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why am i so shy?
Basically, I would say that around school I am pretty popular with all of my girlfriends and i hav eno trouble being myself and having fun. HOWEVER, once i get around boys I quiten up so much more and i get all nervous like a little girl! I don't know what's wrong with me because I used to be fine but some of my girl friends can be a little too loud and overpowering...HELP! x x x
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Hey --
THIS question right here, i believe, will help both, you, and MYSELF. Lately i have had that same problem. You and i seem to be just identical. I am so used to being myself, and i am popular with my friends... but when it comes to those boys... you just dont kno what to do.
Well, luckily, lately i have been improving VERY much. All i did was keep myself around boys, instead of trying to avoid them. I would say "hey" or something, and all they wouled do is smile back and say "hey". Right now, i have ALOY of guy friends and i am almost the same as when i am with my "girl" friends. I am even being liked by some of the guys!!
I really hope that this helped you out!
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Well that's how some girls are. Whenever they are around their girl friends they're out there and fun and everything but when it comes to guys.. they just clam up. It's just because you might be afraid you'll embarass yourself around guys and maybe they won't like you. I'm always afraid to say something stupid around them and I'm always afraid they'll think I'm weird or something, but around my girl friends I'm completley outgoing and loud because.. they're my girl friends. They're not going to get crushes on me, they're not going to think I'm weird. I already know they like me for me, so I'm more comfortable with them. Just put yourself in more situations with guys and try to act like they're your girl friends.. except with different body parts, lol. Just try and make yourself more comfortable around them. I hope I helped.
Love,
Mel <3
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YEA, i KiNDA HAVE DAT SAME PROBLEM, EXCEPT i ONLY GET SHY AROUND MY B/F..AND iVE LEARNED TO BE MYSELF, BECAUSE iF YA JUSS THiNK, THERES NO POiNT iN NOT BEiNG URSELF, BECAUSE PEOPLE SHOULD LiKE YOU 4 WHO YOU ARE..NOT FOR WHO THEY WANT YOU TO BE OR W/E!..SO JUST HAVE FUN WEN U ARE WiT YOUR FRiENDS, AND THE MORE YOU ARE AROUND BOiZ, U'LL GET USED TO iT, i AM!..♥ MoRgAn..*
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just be outgoing and fun. what is there to be afraid of. be yourself.
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In your question you said this is sometlhing that you've realized more so recently. Might it be because of how your view of boys has changed? If it is something like that, it's a confidence issue, if I had to guess. The only thing that will help or improve your shyness is by putting yourself more and more in situations with guys. Slowly you'll start to see the change where you become comfortable and can just be yourself. Let me know if it works for you.
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