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theres a guy that i went out with and he broke up with me two days after we got together to be with another girl. then they broke up and i still like him and now he wants me back but i dont want to go against my morals and i know i shouldnt go with him but i kinda want to. what do i do??
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No way! This guy is not worth any of your time. Any guy who would start seeing you and dump you two days after to be with someone else is not for you. He placed you on the back burner when someone else came along. Don't give him any of your time. He left you before your relationship got started. He didn't give you a chance and it is best to know now than have things get really serious and him to break your heart later. You deserve better. Do you really want him back after being with someone else? Think about it. He is playing games. You are better than this.
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besides the jealousy factor, he might be needy and/or want sex. needy meaning he needs a girl's attention while looking for someone who he considers better.
if i were you, i wouldn't make myself too available. and don't have sex w/him. if he loves you he'll wait.
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If you want to go back to him then go ahead as long as you feel that he won't break your heart again. Or he could be trying to get you back because he is trying to get the other girl jealous (if she broke up with him) But just remember there are plenty more guys and they could be perfect for you and won't break your heart.
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I understand you want to go back to him. And it really is your choice. If you really want to, do so.
But you really shouldn't. You know why? The only reason he wants to go back out with you is because his other girl isn't his any more. This guy will probably dump you again for another girl, anyway. You probably deserve so much better. There are cuter, much nicer guys out there for you, I can gaurantee it.
This guy is totally not right for you. I say go for another guy.
Remember: "For every girl with a broken heart, there's a guy with a gluegun." =)
Hope that helps
-Jenny C
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