This next week I am going camping with my friend. I have never been camping ever and I am excited. Except the fact I am very afraid of water. They plan on taking us out on a boat and go swimming in the middle of the lake and do stuff like that. I dont want to be a pain, and them feel like, oh god.. why we take her. What can I do? I dont want her to get mad at me either. I am just so scared and I can barely swim.
just be truthful. you can't help it. and im sure she will understand.
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I live in a small town in Illinois. You know, where the corn and stuff is. Anyway, the only places we have to "hangout" is the movie theatre, ice rink, and a local pool. Other than that, we have nothing. Going to the same three places gets very boring, any hangout ideas for small towns?
well im in the same situation but my town doesn't have an ice rink. try goin camping or soemthing.and just walk around town or buy some games and go to the park. not much else.
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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!
PLEASE help!
talk to her. but she needs help cauz it will just
happen again. so help her get thro this and get her to talk to someone. please.
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How do I rate?
you have to ask a question then when you view the answers to your question then it will show that you need to rate and you do.
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My angel is leaving for the Navy in about 14 hours and I am having a lot of trouble coping... Does anyone know any good coping skills for me to try? I really would appreciate advice... (by the way, I am 17 and female) ~SammyPie
dear sammypie,
just try and think about when he will be bak. and how much good he will be doing. but there isn't really anything that you can do.
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my friends and i frequently get headaches at the most inopportune times, upon which we dont have aspirin or anything. what is an effective way to lessen a headache considerably using only your own two hands?
try massaging your temples. gently. in round circles.
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thyz iz a dumb ? but how do u keep frum gettin shaver burnz on ur legz?
use more shaving cream and/or water and soap.
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I was doing Capoeira (brazilian karate) and I hurt my leg and it's getting worse. What should I do?
go to the doctor.
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i just drank a bottle of water and i feel hungry now and im on a diet and i cant eat anything likt but salads and fruits and vegies and i really cant go get um rite now cuz i dun wanan wake up my pareents being lound ya get wut im sayin..i guess i wil rate ya
just find something in your kitchen that's like low cals and low carbs and healthy stuff. and just eat it. you should stalk up on flavored rice cakes. they aren't that bad.
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on buddy4u hOw do u get music ?! can u answer me please ill rate u !!
dear hey,
im not really sure. but i just looked it up so go to buddy4u.com and you have to click on the music and then you choose which music package you want. so if you need anymore help just ask.
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Well I heard that usually after you have sex your voice changes but then the guys voice changes also and thats when their getting older I mean when is my voice gonna change if I dont have sex because I dont want to like around what age and well it be ina good way and well guys like u more...Im just Curious!
your voice changes without sex. sex doesn't have an effect on it
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.
dear pregnant,
well first of all you didn't crawl on top of yourself and get urself pregnant. it's his responsibility too. talk to your parents. and tell them that you want to keep your baby. just dont' get an abortion. they have adoption agencies for your baby. i can get some info for you if you would like it. just leave me a message in my inbox. just think long and hard about this.
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Some times I feel like my parents don't love me. My sibling always make fun of me. My family always says they wish I'd run away. I have tried to kill myself before. but my mom and my friend came into my room so I had to come out of the closet. I don't know if they noticed but I had a thin red line across my neck. I don't wanna die but sometimes I feel it's the only way to get my family to love me. please help!
just tell them how you feel. don't kill urself cauz it only lets you take the easy way out. maybe you have a nice family member that you could stay with. or something. im sorry that you have to go thro that. it's wrong and they shouldn't do that to you or anyone else. im sorry.
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I hate basketball. well i don't hate it i just dont like it very much. Everyonr says I should play even our school's coach but i don't know. im 5'7 so they say ill be a good rebounder or defender??? but i cant shot! i miss everything! should i play?
dear basketball,
only play if you want to. don't do it for ur coach or anyone else but urself and think about if you really want to. and if you do then go for it.
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im 5'5 and i weigh 70 pounds am i underweight? my shrink said i was please help
yeah sorry hun but you are. but unless ur using pills or anything you can't help it.
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My boyfriend is always giving me hickeys and I really want to give him one. I've never gave one before, so how do I actually do it? Alls I know is you have to suck on the neck, but exactly how do you give someone a hickey?
well you do have to suk on his neck. but just tease him first. like kiss him. and play with his neck and just play around and it will come naturally. so have fun!!!!
*~~~shana~~~*
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hio i am going into high school and i have never had a boyfriend... how can i make a guy lyk me.... i am also shy how can i lyk not b shy to a guy. wut kind of stuff do b/f and g/f talk bout??????
thx
!~me~!
dear me,
well just be urself and you will shine!!!
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how do you make-out or french kiss?..and is there really a differnce?
dear confused lips,
well making out is usually when you just dry kiss. and frenching is where you use tounge. so they are quite different. but start wid making out and then go to frenching and it will come natural.
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Is it normal if your period only last three days? If it isn't please tell me why!
yes. everyone has a different cycle length. mine usually lasts for a week and a half and i only get it about once every three months or so. so don't worry you have nothing to worry about but you can also go to the doc if your not totally satisfied wid my answer but you don't have anything to worry about.
*~~~shana~~~*
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how do you finger a girl?
gentleness is the key. just play around a bit. massage her thru her panties. then just rub the outside softly. and then when you stik your fingers in just start wid one and work your way up. and ask her if your hurting her. so have fun.
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