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this isn't a question, it's a request-but please don't delete it.
Can people please stop finishing every answer with "hope i helped" obviously you hope you helped, and whether you say that or not doesn't change whether you actually DID help. please, for everyones sake just answer the question! (link)
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Well I just say it to be nice. Yeah I know everybody hope they helped but most people just say it to be nice.
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15/f
i have this friend that i admire. she always makes me laugh and shes just amazing and shes always been there for me. ever since this school year started she made so many new friends, and i kinda got jealous so i didnt really pay attention to her because i wanted to see if she would do anything. she still acts really nice to me when the few times i actually do see her. im just kinda sad cause i dont see her as much as i used to and im afraid of being replaced by someone else. am i doing the right thing by not paying attention to her? if not what should i do? (link)
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Well not paying attention to her would solve everything. The best thing to do is to talk to her and tell her you got jealous because you feel like your losing her and she's a great friend. And don't try to take her away from her other friends because she might also really like them and you don't want to ruin a friendship. Everything should work out if you just sit and talk with her.
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I already wrote this one in another one but it got deleted but i like this guy named Raul and i want him to go out with me. I have already told him that i like him and i asked him to go out with me but he says he will call me but never does. And i normally cant talk to him without flirting with him. What can i do so he will say yes? (link)
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You can't make him like you. Just talk to him again and ask him if he likes you if he says he'll call you again or I'll tell you another day then tell him you just need to know now. If he dosn't want to go out don't worry about he would be missing out on something good. Okay if you want him to get to know each other a little better then just try your best to just talk normal without flirting just remember to keep cool and relax. Then later on you can start flirting and then he'll probably go out with you.
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I really wanna boyfriend, but I think I'm sometimes self conscious about myself/the way I look or act, etc when I'm around guys. If i dont know them that well, I'm kind of shy or something.. but if im comfortable with them than I'm myself. I know that if i can never break out of my shell around guys that I'm not comfortable with I'll never have a boyfriend. How can i get past this shyness or self consciousness? (link)
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Its real hard to get over shyness but you can get over some it you just talk with them alot and hang out with other people and new people will really help and also be confident in yourself that you can accomplish that.
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So my friend and cousin are going out.I helped hook them up.They have only been going out for like almost 4 weeks.My cousin is a straight up player and i tell my friend that.But anyways my friend had sex with my cousin when they have only been going out for 3 weeks.Then she called me right away and texted me just to tell me that she had sex with him.Like she was proud of it.My cousin is almost 18 and shes 15.She will do anything to stay together.So she lies to me about stuff saying she broke up with him then tells my cousin there going out.I cant trust her.So what should i do?Should i be mad at her for this?Please give me advice asap because its sressing me out. (link)
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They have an age difference and nothing really good will happen to them really but if he was a player at first then I don't think it was right for your 15 year old friend to be going out with your cousin. You can talk to her about why she lied to you and figure out how things go from there
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My best friend is a 16 year old guy. Honestly, he's not like most guys, not into sports except skateboarding. I've run out of ideas for his Christmas gift. I decided on a fish from petco with the tank and everything (small). Do you think he'll like it at all? (link)
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Do you think he likes fish? And if you run out of ideas either make him something special to show how much you like him as a friend or just talk to him about what he likes and wants without telling him that you are getting something for him. It would be nice for it to be a suprise right?
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i was talking to a guy that i like and i was like yeah me and my bf broke up. hes like thanks for the tip.
what did he mean by that? i didnt want to feel stupid and ask him. (link)
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Basically it would mean that you were hinting him on you wanting him to know you liked him or you wanting him to ask you out.
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My friend has recently gotten in the way between me and my boyfriends relationship. Back when I was dating a guy that I hardly ever saw, she was fine with it. We three would hangout together and nothing was akward or strange at all. Ever since I've been dating this new guy, (whom i see on a regular basis and not just every other weekend) shes been nagging about everything having to do with him. She says that we haven't been spending alot of time together, which was true. But now I'm making more of an effort to balance out boyfriend and bestfriend. But latly shes been attacking everything to do with him. She refuses to hangout with just me and him because it would be "akward" but yet she can explain why is it. We never hookup in public or anything; yet even if I just kiss him and shes there with someone else, she'll go "akwarddd" I can't stand her acting this way and shes been becomming very bitchy to me about everything. When we do hangout alone, she acts like a complete jerk to me and then blames it on pms and lack of sleep (which has been her excuse for about a month now) She hasn't had a boyfriend for awhile so I can see that she might be jealous about us being together ... but something else has been happening latly. She's a very touchy feely person about alot of stuff, but since me and my boyfriend have started going out she's kicked it up a notch. She'll do weird things that give me the impression that shes a lesbian like touch me on my arm or shoulder, constantly want to be with me and touch other girls boobs. (as a joke, but she doesn't stop after one time) I don't know how to respond to this seeing as I know she likes boys, but her phyisical actions are making it hard to believe. She's constantly telling me and my boyfriend that shes right about these things and that everyone else agrees with her. It's tense just to be with her anymore. She have these explosions where she rants off to me about how I'm not making any attempt to keep our friendship going and that I don't understand her point. I really am trying to make this work, but with the way shes been acting towards me, I don't see why I should bother. I don't know whether to slowly drift from her, keep her as a friend or something else. (link)
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You really need to talk to her and have her stop talking and give yourself a chance to talk to her. Tell her how she has been acting. If she dosn't stop then why is it worth being with someone who just complains to you every momment. It also could be true that she is jealous of you having a boyfriend and her not. So just talk to her it might solve everything.
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I posted another question a few days ago about my Dad. But, for I think four or five years, I've been praying that my Dad would stop yelling. My mom has been praying since the day I was born that he would stop. He cusses, screams, you name it at me and my family. I can't take it. I'm crying typing this. I thought God answered all prayers. Why can't he answer this one? (link)
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There is really nothing you can do but maybe someday he'll stop but just keep praying. God always answers prayers and he could have already answered this one. Everyone one has to go through difficult things and if they didn't they wouldn't be able to get stronger and learn everyone needs to take tests that will make them stronger or else you wouldn't be able to make it through this life.
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OK, if you don't like those long, dragging on questions, this really isn't for you.I had a crush was on this totally hott guy named Jared. Every time he came near, I'd totally freak out. Now, I'm going out with him. We get along really well, and everything is just great. Except his ex-gf. She isn't ready to let go of him. Literally! When ever we walk home together, (all three of us live very close together) she grabs him and gives him this big lecture on how he completely broke her heart. Then she tells me its a mistake to be with him. It's really obvious she just wants him back... Anyways, we'll just ignore her and hold hands. Then, she'll scoot around us and walk infront making sure she waddles her butt as much as possible.
Jared just tells me to ignore her, and that hes so way over her. That's conforting, but I'm still afraid she'll get him back. She is really pretty and lets just say I'm not quite as lucky. What do I do to get her to just leave us alone? (link)
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Well there is probably no way you can get her to stop bugging her. Just stick with him and she may someday stop bugging you guys. So keep ignoring her. If the guy you like now likes you just stick with him you both have real feelings for each other. Just keep thinking positive.
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I know your all probally wonderring im crazy but how can you stop yourself from liking someone? Theres this guy ive liked for months now and alot of the time he's the nicest guy ever: funny,caring,nice,cute smile,hot,accent,respectful,a lil flirty, and just great to be around but other times hes a jerk. My friends hate him because he bugs them and I think he likes my best friend. They all say im obbsessed with him because i talk about him all the time and about things we did together. We used to be best friends but sometimes he does stuff that makes me want to hate him. And I want to stop liking him. If there anyway at all I can teach mself not to like him maybe make me like someone else i dunno but I hate not eing able to think of anyone else.
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There is no way you are going to stop liking him. (I know I've been there) You just have to wait till it goes away. And if you still like him thats still cool even if he does bug you at times trust me all guys do that once you get to know them. And your friends don't like him. So what? If they really were your friends they would encourage you instead of tear you down.
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theres a guy that i went out with and he broke up with me two days after we got together to be with another girl. then they broke up and i still like him and now he wants me back but i dont want to go against my morals and i know i shouldnt go with him but i kinda want to. what do i do?? (link)
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If you want to go back to him then go ahead as long as you feel that he won't break your heart again. Or he could be trying to get you back because he is trying to get the other girl jealous (if she broke up with him) But just remember there are plenty more guys and they could be perfect for you and won't break your heart.
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I'm 14 and a girl, and okay so there is this guy. And I really like him. But I don't think he likes me. I'm in a few of his classes at school, and we talk a lot during and not during school. I have asked him if he likes any body, and he says he doesn't. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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Most guys like it if you flirt with them and if they catch on they'll figure out that you like them which will make them notice and watch and notice what a great girl you are and will finally like you too. Or you could just tell him face to face or through a friend and it might take time for him to like you but if he dosn't then why try for a guy when he won't notice what he's missing.
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well my bf is getting locked up for something he didnt do should i wait for him or find some one new? (link)
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If he didn't do anything thing and you know it then wait for him he'll be real happy to have a girlfriend that would wait for him with open arms when he comes back.
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so, theres this guy he is sooo cute, funny, nice and just perfect. the thing is hes realllllly short and im pretty tall. i dont know what the matter is..i find myself completly loving him but i have this feeling if i ask him out he will be imtaimadated (or however u spell it) by my height.
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I can relate. I liked this guy and he was everything to me but he was short. I found out he liked me back so just take your chance and tell him how you feel and if you are shy like me then have a friend go tell him. If he dosn't like you then I bet he's missing out on a great girl.
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Alright well me and this girl were in a relashionship for about a year and a half.we were great together,well a few months ago she left me for this guy i hated to begin with and omg he treated her like shit.well lately ive bearaly been able to get over her and try to move on well i found this girl i absolutely adore.well guess what i find out,the girl he broke up with to be with my ex is this girl and shes not over him and to tell you the truth i dunno if im fully over my ex.shes sooo great though and sweet to me,and we have soo much in common.she knows the way i feel about her,im soo confused though,what should i do,i really want to be with her.and let me restate...i hate him lol.
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First of all you should really go for what you feel and who you really like and if it is this girl then spend time around her when she's alone. Also talk to her and stuff like that then she might come back to you.
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This is sort of a two part question. First, some information that might help. My friend(H.) and I use to be part of a snobby clique. We weren't really a part of it and felt like outsiders, which was why we decided to leave it. Now, we hang out with a sort of less popular Christian group( we are both Christians) I like these new friends and have always been sort of friends with them, but I still don't feel like I fit in their, either. I don't know what to do. The second part. . . I feel like the only reason that H. and I are still friends is because we have been going through depression together. I don't want this to be the only reason we continue our friendship, but I don't want to feel like I'm ditching her, either. But, I get the feeling that she likes our new group, so she actually has friends. I, on the other hand, do not. What should I do? (link)
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Okay if you want to keep hanging out with her then just find stuff to talk to her about and she will be closer than ever with you. And if you do like your new group then I suggest you give them a little more time for them to have you to be hanging out with them because appartently they all have been hanging out with each other for awhile and wasn't looking for more people to come in. It just takes time. Soon you will love to hang out with them. Hope this helps!
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right iv been goin out with my girlfreind for 9 weeks now and its been amazing i can chat to her about anything weve never had an argument or anything its mad i ring her every nite and we talk for hours i see her nearly every day is this normal lol!! its crazy is it love or am i jus geting everything muddled up. i really am crazy about her is it normal lol?? advice would be great thanx:) (link)
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It is normal to really like a girl probably because you guys have alot in common and you can say anything to her and you've never met any girl like her that you can just set your eye on and she's the right girl for you.
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Okay people, heres the deal; This is gonna be my first Christams with my boyfriend. I really love him and I wanna get him something good. He gave me a few suggestions(a mini fridge, a video game chair, some video games that I can't remember right now) but I wanna surprise him. He's into techy stuff, he's really good with computers and he loves video games. He told me a while ago what he was going to get me, which was fine cuz anything is okay with me, but today he told me that he go me something else.
I really wanna get him something he'll like!! (link)
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Talk to him about what he likes and stuff that he would like without him finding out that your gonna get him something because it would be nice for a surprise right?
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my boyfriend and i run out of things to talk about do you have any suggestions (link)
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You could talk about whats on your mind and what happened today and what you like and what happened the other day and where you wanna go. I hope I helped
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