HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
Website: http://www.myspace.com/Caramella91
Gender: Female
Age: 18
Member Since: July 8, 2006
Answers: 1016
Last Update: February 8, 2009
Visitors: 37279
Main Categories:
Spirituality
View All
|
| |
hey, well im thinking about starting to wear eyeliner. so i have a few questions about it. the first one is when you apply eyeliner do you apply it on both the top and the bottom? what looks btter? another question i have is when you apply eyeliner do you apply it above or below your eyelashes. also what color eyeliner is best? black or brown? last thing is should i use liquid eyeliner or the regular kind? thanks in advance.
-caitt (link)
| |
if you apply it above your lashes it will make your eyes appear smaller and if you apply it under your lashes it will make your eyes appear bigger.I like black eyeliner more because it sorta draws your eyes more.Liquid eyeliner is nice but if you tear up or cry itll mess up your face so i prefer the pencil eyeliner.You can apply it on the top and bottom if you want....see what looks better on YOU.
|
|
Okay, so the last time i had sex was about 2 months ago. (He did not ejaculate at all, the sex did not last more than 10 minutes) I got my period last month, and the month before, but right now, my period starting about between a week and 2 weeks 2, i feel bloated, and it feels like gas bubbles are in my stomache a lot lately for the past 3 days. I've checked sites to see the symptoms, and I have none of the symptoms, but I am just worried. Should I worry? Or do you think it's just my period, or something else? (link)
| |
even if he didnt ejaculate guys thingy has usually sperm drops on it and one drop has like hundreds of sperm enough to get YOU pregnant.But mabey youre not pregnent...wait to see if you get your period...if you get it then your NOT pregnant but if you dont for a while then you should see a doctor
|
|
ok so I got my period about 1 and half years ago in february 15,2005 but that was the only time. it nvr came back once a month and stuff it nvr came back...is this normal? (link)
| |
its normal since you just got it for it to not come on the exact time it came last time.it can be late for a long time.But beware that stress messes up your period time too.
|
|
I have a friend she does nothing but drag me down and talk about my other friends. How do I tell her I don't won't to be her friend anymore? (link)
| |
you can tell her that if she doesnt stop talking about them you dont ever want to talk to her again or be her freind(thats if you want to give her a chance) OR you can say, "look im telling you now that our freindship is over because all you ever do is talk about my other freinds" make it short and to the point.
|
|
When I shave my vagina, it is pokey even right after i shave, like how my legs get the next morning or so. It is also very itchy down there after that. How do I help this or prevent it? (link)
| |
some products such as using a razor makes it pokey after shaving,but if you wax instead it wont be pokey, at all youll get the best results but itll hurt a little
|
|
ok...well i was just wondering, when you actually start your period does the blood come out where you pea, or a little behind, like discharge?? please answer (link)
| |
no it comes out from the hole behind the one where you pee out of.This hole is where your period comes out of and where you give birth from
|
|
This is NOT a joke. I seriously think my house is haunted. Tonight I saw something (a black figure out of the corner of my eye) walk past my room. The reason why I dont think it was "just my eyes playing a trick on me" is because I felt a prescence, like there was someone there. When I looked down the hall, there was no one there. I asked my Dad who was watching TV in another room if it was him and he said, "No." And my Mom was sleeping in her room and no one else was home. Please help! This has happened 3 or 4 times and I cant sleep at night! What should I do?? Has this happened to anyone else? How did you feel less scared? :( (link)
| |
first of all ghosts DO exist BUT i dont think you saw anything....sometimes when you sit online too much,watch too much t.v or do a lot of things that include using your eyes a lot...your eyes play tricks on you.Dont worry though im sure youre eyes are just tired of all the reading,or staying online youve been doing for hours.Rest your eyes a little and everything will be fine.
|
I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that! (link)
| |
wow its great that theyre this age and still in love like this...ok its a lil freaky to "hear"them doing it but get over it...its nothing bad you know?Its better than having them hollering at each other and hating eachothers guts!Honestly what do you prefer?
|
This isn't like a real question,its more like just seeing who agrees. I want to give out advice but it's hard giving out advice when I have my own problems. Like I can't go on any type of love, friend, family, or school topics because I'm going through the same things. Have you ever felt wanted but can't give any help because of your own problems, and then you feel even worse? Well thats how I feel... The one place where my opinion matters, I can't help.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~ (link)
| |
yeah i totally get you....well for starters you can post out questions asking for advice to your own problems,get them solved, THEN help other ppl.
|
|
okay so i met this kid chris. well me & chris became close & he told people that he thought something would happen between us. like get together or something. so then i go over chris's house with my friend ashley & they start talking and stuff. now he is all into her after one time meeting her. he said that same thing about something would happen between them. well ashley knows how much i like him but yet is still going along and likes him back but lies to be about it. well he kept saying he wanted her. well tonight he calls me and asks me to go over his house. well i still really like him & i want to go over i just dont know how to deal with the situation. what do i say to them? this kid is a major player so i know he doesnt mean it to either of us but ashley really believes him but i really like him. eek. help? (link)
| |
seriously save yourself from the problem your about to fall into.He doesnt like you OR her.He likes varieties...changes in other words.He is obviously not ready for a relationship at ALL so dont even BOTHER going to his house cuz if you do youll just like him MORE.try to tell your freind that he aint good for the both of you and one day he will see a girl pretier than ashley and go off telling everyone how theyre together
|
|
im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice (link)
|
omg are you serious?!?is this like a prank question or something?this guy is not a boyfriend!!hes an ass ok?how can you ever let a guy as much as touch you?!?!hes taken totall advantage of you!!just because he has a frikin penis doenst mean he can rule the world with it and go off marking you as his territory cus your not.hes obviously taken control of you because he knows your totally obssesed with him!!duuh go tell the cops!!and your parents before he breaks your bones!!your making a terrible mistake now bby not telling anyone because one day your parents will be looking for you and will not find you home cuz youll be dead of how much this kids hitting you.wheres your personality????wheres your dignity woman.pull yourself together!!did he by chance leave a bruise on you when he hit you???im actually hoping he did because if he did then you can go show the police and tell them how hes been hiting you and truuust me he wont be able to touch one of your hairs after.ok listen to me this is what you do exactly after you read my advice to ya......you sit by yourself a lil thinking of how you were his doormat and how that is about to change!!!think of all the pain hes caused you,he doesnt love you!!!he just wants to be in control of someone so he can go off and brag to his freinds!!hes being a dick to you to make up for what he doesnt have!!think of all the fear and depression hes caused you and because of him you werent able to pay attention in your studies!!then gather up your courage and call up your boyfreind!!you have to!!if you dont do this youll never change!!call him and tell him exactly this......(be sweet thru the whole call...itll annoy the living shit outta him) hi baby....i missed you...oh and by the way i called to say im dumping you(at this poin hell be all yelling and cursing at you)say this in a sweet and not angry tone....i dont care curse as much as you want youre not gonna tell me what to do you mofo you want to come hit me??i dare you!!come hit me bi***!!oh look at that jhonny(or whatever his name is) is mad hes gonna cry because he just lost the best thing thats ever happened to him,your being a dic* to me to make up for what you dont have and im dumping you bye bye have a nice day...and hang up and go running to your parents and tell them everything....if you dont you will regret this all your life because hes not only going to scar your skin but he will also leave a scar deep within you and youll be scared later on of all guys.after you tell your parents expect your "x boyfreind" to do something crazy like come to your house...it could happen and if by any chance your parents arent home after you call your boyfreind dumping him then run off to the police station right away and tell them everything.your boyfreind will regret the day he was born.and please dont tell me you still love this guy...because im sorry to say he doesnt love you one bit!!obviously getting over him will be easy because when you remember all the pain hes caused you you will be like....what the hell was i thinking?!i guarentee this will work and even if he gets a chance to ever hit you again pray that it bruises so you can go to the cops with even more proof....look this is how i want you to go in on the cops doing.....go in with black liquid eyeliner and cryy your ass off and tell them and everything will be jusssst fine!!i think itll be better to go with your parents though
|
|
can cutting urself cause ecsema? (link)
|
Well,doctors don't know exactly what causes they think it's caused by a difference in the way a person's immune system reacts to things. Skin allergies may be involved in some forms of eczema.But NO cutting yourself doesnt get you this disease but i advice you NOT to cut yourself anywayz cuz cutting yoursefl can cause you other diseases.
|
|
Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help (link)
| |
omg if your not ready just say NO!!theyre not gonna send a hitman to whack you out if you do!dont care about what they think when you say no cuz its all about YOU when it comes to sex.Youre not ready yet and SEVEN times!wow!i mean its dangerous especially if its unprotected!You can get STD's cuz of a simple mistake your making now by not saying no.In life you need to talk like noone can hear you meaning,dont care about what he will say back like your ammature.Your not going to be amature when theyre the ones that have STD's and they do.lay off the sex for a while so you dont regret ot later on
|
Hi, I read that you're Muslim and so am I so that's why I'm asking you this and I hope you can help me.
Okay well my mom is always talking about how I need to find more Muslim friends and stop talking to my Christian friends because they're *not like us*. But see, the people I hang out with don't drink or party or sleep around or anything like that. They're really good people and that's why I'm friends with them. But my mom doesn't see it like that; she just sees that they are Christian.
And even today before the Friday prayer the shekh (sp?) was talking about how Muslims should not only show love and mercifulness towards other Muslims but to other people as well. And he told stories about the prophet Muhammad (SWT) saw a funeral for a Jewish man that he didn't know but he still got up and joined the funeral and prayed for him.
So I told my mom that and she was still like *yeah but I know how Christian girls act* but it isn't like that! Any help?
(link)
| |
you know,im a muslim girl and some of my best friends are christian and theyre really great people,i see nothing wrong with being freinds with christians as long as they dont do bad things such as messing around with the opposite gender and drinking,drugs and stuff like that.Your moms only worried about you and thinks they might make you lose your faith in Allah and become a bad muslim.If you want to remain good freinds with them make sure you dont lose your faith and promise your mom that they will never drag you into doing anything wrong.God created the 3 main religions...islam,judism and christianity and its really sinful to make fun of other religions....you know there was astory abouut prophet mohamed (ppbuh) when he used to pray the jews back then used to throw trash on him while he prayed and he would od nothing about it so one day one of the men that used to throw trash on him didnt show up so prophet mohamed went and asked,"where is this man?" they told him where he lived.Prophet mohamed went to VISIT the jew in his house and said,"i heard you were sick,are you ok?The jew got up and said the shahada and turned muslim of how the prophet is so kind to him....So,if Prophet mohamed treats the other religions nicely why should we not?They didnt really do anything to make you fear them,tell your mom that.And if you ever need my advice or help my email and msn messenger is marilyn_monroe_4_arabs@hotmail.com...and for yahoo and yahoo messenger its french_chick2005@yahoo.com.........you need to promise your mom and give her your word that they wont drag you into anything bad and when she sees that your doing good with them,shell beilive you
|
|
i saw a movie maybe like 6 years ago on my tv and it was a great movie.. and i want to see it again but i forgot what it was called or the main plots of the movie, i think the title had like something moon or a planet in it and there was a boy and a girl in it and they boy liked the girl but the boy ended up going into like a lake or an ocean and he drowned and it was really sad.... the only way you can help me is if you have seen it, because i already tryed googling it. thanks (link)
| |
lol
|
|
well me and my boyfriend broke up and now i like this other guy. we have been hanging out alot and everything but i dont know if he likes me or not. he said he wants to make sure me and my ex are completely over with before anything happens then maybe. but now he acts totally different. like nothing could EVER happen. i asked him and he was like well we barely know each other we have to hang out more. what does this mean? should i give up or keep trying? thanks (link)
| |
well you just got to know him,give him a while to like you!Keep trying for like a month cuz thats how much it takes to make a guy like you (at least)But you cant expect him to like you so quickly and he is also trying to wait a while to make sure you got over your ex so just keep trying with him,if he says he wants to be just freinds then forget about him cuz he dont like you
|
|
ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated. (link)
| |
First of all you should never EVER hold back on telling a guy that he being ruff with you.You should have told him to go easier cuz it can lead to something more severe.Anyway it hurts you now because of what he did and thats normal,after what he did ofcourse its going to hurt.But itll get better by time and make sure you tell him next time that it hurt you and NO you wont look stupid.
|
I used to be best friends with this girl.Then i started to like her and all was going well in our relationship.Then stuff happended and we had a big fight.Its been months since then i just want to be friends with her. I stopped liking her. a week or two ago i said sorry and we both "forgave" each other and all seemed very well. days later, i talked to her and she started shutting me down.
What more can I do to be friends with this person again?Do I just leave her alone? (link)
| |
She might have forgive you but it doesnt mean she got OVER you.Leave her alone for a while and dont bother asking her why shes doing this cuz its obvious she still likes you.Just dont talk to her for a while cuz its really hard for girls to get over guys they liked before and even HARDER to stay "just freinds"
|
|
my best friend gets rly jealous when guys think im hott. sometimes, she even tries to stop me from evr talking to them cuz shes jealous that they dont think shes hott, and she gets mad at me. One time online we were talkin to this guy we saw that day, and he thought i was hott, and my friend got mad and was like wouldnt let me see what she was sayin to him, and then she got kinda mad when he asked for my sn. wat should i do? i hate when shes mad at me, its really annoying. (link)
| |
This is really amature, but she cant help how she feels.Tell her that even though guys think shes hot doesnt mean she should be mad,she should be happy for you in a way.Tell her that shes pretty in her own way and if she isnt happy with what shes got it can all be taken away from her if shes not grateful
|
|
O.k. now I always give good boy advice but this has never happened to me or anyone else I know. Ok here's the situation:My boyfriend hasn't called me in 4 days! Thats not normal 4 him he usually calls almost everyday if its only a 4 minute talk or 4 hours. I mean there are plenty of situations to where he can't call like for some example's: His grandmother won't let him use his cell(their hous phone is disconnected),he's punished, or he's working with his uncle. but he doesn't work 24/7 so he could of called. What do ya'll think of this. Is he gonna break up with me or what? I mean its ok if he wants to break up with me but everyone knows (even his own mother and my mother!!) that he loves and adores me. The last time I talked to him he didn't act like anything was wrong everything was perfectly ok and I can tell when somethings wrong with him or anyone by attitude, tone of voice, and stuff like that. So anyone got any tips on what I should do and what he's trying to tell me, (if anything, cuz no matter what he usually tells me straight up no matter how bad), or why he's ignoring me!> Just anything please help me!! I'll rate high for good answers. (link)
| |
i think that he probably got in really big trouble with his family and cant use the phone at all.Something like that definetly happened,i mean,he wouldnt cut out like that for no reason.Call him anywayz and ask him why he hasnt called.Mabey hes just really busy.If he insists that nothing is wrong and he WASNT busy then i think he might have gotten bored of calling everyday,then what you do then is try to keep your relationship with him more interesting.
|
|