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stuck in jealousy
i've got a problem that's really really REALLY annoying me. well i have a brother, and i really really hate him because I'm jealouse of him. I know he can be nice, and if i wasn't jealous of him then i would like him and everything, but i don't especially because my dad is always favoring him and saying so much good stuf about him and stuff. and the reason why i hate my brother is because i'm jealous of him, and the reason why i hate my dad is because he favors the person i'm most jealous of. (which is my brother) is there any way i can stop being jealous of my brother? because i dont want to hate my brother and dad because i know they're really nice and everything, but i just hate them because im so jealous! please help! i rate high!
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why are you jealous ? ? ? Just talk to them, you haven't explained yourself for me to help you better. sorry , talking to them would bring you close together, you should like your dad. hope i helped.
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Jealousy only gets a person more depressed and makes you feel something that you shouldn't feel about a person close to you.What you can do is get therapy and do something to make your dad feel proud of you.Your dad needs to know what's going on he should treat all his children equal not different.If you don't do anything about it what could happen eventually is that you'll have those you care about distant from you.I mean what you feel is normal happens to others in your situation.And if you start acting jealous in front of your dad he will mostly take your brother's side.So do what I told you and when this feeling and hate is gone you will see things differently get the help you need as soon as you can.
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Hi there. Well actually I think you are fustrated at your dad ("hate" is a strogn word and I really doubt you hate your dad or your brother) is because he gives so much more attention to yur brother and that is why you are fustarted at your brother. What you should do is feel good about yourself alone, and once your father sees how great you're doing he'll start openly appreciating you and even your brother will be proud of you. Just try to do better (not better than your brother but better than you're doing right now) at things. For instance, try to get better grades, do volunteer work, try studying more when for the SATs and basically prove that you're a really great person and if your dad is going to talk about how great his children are, he should talk about how great you are too. If you're a girl keep in mind that he might favor him because he's a boy and if you're a boy maybe he favor him because he is reminded of himself more by your brother than by you. The first thing you have to do is feel good about youtself, then it'll show and it'll atract other people's attention. It might be difficult when you feel jeolousy, just try to do things that relax you, like meditating. And don't feel too bad for being jeolous. Being jeolous isn't as bad as people make it sound... it's the actions you make because of your jeolousy that can be bad. As long as you keep your feelings controlled and try doing things to relax you and make you feel better about yourself then you'll be ok. Well my best wishes!
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hey i have the same problem with my sister its because you are paying to much attention to how much love your dad gives you than how much love he give you
hope i helped rate 5 plz
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