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OK my teacher is holding tryouts for a solo to a good song on Wednesday. I know the solo really well and I've been practicing all week. I want to do it but i'm afraid if i get up there, I'll choke or something. I can't even sing in front of my mom! How can i overcome this by Wednesday?

You can definatly do it - i overcame it agesss ago.Go 2 a good mate and sing to them.....but they cant always give you an honest opnion go 2 your ma or pa and ask them what they think as parents always give us the truth wethere itz horrid or not.itz harder 2 sing in front of one person than millions.....but it is totally not bad.JUST SING 2 UR RENTs and mates
sadiexx

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one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal?

Maybe he DID like you....he did tell you but wanted to see your reaction, he obvioslouy felt some strange said "kidding" to not make it look stupid or anything - he liked you and maybe still likes u!

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I'm having a holiday and a valentine party. (2 different ones) I really want some cute games and ways to get my friends parents to let them sleep over (Co-Ed) I know like spin the bottle, but we're 13 so any ideas?

First to get da parents 2 let ur mates stay around: present them with a classy invitation and get your parents over the phone - that always works.Hmmmm games are boys going to be there?If so 7minz of heaven?(lol)
But if it is quite girly(AT DA SLEEPOVER) maybe do the full treatment.....beauty and facial!!You can all make smoothies and stuff.You can play spin da bottle 2!Rent a frw dvdz i have no ideas on games lol
r8 it,
sadie 13/f

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Well.. homecomming is comming up and i have to decide between these 3 dresses.. i love them all i just cant decidee!

http://img524.imageshack.us/img524/6091/dresseslx4.png

Well,
personally i loveeeee the red and plum colour one
the blue one isnt ugly but i doont like the middle things near da breasts.But the blue is more sophisticated and sensible and innocent
If you are a hot spicy tanned person the red or plum would look excellent - mainly the plum one
But if your quite pale go for the red but put fake tan,or flesh colour tights on or put black leggings on!
rate it
sadie xxx

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating since the beginning of summer. Im 15 and hes 16. He's been my bestfriend for about a year and I honest to god love him. Our 6 month annaversary is coming up on Dec. 14th and last night we were talking about getting each other really nice gifts as annaversary/x-mas presants. Im stuck! I really want to get him something really special, memorable and just something he'll really appreciate.

Thanks in advance![:

get him something that reminds him of ur first date or where you first met or something!

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I'm a 20 years old girl.I met a guy 8 months ago at the beginning it was so much fun to have someone like him. He treated me so good and I loved him a lot.After 3 months in our relationship everything change on him no late night talkin no nothing. I talked with him about it He said that's because of school and his job but his gonna make it up to me,at this time I understood him.Yesterday some girl call my phone curse me out and told me that they've been goin out since 5 months ago that's when I understood the reason y he changed.I talk to him about it he said he was sorry he never liked dat girl he just wanted to you know wat i'm tryin to say, the one he loves it's me he wants me to be his wife have his baby.I still love him it's like i wanna give him a chance or i don't wanna my heart don't want him to go all i can do for now is crying I can't concentrate because i love him too much.It's like he got his sign on my heart he asks me to forgive him telling me that was a mistake I don't know wat to say and wat to do he broke my heart but i still love him

He has been lying 2 u for 5 months and what if she didnt call?When would he tell you?Would he ever?Dont give him a chance - he had 5 months and more to tell you the truth - now thats a chance and he has blown it.You may love him but he cannot be trusted - he will just break your heart.Sometimes the easiest way is to say no that way you wont get hurt and you can find someone who will never cheat on you.There is someone out there 4 evry one, he isnt obviously your soul m8,
sorreh if it sounds harsh,ask me anything honey!
r8 in,
sadie xx

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Does anyone know a really good way to get rid of pimples & zits? I am having the breakout of the year for some reason. I did the toothpaste thing. It didn't do too much except dried out my face so bad, I'm peeling. Also, I am allergic to benzoyl peroxide. I know, pretty tough, huh? Well, thankyou for any suggestions.

I live in the uk so I dont know if you ever heard of any of things I am going 2 suggest.
Try savlon spray or cream it works like a charm
or superdrug spot roller, thatz gd 2 but I recommened SAVLON!!!!!!!!!!

hope it works
sadie x.x.x
ask me anytime!
r8 it!

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i know this will make me sound desperate but i really want a boyfriend i have not even kissed a guy before and it is making me feel very depressed i just would really like to have a boyfriend because i am a freshman in highschool PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

I havnt had a bf (though been asked out)and aint been kissed either!Whats with all the pressure?Do you mates have bfz?Reply and I will be able to help you
sadie xx

Continued:
You might feel lonley but no girl needs a man to make her feel "not lonley" if there is particular cutie uve had your eye on, go for it
whats to lose?

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I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul

dont cut it hurts everyone around you and doing it encorages ur mate to do it even more.If you feel da urge cut paper or something (i dont know laugh out loud)my mate used to cut but to help when she had urges n stuff she started to write a book and she is still writing in it and adding all the things that happened to her in the story - it can really help
sadie xx

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uh...
i dont eat breakfast b/c i dont like eating early in the morning at like 6--i dont mind eating at 8 but i dont like eating early. i dont eat lunch at school im never really hungry. i eat when i get home and dinner w/ my family and w/ my friends and now some of my friends think im bulemic...
i still cut and friends r asking and im saying no-- id want my parents 2 have 2 go through it again about knowing im still doing it
whatdo i do ? i justhonestly dont care what happens to me....
*sigh*

listen i wake up at 6 and hateeeeee breakfast and 8 i dont mind eating - i dont eat lunch coz i am never really hungry but my friends r ok and so r my 'rents.Make em see you r coping, with skl and stuff and say to your mum "is there anyleft over" so she feels as she is doing her part of being a mother.Dont cut it willlll NEVER help you and doing it hurts
you
parents
and friends and if it was one of them doing it would you be upset and worried , try be in thier postiton to
sadie xx

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i was cleaning my sons ears with some q tips and noticed some small amounts of blood on it i feel so bad and scared should i be scared blz help concerned mom

you just dug to deep with the q tips love!

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what is the quickest and easiest way to get rid of a sore that is in my mouth? it REALLY hurts!

Buy BLISTEX
IT IS THE BESTTTTTTTT
buy it in superdrug (that is if u r livin in da uk lol)

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HELP!!!! i have horrible sunburn what do i do to make me feel beter i can't move i have been crying all day cause it hurts so bad i can't put clouths on unless i scream help me plez thanx

SMOTHER URSELF IN AFTER-SUN CREAM it prevents sorness and peeling!It makes your skin feel so cool and make sure your clothes are 100% cotton or near that amount!

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What causes the ugly red spots that show up when you shave your legs and are there alllll the time? Its really gross and ugly looking.
Anyone got any advice on how to reduce the noticeability of them or even make them go away?

I tried lotion but.. that only lasts so long and definately doesnt make them GO AWAY.

Is it just irritated skin?

do you use shaving cream?If you dont that could be the problem?

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i started to cut in march and i stopped in june and now im starting again. it feels like i have to do it at least once a day. my friends get really upset when i cut because they dont want me to hurt myself. does anyone know what i can do to try to stop? please help me.

you HAVE to talk it out.My mate used to do it but no strangley she decided to stop by writing her OWN book and it has so much in it of what happened to her in it but a different charecters name and stuff- try writing your own book.She also talked to someone at school some special teacher - and it helped.You cutting hurts You your friends and family - dont do it

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ok my butt crack itches really bad... like for 2 days its been going on.. its happened before but only for like 2 or 3 days so im hopin its the same.. is it bad? like it itches reaaaaaaaaaly bad.. is that bad? is there anything i can do to stop it?

do you mean the hole?I could be thread worms - they are nothing 2 worry about.Just go 2 your chemists and ask for medication - you dont need to see a doc!If it reallyyy itches at night then it must be thread worms becauase they LOVE the dark

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15/f

I just don't know i mean i think he likes me but i'm not sure.

I had gotten mad at him the other day because he was teasin me about this boy who like me but i don't like him.

so i stopped talking to the guy i like lets call him D and today he was all like i publicly apologize i'm sorry infront of half the class to me.

then he started singing don't cha by pussy cat dolls but changed the lyrics

Don't cha wish ya girlfriend hott as her to me!

i thought it was cute but does he like me or was he being nice?

i would LOVE some guys' help on this Thanks!

darling he likes you!But singing a song like that means he may just b intersted in you physically!Singing a slow song means he wants you and wants to know you deep

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I don't know what to do and I can't cope so please help me if you can...

The truth is...nobody likes me. I'm not saying that in a 'feeling sorry for myself' way. It's fact. I work in an office where I overhear people bitching about me, where people lie about me and where they arrange nights out and I'm the only one not invited.

I can't do anything about it really because none of it can be proven and my Manager already believes the lies that have gone round about me because he's confronted me about them. There's nobody above him I can go to and I can't leave because I need the money and having looked around, I know I can't get the same anywhere else.

I can't seem to do anything right. Work is bad enough. I try SO hard and have done hours and hours of overtime, which I even refused to accept payment for because of personal reasons but I still mistakes. Constantly.

To make matters worse, I'm a complete failure in all other aspects of my life. I can't keep our home clean. I can't do a whole host of other things I should be able to do and the only things I ever really work at, I fail at and I'm so fed up of being such a loser and a failure that all I can seem to do is cry right now and not stop.

My boyfriend tries so hard to help me cope but I feel so miserable all the time and there's nothing anyone can do because the problem is with ME.

So, I guess my question is, how can I be happier? How can I stop feeling so bad about everything I seem to suck at?? And how do I find people who care about me, because other than my boyfriend, I don't think anyone does.

Ok, you need to move jobs!Because if you are being brought down by them low lifes trying to make you upset, your bringing your bf down and men dont awlways like to say that thier tired of our female constant moaning and crying or whatever.Just find a new job and tell the manager that you feel like you need a change, whatever you do dont care what others think they arent worth it hun
r8 it
sadie x

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okay heres the thing i am scared to go up to a girl and start talking to her i am scared i will try and talk to her and she will think i am an idiot..
is it normal for a girl to say they have a boyfriend around there friends
but when they are not around there friends they act like they really like me
i need help


thankyou

Us females give mixed messages to guys and they can never understand so i am Sorreh about that.Always make eye contact and smile - so she gets an idea of who your are and your not a nobody.Walk past her and say hi and make sure you put her name on the end of it eg: "hi AMY"
so she knows you know her!Just talk to her about stuff like skl for intance.If she ignores you - dont bother because what she wants is for you to run up to her like a sad little dog - dont fall for it!

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Like i've been told I'm not normal because I'm freinds with some of my junior high teachers. I mean I would think it would be normal to talk to them once in a while. You grow a relationship with them and I just happen to like keeping that relationship. Is that normal?

Dont care what others think.Your just growing up faster and maturing faster - your basically growing and flowering into a young adult!Just make sure you dont talk to them too much - it can ruin your social status!The social status - i mean if you have a school heirachy and bitchy girls that rate other girls on sizes and hair etc, then you have a social status from their point of view

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