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this guy
I'm 14 and a girl, and okay so there is this guy. And I really like him. But I don't think he likes me. I'm in a few of his classes at school, and we talk a lot during and not during school. I have asked him if he likes any body, and he says he doesn't. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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Trying Flirting with him a little. He may just be afraid, and if he does like you and he's kinda scared, he might not say it to you. But if you do like him, try to show it, even in small little hints. If he shows any response, that's great!
And if he doesn't, well, then he was probably telling the truth when he said he didn't like anyone. If that happens:
Be patient and nice and approachable,
or move on.
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Most guys like it if you flirt with them and if they catch on they'll figure out that you like them which will make them notice and watch and notice what a great girl you are and will finally like you too. Or you could just tell him face to face or through a friend and it might take time for him to like you but if he dosn't then why try for a guy when he won't notice what he's missing.
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Talk to him a lot more flirt with him give him signals and alll that stuff and if he doesnt get it joke around about you and him or ask him if you ever have a chance together
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One advice: flirt!
Smile sweetly at him whenever you see him. If he smiles back, good! Start waving hi and everything.
Talk to him. Start by saying, "Oh, isn't that teacher, ____ such a ___?" or "I'm so tired today... Have you had those days were you just can't sleep for some reason??"
Giggle at his jokes, and tell jokes yourself. Humor him.
Work your way up into being his friend. Give him hugs everyday and tickle him playfully. Sneak up behind him and cup your hands over his eyes, "Guess who?"
If he's a basketball player or something, you could come to his every games and cheer for him. If his team wins, congratulate him, if his team loses, encourage him and tell him that he rocked anyway. Maybe even buy him an ice cold drink for him.
If you live near him, walk home with him. If he ever gets a detention, wait for it to end at school and walk home. He'll appreciate that you;d actually wait for him when he's in detention. Be affectionate.
Hope I've helped!
-Jenny C
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