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so here's the deal. my current ex boyfriend and i broke up after being on a break for almost 4 weeks. we were together for about a year. a month before this all happened my bessie dumped her ex because she wasn't happy with him and because she started to like another guy. so when they broke up, i was there for him -- and while my ex and i were on break/broken up, he was there for me. and i guess he started to like me A LOT. i have a few feelings for him, but i'm not sure if it's just because i miss having someone care about me. so here's the question, would it be wrong if me and him dated after i get over my ex [ which might take me a while. ] or would that be really disrespectful to my bessie ? i'm not sure. we're happy together. but first i need to make sure that what i'm feeling is true -- and not just rebound feelings. and then i need to get over the ex. so my main problem is what do i do about my best friend ? (link)
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It is not disrespectful because I mean they broke up,you are single so I don't see the problem is but you have to let your best friend know because if you don't she'll eventually find out by other people and things could go really bad.Don't keep things from your friends especially your best friend because they will not trust you anymore if you do.Hopefully she does accept the fact that you want a relationship with the guy if she does not you would have to choose either the guy or your best friend and that will be very difficult but you have to make that decision on your own.
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hey! I love to read! Im a sophmore, female! I Love a great book! the kinds that you cannot put down! I (link)
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I recommend you read books like "lucas" which is about a guy who is judged without seeing the real him and the ending is shocking!Another book called Twists and Turns"which is a book about twins who live in the projects who suffer throughout the story.Another one is "The 7 Habits of highly effective teens"which tells you a lot of information you will need to know.Another one which also is very interesting it's called "Down these Mean Streets"basically it's about a boy who has a big temper and get's into a lot of trouble for it.
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Does anyone know how to get chapstick stains out because i accidently left my chapstick one of the pairs of pants and it got washed with it. PLEASE HELP! Thanks! I'll rate high if it's not stupid and is actually helpful.! (link)
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What you could do is put a lot of soap,scrub it with a scrubber or use your nails until it disaappears or use a S.O.S (which is to wash pans)and use some tide to remove the stains as well.
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i've got a problem that's really really REALLY annoying me. well i have a brother, and i really really hate him because I'm jealouse of him. I know he can be nice, and if i wasn't jealous of him then i would like him and everything, but i don't especially because my dad is always favoring him and saying so much good stuf about him and stuff. and the reason why i hate my brother is because i'm jealous of him, and the reason why i hate my dad is because he favors the person i'm most jealous of. (which is my brother) is there any way i can stop being jealous of my brother? because i dont want to hate my brother and dad because i know they're really nice and everything, but i just hate them because im so jealous! please help! i rate high! (link)
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Jealousy only gets a person more depressed and makes you feel something that you shouldn't feel about a person close to you.What you can do is get therapy and do something to make your dad feel proud of you.Your dad needs to know what's going on he should treat all his children equal not different.If you don't do anything about it what could happen eventually is that you'll have those you care about distant from you.I mean what you feel is normal happens to others in your situation.And if you start acting jealous in front of your dad he will mostly take your brother's side.So do what I told you and when this feeling and hate is gone you will see things differently get the help you need as soon as you can.
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oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!
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You can't say your not being fair you just think your mom's boyfriend is a great guy I mean anyways your parents are going to get a divorce.It's cool that you think feel that way about your mom's boyfriend because a lot of other daughters or sons have a hard time accepting that there parents separate .You should talk to your father about how you feel when things are calm your dad should understand but tell him no matter how great the guy is or better to you he will be the best dad ever and nobody can replace him.Everybody should all get along which will make this world better!You're very mature!
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ok well school jsut started and there is this boy i liked during the summer right after i broke up wiht one of his friends had we went out but he broke up wiht me cause he said he couldn't do that to his friend (cause his friend still liked me).Well now that school has started the boy (david) is like flirting alot but then again he flirts wiht other girls too and he sits by me in class.He like really flirts wiht me alot but i dont kno if he likes me.Sry so long! (link)
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Let me tell you something this guy may be dangerous because he likes flirting at other girls not just one.You should find another guy to flirt at because he also seems like a bad person.He does like you which is what you asked be careful with this guy you don't want to get hurt by him if you really like him.If you want to be in a relationship you should think twice about it.If you see he is touching a girl where he shouldn't then this guy is not the one for you.Investigate if he is a nice guy like he appears but I don't think he is but just make sure before you start getting into illusions with him.
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What is a gemini vegitarian? I heard it in legally blonde! I am not good at spelling sorry lol!! Thx.!
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A gemini vegetarian is a person who is careful not to eat animal products.What they eat is Lima salad,barley,corn,or grains.I'm wondering if you would like to be one?
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First of all I have a kodak digital camera ( Kodak EasyShare CX6330, 3.1 Mega Pixels )i have no problems taking pictures with it or getting them onto the computer. But sometimes when i take the pictures they wont delete. I figure the battery's just arent changed enough so I recharge them (rechargable batteries) and usually they will delete. I tried this the today and I have left the camera charging for 3 days on the charger and it says it's fully charged but they still won't delete. Any idea's on what to do or why it's doing this?? I rate high. Thank you!! (link)
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What you could do is write to the advicenators administrators about this problem or ask the guy who sold it to you on how to fix it I'm sure he'll help and he may charge money of course.The reason it probably this is happening is because something is wrong with the camera or the charger.Make sure again if the battery is working again.
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I just got my period last week. When will i start to notice boobs and a growth spurt? Not to sound discusting but my nipples do hurt .. (link)
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After a year or two you will notice your breasts are developing.Growth spurt will usually start after one to two years after you get your period.It's normal that you feel pain there and it may darken as well if you have any other qusetions about it write me in my inbox.
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Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate! (link)
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Well what you could do is wear your hair nice , get other people's opinion,using an eye curler,wearing black eyeliner,also apply lipgloss that shines or lipstick that matches your complexion,or apply glitter but not too much though.
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At my school, each grade level has a color. && they wear this color every friday during football season. So as a Sophmore I have to wear a grey shirt. I dont know what to write on it. Give me a catchy phrase or slogan or something to put on my shirt, please. Thanks. (link)
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What you could write is "Sophmore Rules!"or "This will be my year.""School is the big deal"or "This school is the BEST" or "This will be a day never to forget" or"This season will rock"or "you rock my world".
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well there is this really sweet guy that i've had a crush one for 3 years since 5th grade(i'm in 7th this year and so is he)last year he went out with one of my friends so i got over him.well he's single this year and i have 2 classes with him!!! he sits behind me in both of them,we have given each other nick names,he's always flirting with me and flicking stuff at me and touches my arm alot,he says funny things that make me laugh!! i think he likes me but he gave my friend a note saying that he liked her!!! he's always touching me and making me laugh and copying what i say and constantly smiling at me!! does he like like me or not??? i need help because i like him so much!!!! i'll rate high for any real answer!!!!! (link)
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Of course he does it's so obuvious you could ask anybody.If you like the guy tell him you are interested in him and if he would want to be in a relationship with you.But if you need time take it but not too long because he might ask her out.Also think about how this could affect your friendship.You have to tell him also that you really like him and since you were since you were in the fifth grade.
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um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me. (link)
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What is wrong is that you're desperate to find a way to be the same as they are I mean you should not feel embrassed what so ever I mean I'm a virgin what is so wrong about that.If they make fun of you just ignore them they think just because they had intimacy,you didn't they act like it's such a big thing I mean come on how ridiculous is that if you didn't oh well that is you and if they wanted to that's just them but you are a pure person inside and outside so don't feel alone on this other people too who never had sex before.Don't try to do something that you'll regret your whole life just to fit in with others who see you as nothing,don't even try to even spend a night with a prostitute nothing good will come out of that,even give you an std!Never go even near a prostitute just never make this big mistake again okay.For those people one day they'll get punished for making fun of others you just try not to get near them or try to avoid them so you won't have to hear them act immature to you or hear them say negative things about you.
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HELP! my face is breaking out!!!!! and its not going away=[ what should i do?
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Get Oil-Free Acne wash cream cleanser fron Neutrogena helps get into the pores where breakouts begin,to prevent future breakouts,and you could go to the pharmacies like Duane Reade,Eckerd,Cvs or other pharmacies available to get this product or order online.
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iwent rollerskating one night and i met this guy. he asked me my name and then i asked him his. the next time i saw aat skating he gave me a hug and said hi. then my friend said she had his number and that she would give it to me. i called him and he said he couldnt talk. then i called him the next day and he didnt answer. then from then on everytime i called him he wouldnt answer. on the first day of school i saw him i went up to him and he said he didnt know me and then just walked away. i saw him at a party recently and i said hi and he just shrugged his shoulders and walked away. what is his deal and why is he being such a jerk. i know that he knows who i am, but hes being such ajerk to me. please guys and girls help me out!!! (link)
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He probably is like that because maybe he's scared to be near a girl he likes or thinks bad about you.A guy I liked was nice at first than acted different with me for some reason and I suspect someone told a lie to him that I had a bad personality which isn't true because of a friend of his who liked me who he thought I didn't like him but I did but I didn't know how to react when he showed me he liked me and now I kind of regret it,because of that he would probably want to get revenge on me.Find out what's going on there must be a reason why he is acting like that to you I mean think about it.When you do try to fix it if it's a lie about you show him you're not like who they made him think you are I don't want you to go through the same thing I went through.
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Ok, well I liked this guy, I did not like his personality, but he was hot. I do not like him anymore he calls me a gay faggot. That ended two or three weeks ago. Then last night, fair night, my friend (she is kind of my friend) was getting her feeling hert. She and this guy went out for ever. He use to hate me, but over the summer my persoality (and looks) changed. I think mabe 35% he might like me the other percent I think he does not. Well, My friend was deveestaved that he broke up with her in June. He is so meen to her but she has always been really mean to me. Other times she wasent. Well the more I talked to him the more I liked me (I was standing up for his ex) He was so funny I really think we would make a good couple, but I really don't know what to do. Can you give me advice?
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I am a moderator so I know stupid questions, this is not out &hearts:
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Well if he just plays with you than that's great it shows he is a fun person.The friend of your doesn't have the right to treat you mean just because she broke up with him.You should also play along with the guy,flirt at him if he flirts at you,ask him if he would like to hang out with you some time and tell him you're being serious about it.It should start out as a friendship and when you think it's the right time to want to go out tell him you like him and hopefully he feels the same way it's a big chance I mean you said your looks changed and do what you have to when you want something.
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personB-guy my sis likes..personC-sis of the guy my sis likes..perssonD-best friend of sis of the the guy my sis likes.every1 is sure my sis had sex w/ personB and i no every1 in this and im gd friends w/ them all(even personB).and personC&D want to kick my sis's ass and when i first found out she did stuff w/ personB i wanted to too.but now that they started yellin at her i realized how much i care bout her but she has a bf and she shouldnt cheat on her bf so i wanna kick her ass 4 that but i care bout herand now i dont no if i should hang out/trust personB(keep in mind they mite not have nething)or personC&D or my sis and weather or not i should tell my sis bf i most likely will but im just so lost rite now bout who i should trust (link)
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You should trust in those who don't keep something so serious like this.The one person for sure you can trust is others who tell you everything and don't hide things from you and don't even do stuff behind your back.What your sister needs is a lecture let her parents handle her because if you do you might get in trouble as well.She should also tell her boyfriend that she cheated on him and apologize to him,most likely he will break up with her,if he does well that's her problem,and first of all she shouldn't of cheat on him in the first place that is just totally wrong!
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hey im a new student and i just moved from CA to ND its horrible i got you guys sn from a friend any way i am a new student and im really upset because nobody knows me and they all have there own little cliks and nobody wqants me in theirs
PLEASE HELP
signed,
no friends (link)
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This could take some time what you need to do is show them that you are a nice person.If they act mean to you try acting nice to them maybe they might let you in their crew.Or ask them why they don't want you in there's and if there is anything you could do to be a part of them.But if they are the type of people that use others then don't worry new people will come who are willing to be your friend.
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Iam 13 and my Dad still doesnt know I know about sex. Im not even sure he knows Ive started my period.(I live with him but I go shopping for stuff like that when I go to my moms)How can I tell him. I already feel uncomfortable around him enough. And to know he knows all this stuff that ive known for so long and didnt tell him makes me feel weird. How do I brake the news??? (link)
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Where it would be best to talk is at home right when you see that he is not too busy.Tell him that there has been something that you feel ashame about that you couldn't tell him about then tell him little by little take your time if you have to.He will understand anyways eventually you'll find out about it.He will probably tell you when to do it or to protect yourself.Good luck!
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Ok, so here's the deal, I have this REALLY good guy friend, I mean he's like my best friend. Well, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and it looks like they aren't gonna get back together like he wants to.Well... I have started kinda liking him. Well, last night, me and two of my other friends went over to his house while one of his other friends was there. Well, he kept flirting withme, and like touching me and stuff,then I was like "Let's play truth or dare" and he goes "I dare myself to have 7 minutes in heaven with -my name-" so, I kinda just laughed.. but, he was serious, and so was everybody else in the room. So, we go in the closet, and they shut us in. Well, I didn't think he liked me, and I didn't think anything would happen. Then, he started touchingme, and like pullin me closer, and we starting kissing (this was my first kiss),then we started making out and he was like touching my butt and everything. Then, we get out of the closet, when our time is up, and a little while later he started talkin to his friend privately, and I found out that he told his friend that he was gonna ask me out. Then, we went back in the closet for a few more minutes.. and that was it. But, I'm so confused, cause this was last night, and he hasn't asked me out, and he has said a few things about his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to think.. and I feel so crappy cause I really dolike him alot.. and I just wish he would ask me out. Sorry this was so long, but if anybody has any advice it would be greatly appreciated, and I'll rate 5's. Thanks. (link)
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You have to talk to this guy that you want to go out with him and that you had your first kiss ,a lot of guys like that.Also that you really like him and he certainly feels the same because of the way he touched you and kissed you it tells it all.Ask him if he feels anything for his ex well so you don't have have doubts in your mind.You shouldn't feel crappy I mean you guys made out because you like each other there's nothing wrong with that.Talk to him alone without his friends there or if they are tell him you need to speak to him in private.Hope everything turns out right for you.
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