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Okay. I am really shy. I am going to 9th grade next year & I want to make new friends. And when it comes to guys, Im super shy. I need advice on how too go up and talk to someone. And what too say. Thanksssss
if some of your friends are talking to boys or other friends you don't know, go up to them. see if you can start a conversation. just make sure that they're not talking about something private
My Mom doesn't like when i watch like MTV cuz she sez there is always junk on. like and she wants me to lead such a sheltered life. Like she thinks i don't know anything about like sex and drugs and stuff. i'm 12 wut should i do?
MTV isn't bad in my opinion. They do have those public service announcements though. Tell your mom a general idea of what you want to watch.
Hey..
I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to stay fit and in shape. I have been lifting weights running swimming biking everyday..I would like to lose a few pounds even though for my age I am pretty skinny..It would just make me feel better about myself. I know not to overwork myself or anything like that..and I have been trying to eat healthier. Thanks..I appreciate it!
try making it fun!!! put on music and dance around, invite friends to go on walks and things like that. make sure to cut carbs and cals, but don't get too obsessed with dieting.
well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl
wait! don't let your friends pressure you to do something you dont want to do. you'll regret it if you just have sex with a guy just because your friends told you to
okay. there is this kid that has been in love with me for like 3 years. he constantly used to bother me at school and on the internet and stuff. not to be superficial or anything like that but this kid smells so bad you can't breathe around him - no lie. two summers ago, he told me he loved me and i said " ew" and he threw a glass bottle at me. after that i didn't talk to him for a while. then i decided i was too mean and decided to talk to him again.. but his obsession with me got HORRIBLE. finally at the end of my junior year he was pestering me and i couldnt take it anymore and i screamed at him to leave me alone. then after school i was walking to work, and i saw him in my field on the way there. i freaked out and didnt know what to do so i let him talk and after that i didnt want anything to do with him because seriously this kid is MESSED UP ( like OCD and anxiety disorder). i just dont know what to do when i go back to school and have to see him again. hellllpppp!
you have to tell somebody. Because this kid has prolems, he might do something dangerous. take a different route to work
ok i'm really short like 5'0 and I think I'm over really weight I'm about 125-130:-/ and I want to get myself bad into shape. Do you think I'm honestly over weight? Can you tell me some workouts that can help me?
I'm swimming alot now and getting back into doing a lot of crunches every day. But I need more to do. Plus I'm trying not to eat junk food and eat health (fruits, salads, some veggies) although I don't do good with veggies I don't really like them what do I do in that case?
it depends on your body type. If you really feel uncomfortable, go to your family doctor and see what they have to say. I think you are doing all the right things right now though. Make sure to cut carbs (breads, pastas, ect.) Hope i helped!
Ok here's the problem. I kind of have a "thing" with this guy. What I mean by thing is we hang out all the time and everynight he walks me to my door and kisses me goodnight. I know he likes me because he has told me before. The problem is I want him to commit to me. I mean I want him to be my boyfriend! I'm just WAY too afraid to ask him out because I'm not sure of his answer. I want him to ask me out! What do I do??
i think he's sending signals.. i'd go for it.. he seems to like you and everything. just tell him how you feel. good luck!