular girls started liking me and the hottest guy started talking to me. so shes like forget it im not goin prep. but i still like the feeling of being preppy and shit...and so i signed up for basketball cheerleading...im wondering...was this the right thing to do? i mean, she still likes me and everything but i kinda feel weird...plz help.

if it's what you want and you're being you, you're not being fake just for attention, then yes it is right. be who you are though, don't try to be someone you're not!

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Okay.. So I picked at my zits and they started bleeding. So now I have these deep red scars on my face. I'm supposed to go out later but I can't seem to cover them up w/ any make-up i have. Is there anything that will cover them up?

wet and wild concealer stick. it will cover it up instantly. don't pick at it. wash your face daily, and try proactiv for your zits!

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I've been having a sore throat for about 3 days now... Is there any ways to make it go away? It feels like I'm always trying to clear my throat but I can't. Should I just drink a lot of water? I can't sleep because it feels like I can't breathe.

eat soft foods that arent hard to swallow. ice cream will feel really good on it. drink lots of orange juice and water. get plenty of sleep. vicks vapor rub will help you breathe better. feel better!

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For Christmas I'm looking for some good books! I'm 14 years old and I love real life diary books. I love those books when after your done reading them, your like "I dont' want it to end!". Anybody have any good suggestions. ? thanks

on my own:diary of a teenage girl (book 4)-they have a whole series of teen diaries that are so good.
honey for a teens heart
the diary of a young girl

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is it ronge to be a lesbeain

im guessing you meant is it wrong? im not really sure though. but anyways, i personally dont believe in gays and lesbians and i do think its wrong. but its not like i wont be around them, or anything like that. i still accept them for who they are. its your personal opinion. if you dont think its wrong, go for it.

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what are some ways to calm youself before you perform music, like audition or concert

listen to soothing music. sit down. relax. drink plenty of water. don't worry, you'll be fine!

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is god there? where is he, how do i know...

God is there. there is no proof, you just need to have faith.

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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?

grossest/biggest addiction in america. you don't want to get addicted and you have to have it. i would stop.

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