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im 13/m nd i talk to this chick on msn, she was in my grade last year, she knows i like her, ive asked her out but she said no, that was atleast half a year ago, now she likes some1 thats not me, and i really wanna b wit her xcept she wont allow me to do dat, shes coming over to my house next friday and i wanna do something for her that will make her change her mind about this other guy and go out with me, but i dunno how to,
can you please help, thanks (link)
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Unfortunately you can't make some one like you. or convince them to fall in love with them. the best you can do is be there for them as much as possible.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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I NEED AN ANSWER FAST!! okay im talking to this boy, what should we talk about??? HURRY IM TALKING TO HIM RIGHT NOW AND I DONT WANT ANY AWKWARD SILENCES!!! (link)
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You Should talk about what interests you,. ask him what his favourite stuff is. what he's into and what not.
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I will try to make this short and sweet. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and half months now. In the beginning he used to tell me how perfect, cute, amazing and incredible I was. Used to text me till he fell asleep and every morning. Now after we have become official he does not tell me all the cute mushy things as much anymore. I am scared he is loosing interest or is this a common occurrence between couples? The only thing that has not changed is when we are in person. He always has his arms around me and tells me he loves me in person and we always have amazing times, but I lost the part where he would tell me his feelings all the time and say cutesy things over text and aim. Advice please! (link)
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He may not say the cute things and text you 24-7 but things look better than ever. I would stick with it if i were you. don't lose a prince of a word.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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18/f
i'm a senior in high school and in about 3 months i will be going to college. Here's a quick update on my life
-have a boyfriend. dating for 7 months. he's absolutely perfect. my soul mate. we are wonderful together
-my mom moved FAR away for work
-my best friend and i used to be really close but about something happened and now we are really distant. i havent seen or spoken to her in like 2 months.
i feel really lonely. when i'm with my boyfriend, things are amazing. i'm happy with him and we have a ton of fun! :) but then when i'm not with him, like at night when he's working, i get really lonely. i live with my dad and we get into fights sometimes. he's really annoying and we dont really get along that well.
I'm really confused on what i want. I want a best friend because i miss having girl time. I miss doing girl things like shopping or having a girls night out. but at the same time, i really hate girls. they're either bratty, bitchy, annoying, brag, disloyal, can't trust, obnoxious, want attention, liars, there's always competition, jealousy etc.
i can't tell you how many best friends i once had, but then ended up separated. i just wish for once i could have a best friend who wont cause drama and trouble. who i can actually trust, who i can have fun with and not worry about jealousy between us or anything.
i'm so lost. By the way, I dont really have many regular friends either. I play a competitive sport so pretty much i dont have a life outside of school or sports. Its kinda hard to explain.. i have school friends who i see in school, but outside of school i dont have many friends who i can hang out with.
I just get lonely sometimes, but at the same time i'm so sick of girls being bratty etc. I want a real friend. i'm not really the "social butterfly" either.
also, i think i might be trying too hard to get friends.. like do you think i should just go with the flow? or should i try harder?
i'm so confused! please help! (link)
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My dear darling. rule one you will know girls are drama! Unfortunately you won't run far from that.
But maybe try talking to some of the girl friends you haven't communicated with for a while.
Even try fixing things with you former best friend.
Friends are very hard to come by. I have had many failed experience in those as well.
Try both being your self of going with the flow a bit more. and see what happens.
Friendships arent develoved over night they are formed over a long period of time..
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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about how much would a monthly motel rate be for places like florida or south carolina? (link)
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for a place in those area's would be really hard to find a place for 40/50 sorry other buddy. :( Hugs. baha.
But most places vary from 75 to 120 per night. You would be better to look into rooming with some of your friends.
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Well my boyfriends friend likes me, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and a half. I hung out last night with his friend and we smoked it wasn't just us my friend and his friend went too. Sometimes I tell him I love him, then again I do that to all his friends as in a friendly love cause I'm friends with all my bfs friends. And this morning I got a text from him saying he reallyl ikes me, expecting me to say something sweet in return but I said idk what to say cause I have a bf.. I really like my bf but in a way I like his friend. What do I do? His friends mad at me for not saying anything back cause he says I "flirt" a lot. Help? What do I dooo? (link)
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If you love your boyfriend the way you say you do,
you should Tell his friend straight up that you are in love with your boy and that you only like him as a friend. And confront your boy saying that his boy was hitting on his girl. CUz that is far from guy code.
BUT ONLY IF YOU LOVE YOUR BOY>
If your questiioning it. Then you should step back and take a look at what you are really feeling.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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okay so I'm in love with two guys !!!!
I'm 17/ female.
I went out with this guy named James last year and me and him mess around a little bit .. after we broke up i met this amazing guy named Daniel (link)
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You will always have feelinga for James as he was your first.
My best friend was my first and we still have flames between us.But with saying that. James is bad news. BEcause he had a girl and still got you
He was having his cake and eating it too.
Daniel obviously loves you and cares deaply. as you care for him. he may have moved for reasons not that he wanted to be away from you.
James puts up too many RED FLAGS. I would stick with daniel and see where it goes.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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I am an 22 year old male to female transsexual. I am living full time as a woman. I live in an area that is frequented by prostitutes. There has been many a time cars have pulled up next to me and the guy offering me money for sex, I always shake them off although I must say I was tempted a few times to go for it. I have always fantasized myself being a prostitute. One night while at a club a really cute guy offered me a lot of money for oral sex. I told him sorry, I am not a working girl but he was real cute so I gave him head anyway (no money involved). Hanging out in the car with him I asked why would he want to pay so much money for oral sex. He just said that it was worth that much to him and put the money in my hand and told me to hop out of the car because he had to go. He drove off, I still had the money that I had turned down. Am I now considered to be a prostitute? (link)
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it all depends on your view of yourself.
IT just so happened that you got out of the car with the money.
But if it was a one time thing, i would say no.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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what is a really cute and cool way to ask a guy to the saide hawkins dance? i really like him but i dont know if he'll say yes..some other girls have already asked him and he's said no...how do i catch his eye? (link)
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Honesty is the best way.
Walk up to him and Tell him.
I Like you.
I am wondering if you would be interested in going to the SAIDE HAWKINS dance with me.
Smile.
haha.
If he says no,. it may just be that he hates dancing BUT
From what i've heard about 'saide hawkins dances' is the guy can't say no?
Maybe i'm wrong.
But the best way is to just straight out ask him.
*Hope This helps
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16/f. we go to the same school, same classes. He's kind of shy. a lot of mutual friends. I like him a lot.
friday:
~in the morning he hugged me and put his hands tight around my waist and as i was pulling away he kept his hands on my sides and we were just kind of looking at each other for a while.
~he asked for my number because he said he wanted to talk more
~he followed me and took one of our mutual friend's chair so we can watch a movie together and when a pretty girl came on in the movie most of the guys were talking about how sexy she was and stuff and he looked at me and said he personally thought she was ugly. i thought it was cute haha
~while i was with a group of friends during a class he asked me if i can "help" him with his work, when i sat with him he said he just wanted an excuse to talk to me
~people, including him, usually hang out in the parking lot near my school when school's out. he didnt know i was going with a few friends.(he left school before me) as soon as i got there, he saw me and left his friends to talk to me
~it was raining and super cold so we were veryy close and he decided to hold my hand and while holding hands he was like rubbing my hand (not so sure how to explain but it's something i used to do with people i care about)
~ he put his forehead against mine while we were just looking at each other
~he hugged me like 3 times when i had to go
I like him a lot but i've been hurt too many times in the past and i don't want to feel that ever again so I'm trying to get opinions and advice on what to do about this guy. do you guys think he likes me? what should i do?
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I'm sorry to say that being hurt about relationships is very hard. I'm 20/f and i've been hurt 4 times in the last year.
In all honesty likeing somneone is about taking the chance to find something worth fighting for.
This boy seems like he really really likes you., So if i were you i would take the risk of liking him and a relationship with him.
Being hurt only makes you stronger for what is yet to come. You deserve a prince and he seems like on.
Good luck sweetie.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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16/f
So I don't have a job and I feel kinda pressured to get one soon. Only because I'm planning on going to college out of high school. I'm a junior right now and graduating when I'm 17.
The college I'm planning to go to is out of state and probably like somewhat over 8,000 for the whole year.
If I got a job now would I have enough money by the end of my senior year?
If I don't get one now and get one during my senior year do you think I'll still get enough money?
I live in California if that helps for anything. Thanks so much! (link)
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Heyy,. Getting a job gives you money as well as Experince and maturity.
If you are relly wanting a job,. then you should apply for one that your interested in.
As far as money for collage,.
What is a good plan is try putting a significant amount away each paycheck,. or each month.
OR if you don't think saving yourself is a good plan as you fear you will spend the money
You could try giving the money to your parents or someone you trust,.
Not a friend or a sibling,. as i'm sure they might spend it.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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