Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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Location: Brooklyn,New york
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Age: 17
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ok sorry i know ive asked but i was told all this stuff on lower and upper stomach so...would it work if i did 30 crunches in the morning and 30 6 inches in the evening everyday?????...i just need a routine i can start doin and how long till i see a difference??? thank u so much xxx
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You need to combine some exercises to see results like a pushup,situps,and running.A rountine for you could be running for half an hour,pushups for a few minutes as well for the situps.Drink water while you exercise for your body.Running is the best out of the two for losing weight.If you get tired of running a lot start jogging than when you don't feel tired a lot continue running.If you feel pain in your waist it's totally normal and the reason for that is that you're not used to it then when you do it won't a lot probably a little.Also stick to a diet I have on my advice column.Remember the goal to lose weight is to burn more calories than you eat.
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whats a site where can i listen to music thats free and dosent need to dowload, besides purevolume and launch, are there anymore? (link)
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I only know of one I use to hear the music fast like Media Player but it's not so good because the music lastes for like 28 or 29 seconds which sucks so then I started downloading music at Morpheus then onto burning a cd.
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my (powder, i guess) makeup just fell and broke in a million pieces. is there any way to fix it? (link)
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The answer to that is no but what you can do is buy another powder at a pharmacy near by or some other store where they sell cosmetics.Powders such as Maybelline,Bobbi Brown powder,Sheer cover powder,Nars powder for the cheeks and many other powders.
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I went to the movies with one of my friends that I havent seen it a couple of months and my other friends said ok have fun.Well when I got back there parents told me that they went to the Lake ( our hang out spot )So I went there and I couldnt find them.I called there cell and they didnt answer.Could it be that there blowing me off
PS They tend to get mad at me when im will other people because Im with them everyday. (link)
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Maybe you're parents forgot to answer the cellphone or something turned up or they went somewhere where they could be alone like a special romantic spot for them too.Hey a lot of parents are like that because it annoys them that you constantly spend more time than with them who are your parents which is normal.Speak to them that it's important to you to hang out with your friends all the time and that they can never replace them(your parents).
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I dont feel like my life is important to anyone and that I should die. I feel dead most of the time anyway. I feel ugly and am always depressed and stressed. I need help. I want help. What can I do to help me feel better? (link)
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Several people feel stressed don't you talk to someone else about this?You could go to therapy or a psychiatrist or someone who is willing to always hear you out and be there for you like a best friend or a partner.Do something that motivates you like playing a typical sport,going outside,shopping,exercising,going to the movie theater,playing games,hanging out with family or friends.Is there a person you're interested in?If it's so go after the person that one person will for sure take off that depression and stress of yours.Yuor life is important death is just a terrible thing that could happen to a person.My brother's three friends died sadly they all liked their life then unexpectedly they passed away and even sadder they were planning to be somebody but now there never coming back ,death is just darkness that you can never come back from but life is the light and it you only have one so don't ever think about killing yourself and I know you don't want to die nobody does no matter who you are.It's good that you ask for help because others who do don't that takes a lot of courage!
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this might seem weird, but i fell in love with a guy i met online. last night we talked for like 7 or 8 hours, maybe longer. but the thing is, today i remembered that i had lied to him about something. and i felt bad so i e-mailed him and told him. he just kind of laughed it off, but then he was like "so does this mean i can go out with someone else?" so then he explains to me that this whole time he liked another girl and that he can't trust me now...yet he still "loves" me. it makes me feel awful, i told him that i was a year older than i really was. he says it doesn't bother him, but yet he's confusing me by saying he loves me but he just wants to be friends so he can go out with this girl. i guess my question is..what can i do to get his trust back? i'm really going to miss talking to him the way i used to... (link)
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Just start being honest,tell him you won't lie to him again,and earn his trust again.You could do it by asking him if he wants to tell you something that he don't want others to know about that you will not tell on him and that his secrets will be kept safe with you.Also talk about if he has any family problems,or with other people try to help him out like what he should do.
Take good care.
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Hi i am 13 and im really short for my age and i weigh 90 or so pounds. i wanted to know if any one knew any excercise routines with out lifiting weights(cause i don't have any)If you know any excercise routines(pushups...)that will help me loose weight in a short amount of timethat would be great!! (link)
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I will tell you how to do a push up first,lay on a mat or a towel with your face down tip toe your feet,hands touching the floor,keep hands forward then push your body down as you go but make sure you extend your elbows,feet together, and do at least 30.There's a move called a teaser first,lie on back,knees tucked in toward chest. Next inhale,then extend both legs so there are 45 degrees from the floor.After that raise upper body off floor,exhale as you sit up in a v shape,and reaching fingers towards toes.Find a balancing point and tighten abs.Lower to starting position and repeat it two times.Finally,rest and do 2 more sets of 3 reps with a rest in between sets.Drink a lot of water,chicken,no salty foods,and egg whites,and other foods with a low amount of calories.Also use other moves I have in my advice column as well it'll help you lose weight along with the diets I gave.
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i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant? (link)
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That doesn't mean you're pregnant did you know that you could get your period at a different day or even for the next month.Maybe you have a problem with your body go to the doctor tell him what's wrong.You could be pregnant it's a big chance because you had unprotected sex.What I recommend you do is to use a condom the next time you have sex because think about std's or other diseases you could get but I'm not saying you have it the guy may have it you never know.
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Alright, I'm going to be quoting Wicked a bit in here. In the last month, I've been bombarded with feelings "so pure, so strong." I felt true love. I felt true jealousy. And yet those new, previously unfelt emotions are more than I can handle. I've been losing sleep. I just need a warning. Are there any other true feelings? 'Cause "though I do admit they came on fast, still I do believe that they can last". Which they did. And school's starting soon. I'm in the same science class as the one I'm loving and am a bit jealous of, so whenever I look at her, I'll be distracted. This is bad. It's an advanced science class. I just need to know what else will come. Thanks! (link)
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What you will start to feel is like butterflies in the stomach or feel very nervous probably even sweat.And sure love can last if that is what you're asking about.If you have trouble sleeping drink some sleeping pills so you can go to sleep.You certainly don't want to get dark circles under your eyes if you don't get a good sleep for at least eight hours will do.Try to speak to that person you're having feelings for because if you don't chances are they'll meet someone else and you won't get your chance so take advantage so don't wait longer start a good conversation!
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What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?] (link)
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Guys like when a girl lets him kiss her neck,cuddles him,plays with him,and gives her what he wants.
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Earlier this week, I was diagnosed with a yeast infection. I've never had one before. My vaginal area is itching and burning and just plain painful. I understand that those are all normal symptoms of the infection. However, my tush area is now itching, burning and painful as well.
Is this a normal part of a yeast infection? How quickly should the medicine start providing some relief? Are there any home remedies or over the counter medications that I can take that will ease the symptoms while I'm waiting for the medicine the doctor gave me to take affect?
Many thanks. (link)
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Yuo could eat yoghurt,it's important to reduce sugar in fruits and milk products.Also from junk food,other processed foods.Even using coconut oil.
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to get my acne scars to clear up.. is neutrogena acne fading peel better to use or neutrogena visbly even daily spf 15 moisterizer? whats the difference and witch ones betta (link)
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Neutrogena visbly even daily spf 15 moisturize is better because it's good for the eyes,gives sunscreen for your skin protecting it,fading,and clearing acne plus it worked for several of the doctor's clients.Neutrogena acne fading peel is for clear,even toned skin,and only reduces acne which why it is not so good.
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when you first start wearing glasses do they look kind of weird in side of them because I just now got new glasses and then i kind of cant see out of them that good do I just have to get used to them or what??? p.s I mean I can see some things buit like not all (link)
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You do have to get used to it like have it for at least a year or two.What you could do is tell the person who sold you the glasses to change them but if it's still the same issue then my advice to you is to go to the eye doctor to give you an eye examination to tell you what kind of glasses you need for your eyesight.
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My friend.. is on the edge of not being my friend anymore. She's driving me insane. All she ever talks about is how sucky her life is. She hates her parents, car, job, school. She hates everything and is CONSTANTLY complaining about how sucky her life is. She thinks at 18 she's had the hardest life ever. HA! If her life really sucked that bad, she would change it right? No, she just likes to nag. How can I tell my "friend" (in a NICE way) that if she doesnt stop B!tChing than Im going to have to start ditching? (link)
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What you could tell her is that why doesn't try to talk to a counselor or therapist to help her with her stress,problems, and hasn't she tried changing some things she dislikes.Also remind her that you and other people are probably going with problems too or even worse.One last thing tell her how come she always talks about her instead of wanting to hear about your problems which shouldn't offend her it should make her realize that she is a selfish person only caring about herself instead of others like you ,she should apologize for her behavior.
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hi my name is jess ive been going out with my boyfriend for days so far. But today when i was at my friends house a kid in her neighborhood said he was going out with this other girl to. How can i find out with out hurting our relationship if hes cheatin on me.
Ps. he does have a history of cheating when he was going out with my friends.
luv jess (link)
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You could have a friend of yours spy on him to know whether he's cheating or not it could be a big possibility because of his history of cheating. If it turns out he's cheating break up with him because he'll do it again and he is not worth it.If it turns out he wasn't cheating on you then the next time you should trust him and not listen to what others tell you that he's being unfaithful to you.
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ok, my best girl friend(kirstin) started going out with my best guy friend(jason) a while ago and whenever i talk to jason, even for like a group project in class, kirt gets jealous and everything. now i want to make it clear to her that i DONT like jason, but i want to do it in a way that wont make her angrier at me.
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What you should do is to either speak with Jason to tell her that he is not interested in you or you in him maybe that will convince her or just simply don't talk to much with him when she is around,and you should tell her that you would never try to steal her guy and that you respect other people's relationships.Also what you could do is have them both working together like tell them too to do so and you should work with someone else.Your friend should trust you maybe she's just a jealous person but she can't keep on to that because how does she expect for her relationship to go well if she can't trust him.
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Alright, so like I like this girl, she knows it, she's not sure if she likes me. She showed me her webpage today, and one of the comments says that she had her first kiss. I don't know what to say about that. Like just a few weeks, a month and a half at most, ago. She said her current relationship is almost over, but... I don't know. Honestly. I kept reading the page, and it turns out she had had like 3 boyfriends in the last three or four months. But I don't think they really LOVED her. I absolutely positively love her and I know that she's the one for me. Judging by how she broke up with the others, it looks like they didn't really love her, they were just the guys who look for "is she hot" and all. Like one person said he didn't like it when she acted all weird. Yeah, she's spassy, but I don't give a damn, I love her just the same! I told her that, but hey. We're 13. I don't know if she believes it, or knows what true love is considering the others. But she may love me. I recently asked her to a carnival as *cough* friends, and she didn't say "ok" or "sure" or "yes". She said "I'd love to!" which made me feel that it was right. I don't know why. I just did.
I really don't want her to have others. I want to be the only one. She has no idea how much I love her, it's more than anyone could possibly love anyone else. But she's already had a first kiss... so I don't know... it was someone who she's known her whole life, whereas we only met a year ago, so she may choose him over me. I really don't want anyone else to have her... really....
And then I commented on one of the people who she talked about breaking up with on her web page. I said that he was annoying, but not in those words, if you catch my drift. About two minutes passed. She logged off of AIM. I thought to myself, "Jeez. At least say goodbye." But then I realized that it would have been the perfect time to ask her out, just after dissing her ex (she has exes =( judging by the other stories I've read, the exes will come back to her, I just know it!!!) and so I think she was waiting for me to ask her out, but then thought that I was to shallow for that or something since it took so long. Jeez, I wrote the girl a song, even though I suck at songwriting, I can't be shallow! So now I'm worrying about are our chances over, could she be with the person she kissed, what if her exes come back, maybe she doesn't like me in the first place, what if she's making a hard decision and is going to choose the person who's not me, what if one day we kiss and it's not her first but it is hers, and so now I'm spassing and worrying and I just really want to have her! Sorry it's so insanely long... I'm just going through a hard time. (link)
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Look just because she had her first kiss doesn't mean that she is going to be with the one she had it with.Going insane won't solve anything you have to take this calmly at least try to.You should speak to her that why you diss her ex because why would he break up with such a wonderful girl like her.Do whatever it takes to have her.But I don't mean do something bad of course.Good luck!
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Does Anybody Know good stuff to make my Curly Hair so not Frizzy I hate how it gets to wavy to how do I straigten the top please help I'll rate BIG!!!!! (link)
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Use a gel called Frizz zero,use a conditioner called also called Frizz zero,use a shampoo that saids Garnier Fructis,on the bottle it reads sleek&shine.When you apply Frizz zero you could brush your hair any style you want and than it will stay also apply as much on the roots of the hair to control flyaways.In the instructions it saids to blowdry but it's really optional you don't have to.You could even buy all the items fro Frizz zero or order Samy products on the computer.
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im 13M and weigh around 150. and im thinking on going on a diet. and have every vitamen and mineral covered exept protien. ya see, protien offten travels with fat and i dont know how to get protien into my diet without eating fating food. any ideas
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Here is a meal plan :
At 8am whey protein powder.vitamin c
At 9am will be a your workout time
At 10:30am eat white egg omlette with Glutamine with vitamin c
At 1:30pm eat chicken without skin,one cup of rice,and a small salad.
These meals will be good for your diet!
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I need help because my computer is messed up or i think.i cabt get on any program on my desqtop, every time i click on something a pop up comes up saying open with and then a list of things come up, and i t=dont know what to do.
please help
jalisco. (link)
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Get your computer fixed by a local techinician or the computer's company.Maybe someone is someone is trying to put a virus on your computer if that is the problem search on the engine to order protection for your computer.That happened to my computer a couple of times.But then it got fixed.
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