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mixed signals
well there is this really sweet guy that i've had a crush one for 3 years since 5th grade(i'm in 7th this year and so is he)last year he went out with one of my friends so i got over him.well he's single this year and i have 2 classes with him!!! he sits behind me in both of them,we have given each other nick names,he's always flirting with me and flicking stuff at me and touches my arm alot,he says funny things that make me laugh!! i think he likes me but he gave my friend a note saying that he liked her!!! he's always touching me and making me laugh and copying what i say and constantly smiling at me!! does he like like me or not??? i need help because i like him so much!!!! i'll rate high for any real answer!!!!!
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ok, well there's a few possibilities. either he is trying to get to your friend through you or he likes you and your friend. if you've liked him for this long, then either way you really need to tell your friend whether she likes him or not. he seems like he likes you...that's pretty much all the signs of a crush. your friend should also know how it seems like a crush to you. i cant really tell you what to do, but i gave you the options so now the acton is up to you. the only other option is to sit back and watch someone else scoop up this guy, but i wouldnt let it go like that. good luck w/ your decision & hope i helped!
XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO
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omg that happened the same to me i got the mixed signals and i thought he liked me so i told him and boy did that ruin our friendship, if you want you can take a shot and ask him if he likes you and say first be honest with him dont make a speech talk to him like you would normally do and figure out...
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Of course he does it's so obuvious you could ask anybody.If you like the guy tell him you are interested in him and if he would want to be in a relationship with you.But if you need time take it but not too long because he might ask her out.Also think about how this could affect your friendship.You have to tell him also that you really like him and since you were since you were in the fifth grade.
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okay maybe he just wrote that note to your friend to hide his true feelings about you. i think you should just tell him how you feel.
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i think that he might like you but you never no but if ur friend went out with him it might not me a good idea to go out with him bc i been down that road n lost a really good friend
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I'll apologize for percieved harshness:
To get down to business... If he liked you, who do you think he'd be writing those notes to? If he liked you, who do you think he'd be trying to date? (YOU. not your friends.) He's flirting with you, sure.. but he's probably not serious about it. If he was, he'd be chasing after/writing to you.
He doesn't like you if he's writing love notes to your friends. It just doesn't work that way.
Or maybe he's the chosen one who is going to change all of that.
Either way, don't waste any more time on a guy who only notices your friends. Three years.. gosh. Get over him, for real this time. I don't care what nicknames he calls you, or what he flicks at you. Get over him.
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Hey i totally kno how you feel. Ive liked this guy for a really long time and he flirts w/ me some. But I hve a feeling that my friend likes him to. Ok. Thats not the point but talk to your friend. Tell her what you think. Ask her if its ok. Flirt back w/ him on a low level so he knows your interested but not a lot untill you know its ok w/ ur friend. Work up from there. If it hurts her to know that yall may go out and she doesnt respect it that yall may. Lay low and let her think about it more and let her get over him more. If you show her that you really like him and that your serious in doing something about it she should understand. But you know how it feels when your friend goes out with someone you like so dont do the same to her if she is just as serious as you are.
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Okay, it sounds like he's messing with your head and giving you a lot of mixed signals. It's either 1. He's a total jerk for leading you on and making you feel like he likes you. OR 2. He likes you but is too afraid to actually admit it. Ask him exactly how he feels, and if he says he still doesn't like you, accept it. If he says yes, ask him why he said he liked another girl. If he lies about it, then just forget about him. You doesn't deserve a nice person like you.
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It sounds like he likes you back but if he wrote your friend a note it could mean 2 things...1 he is a player and he wants all the girls. 2 he doesnt like you at all and he is just messing with you.I say you make the first move.Just ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend or something.
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