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im 13 and ive given about 5 handjobs,all to the same person,do u think im a slut. i gave my first handjob when i was about 7 and my most recent when i was 12. the guy wasnt my BF but he was my best friend and still is. ive always loved him but hes never felt the same way do u think he was useing me?

WHEN YOU WERE ABOUT 7?!

Exactly how horny were you at 7?

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I'm getting a new straightener for my birthday. What's better, a chi or a sedu?



And if you've used it what are the pros/cons?

Thank youuu (:

I love the Chi. I have my own 1 1/2 inch Chi and it works so well.

Pros:
- Doesn't take that long to straighten
- Makes your hair super straight
- Takes literally 1 minute to warm up
- Easy to use

Cons:
- Gives you bad split ends (like any other straightener)
- Damages your hair (buy the special CHI Shampoo and Conditioner)

Those are the only cons that I can think of, but don't straighten your hair every single day. My friend Erin straightens her hair every day, and now her hair gets frizzy and doesn't stay straight because it's THAT damaged.

Choose Chi!

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okay so im going over somebodys house on saturday. its going to be my friend, her boyfriend, me, and my boyfriend. so im pretty sure that its going to be fun and everything and we're going to make out and stuff..and i've never made out. i am soo nervous and excited.

any tips?
and like any tips over all for the night?

Making out isn't something that you can teach, it usually comes naturally. Be gentle, sultry, and put your hands against his chest. Don't just leave your hands sitting there, run your hands through his hair, and kiss him like you mean it! Just have fun, don't get stressed since your boyfriend loves you anyway (and you know it), and enjoy it!

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13/F

Okay, so my gym teacher knows I hate gym. I tried to get into another class... But no, my principle hates mE!!!! He let the others kids get a different class, but nooooo. I had to STAY! Damn it! I've had gym all 3 years in middle school! I fucking HATE IT!!!!!! I was not built for gym, math, science or make up. UNDERSTAND THIS. My gym teacher broke my cool two days ago. I wore my black high heels so I don't have to do gym again. He yelled at me and told me to go to the office... Here's what happened...

Me: What? Okay, whatever...
Gym dude: Don't use that tone with me!
Me: What? Okay, whatever...
Gym dude: Romero, I want you to participate
Me: Well, I told you I hated gym, but you didn't listen.
Gym dude: So? It's good for you.
Me: Yea right. It makes me sore and mad.
Gym dude: Go to the office now! You're making me mad!
Me: Fine, I will. good bye...

After he went int othe gym I yelled after him: bastard! He didn't hear me, damn it. and I went to the office. i never got in trouble because of some cute guy i nthe office. He mad me happy again, yay and we went to class together. Now, look.
What i want is, HOW DO I GET OUTTA THIS FUCKING CLASS?!?!?!?! And don't give me any shit about, Gym is good for you, gym will make you feel better, gym will blahblahblah

I was built for writing, computer stuff and fucking anime characters, got it? NOw, here's more info on my daily thigns to tell you some about mah...

Writes, sleeps, sits at comptuer 24/7 (yay), studies presidents (I like history), and is VERY lazy! I am lazy, and proud, I'm a bitchy, lazy, emo anime fucking freak! Okay, anyway... hope that helped, haha

p.s don't ask about the anime fucking thing...*Adivce person stares at screen* Okay fine, I like anime alot, okay? Get over it...

Oh gosh, hahaha I HATED gym all throughout middle school. Especially when we had the swimming unit.. that was the worst. My only suggestion is to ignore your gym teacher if he has any rude remarks; or you could suggest like dodgeball, kickball, a walk/run outside, flag football, and other fun games so it doesn't seem like all you're doing is running. I can't honestly think of anything else, but I hope it works out for you.

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Okay there is this guy I like. Im 20 and he is 26. He is over at my house all the time, and we will be sitting in the backyard and he will pick up a handful of rocks and playfully throw them at me. Or I will get a text from a friend and he will text me (when he is like 2 feet away) and he will be like "is this the only way you will pay attention to me? I’m an attention whore" or "I’m shy around you. I have a hard time talking to you, you make me blush" Or when he leaves he sometimes will be like "don’t miss me...I know you do when I’m gone". He always stares at me and when he talks to me he is always looking me in the eyes. I will be sitting on the couch and he will sit right next to me to where our legs will almost be touching, and if they are, he doesn’t move his leg. A family friend that had never seen or heard of him before, asked me if he likes me because she seen the way he was looking at me and she said she’s positive he likes me. Do you think he likes me? Thank You to All Who Answer!

Yes!

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How do you download videos from youtube on your iPod video?

http://vixy.net/

The instructions are simple. You don't have to download anything, it's an online converter. Go to the youtube video, copy the address in the Address Bar, and just follow the instructions posted on the website.

Pretty easy!

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Hey im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and tomorrow is our 8 month, what would be something really cute to give him? I have no idea, and i really dont have time to go anywhere i was thinking of doing something with pictures of us, but i dont know? anyone have some cute yet simple ideas?

- make him dinner, and make a scrapbook with pictures of you guys, like a scrapbook; show it to him at dinner.
- write him a love note explaining how much you love him. i'm sure he'll love it.
- ice skating
- picnic (if the weather's nice)
- this idea was in a seventeen magazine; take a road trip, and a coin. if you flip heads, turn left. if you flip tails, turn right. see where you'll end up. :]

those are just a few ideas. hope they helped.

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I need ideas for a e mail name!!! Its at hotmail.com. My name is Cate. I want to have it be cute, have flair, and be spunky. All ideas welcome!!! THAXX!!

catelovesyouu(@hotmail.com)
catebaby
x3cate
catexo
cate_ox
cate (birthday date; for example, if your birthday is on the 23rd of March, you would put cate23)
misscate

any of those could work. :]

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I recently downloaded Limewire. Once I did, a new file popped up on my iTunes, under "Shared", that says "user's LimeWire Tunes". I have a few songs under that, but they don't come up in "Music", and I don't know how to import them because I don't know why I should, since they're right there on iTunes. How do I get them onto my iPod?

I tried doing that, but I use Frostwire. (It didn't work).

My way of putting music into my library/iPod, is to just simply open up my Music folder [Start // My Music] and clicking and dragging the music file into iTunes. It's so much faster and easier. If you want to put in more than one song, click one song, hold down the Control key, and click the other songs that you want to select. Then simply drag onto iTunes.

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okayy. my boyfriend is supposed to cumm to my house like saturdayy. && we were goingg to watch a movie. now what movie should we watchh. i told him i would pick the movie out. and mee i would get like the gayy'est movie out there, haha and we would be boreddd as CRAAAZY. so if anyone knos of a good movie "informm me!"
thannks muchh! :D

- Final Destination
- Knocked Up
- The 40 Year Old Virgin
- Talladega Nights
- Reno! 911 - Miami(funniest movie ever, its really innapropriate lol, so don't watch it around your parents)
- Transformers
- 300
- Anchorman
- Stomp the Yard

um yeah that's all that I can think of right now. look at the new releases section at blockbuster.

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15/m
is it weird to never have had a wet dream before?
ive had sex dreams, i just never y'know.
and yes, i have hit puberty, about 4 years ago hah so dont suggest that

like do some guys never have them?

it's perfectly normal. you might get them tomorrow, or next year. you never know. don't worry about it. :]

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all the halloween costumes for girls are now all slutty none just scary. is there anywhere that sells good scarier halloween costumes? i wana be something gothic and either scary or i guess funny i wanted to wear little wings lotsa makeup and no mask. what could i be? i dont even know what halloween costumes are scary now. and i dont wana be one of thoes gay wannabee gothic costumes. 13/f im goin with a lot of my friends and to a party but id wear anything.

I wore a vampiress costume when I was your age about two years ago, and I like made my hair really frizzy by teasing it with a comb. I got white face paint and red face paint and drew blood lines on my face. I put on really bright red lipstick and my eyeliner was really heavy. My mom had a long red velvet dress in her closet and I wore that as my outfit. I got a lot of compliments on the outfit and it freaked a lot of people out too.

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Do you have a favorite South Park Episode(s)?
What are they?

Hahaha, I love the one with J.Lo and the hand puppet thing.

"My name is Hennifer Hlopez, and I like to eat tacos and burritos!!"

All throughout the episode, she keeps going 'si si!' and there's this really funny part where J.Lo gets really mad when Cartman comes with the puppet, and the puppet goes "HOLA BITCHOLA!" and J.Lo goes "What the hell is that? THATS WHAT YOU HAVE TO REPLACE ME?"

I don't remember the episode entirely, since it was awhile ago, but it's hilarious! The J.Lo puppet starts screwing Ben Affleck.

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13/F

People are always insulting me and my friends about watching Naruto, Bleach etc... They say its a baby show. First off, it is not. There's porn in it, for God's SAKE!!!!!!!!! What do I tell peopel who tease me and my friends? I tried to ignore it, but now it's just pissing me off. I'm obsessed with anime. So are my friends, we shouldn't be judged should we?!

p.s if you're the matt guy who keeps insulting me on this thing, don't you dare leave any advice, cuz you're making me mad. See? I finally posted a question about your anime cruelty! You should be surprised I ain't got ninjas on yo ass!!!! ^/_\^
p.p.s not a threat, it's a joke, pth! ^/_\^

I'm noticing that you're asking a lot of things about what people think of you and clearly you have no self esteem/self confidence whatsoever. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but you're only 13 and you have SO many other things to be thinking of other than what people will think of you if you watch Naruto, or whatever other shows you watch. It's just a SHOW. WHO CARES? People keep teasing you because they see that they CAN. If you tell them to stop, or keep ignoring them and not showing any emotion, they will eventually stop. Those people that keep teasing you obviously have nothing else better to do, so keep watching your shows. You're not doing anything to hurt those people, so they should keep out of your business. Say it straightforward. Or if you're talking about Naruto with your best friend and someone comes in the middle of your conversation, politely say "Excuse me, but I was talking to (friend's name)." You need to make it clear that you can't take it anymore.

And please, for the sake of everyone, don't talk about other columnists. I'm sure he doesn't need any shit from you.

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Hi! So, I have really big pale green eyes. I was wondering what color I should put on them to make them more noticible (or, pop as some would say).

Eyeliner: Brown.
Eyeshadow: Rose, Olive Green.
Mascara: Regular black would be good, just to make your eyelashes appear longer, overall making your eyes look sophisticated.

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i want to put the song hey ma by cam'ron on as my myspace song but i can only find the remixes of it. where can i find the orginal version to add it to my myspace profile

When I used myspace, I got really frustrated when I couldn't find the song that I wanted.

My friend told me about imeem.com. It's compatible with MySpace and you can find just about any song on there. Just sign up (it's free), search for your song, and copy the code that says 'Embed'. I would suggest putting it in your 'Music' section when you're editing your profile, and there's your song !

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What would be good music 2 play @ a halloween party? And i need good slow songs ;)
14/f
thx

songs are on the left. (artists on the right)

Songs to dance to (fast paced);

Whine Up - Kat DeLuna
Thriller - Michael Jackson
Billy Jean - Michael Jackson
Maneater - Nelly Furtado
LoveStoned - Justin Timberlake
Crank That - Soulja Boy
Gimme More - Britney Spears
Gimme More (remix) - Britney Spears & T.I.
Cyclone - Baby Bash & T-Pain (LOVE this song)
Shawty - Plies ft. T-Pain
Lean Wit it Rock wit It - Dem Franchize Boys
Baby Love - Nichole Sherzinger (Pussycat Dolls lead singer) ft. Will.I.Am
I Don't Need a Man - Pussycat Dolls
Wait a Minute - Pussycat Dolls
Good Life - Kanye West & T-Pain
Crank That Batman - Pop it Off Boyz
Crank That Spiderman - Crank Squad
Hip Hop Police (Evening News) - Chamillionaire
Bed - J. Holiday
Ghostbusters - Ray Parker Jr.
Monster Mash - Bobbie Boris Pickett & The Crypt-Kickers
Beat It - Michael Jackson


Slow Songs;

I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing - Aerosmith
Far Away - Nickelback
Love Song - The Cure
My Wish - Rascal Flatts
Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol
Tu Amor - RBD
Ever the Same - Rob Thomas
My Girl - Temptations
You're Beautiful - James Blunt
1973 - James Blunt
Everything I Do For You - Bryan Adams
Hero - Enrique Iglesias
I Swear - Boyz II Men
A Moment Like This - Kelly Clarkson
Don't Know Why - Nora Jones
Yellow - Coldplay
Don't Speak - No Doubt
Drops of Jupiter - Train
I Hope You Dance - Lee Ann Womack
U Must Be - Gina Rene


Hope this helps!

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list anything you girls put in your purses.


like my aunt was being funny and said all them 13 year old abercrombie chicks carry around their abercrombie totes and all they have in it is a bottle of lipgloss. lmfao.

Ooh, I love these questions!

I have..

Cellphone
iPod
Brush
Compact
Lipgloss
Wallet
Aspirin
Tampon (LOL)

My purse is like a small Dooney and Bourke handbag and it can hold all of that hahah.

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What's a good idea for a group of 3 girls to dress up as for Halloween? thanks!

Disney Princesses
Shrek Characters
Women Superheroes: Storm, Wonderwoman, Catwoman
Charlie's Angels
M&M Characters
Three Musketeers
Ketchup, Mustard, & Relish
Harry Potter Characters (Harry, Hermione, Ron)
Spongebob Characters (Spongebob, Patrick, and Sandy)


Hope that helped!

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Yeah I know you's probably hate these questions.
But anyway...

I need a myspace name like those chicks that have like:

stephSYNTHETIC
sophieSEDATED
carlaCOCAINE
etc

Can anyone help me??
My name is Amy.

If you need to know anything about me;
I'm scenish,
I'm a machochist;
I like doing and being scratched and or bitten.
I like gory stuff
I'm shallow.
Um, I dunno what else you need to know.

Well; anyways, please help me.

Kthanks bye,
x

amyACRIMONY
amyANTAGONY
amyANIMOSITY

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