Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
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how long do you usually make-out with a boy for (link)
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it can last from 10 seconds to 15 minutes. just depends on what mood yall are in. theres no particular time that making out should last.
hope i helped!
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boys again, the most common confusing topic of all. anyways. so my friend has a friend thats really cute. and i want to talk to him and see if things will work out, but i have a few big problems. number one, i am PAINFULLY shy when it comes to guys that i find attractive. number two, he's a senior, and he gets out of school in two weeks. number three, he's always stoned at school when i see him. i think thats it. on the plus side, i pretty much have all summer because my friend&i already talked it over and we're gonna hang out a lot over summer hopefully. so here comes the most confusing part. i'll tell my friend (who is a guy) about the guy i think is cute. like i'll just be like aw hes cute. and stuff like that at random. and then he makes situations for me where me&his friend are within the same area. so basically, he's been trying to help hook us up. kind of. but then, sometimes, especially lately since after me&his friend actually met, it seems like hes trying to avoid me, and not wanting me to come around. he's also been telling me to get his friend off my mind, and i don't know what this could mean? i guess i'm just asking for perspectives and what i should do. i hope this isn't too confusing. thankss!! (link)
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yeah...thanks for the brain cramp. :)
anyways, it sounds to me like your friend is a bit jealous, which is common when it comes to girl-guy friendships.(i would know, im dating my best friend. :)) or maybe hes trying to protect you from his friend. because if hes always stoned, that means hes a drug addict. and thats not good. no, its not any good at all. so maybe hes telling you to get him off your mind because hes implying "your my friend and i dont want you to get hurt by this druggie jackass friend of mine," idk, im just guessing.
about the shyness thing? just try to think of it in one of these ways: boys are just really pretty humans. :) and when i say pretty, i mean GORGEOUS. and if that doesnt work, just try to imagine that the really cute guy is stressing over the same shyness problem. just picture him in his room, pacing back and forth, mumbling to himself "oh my God, oh my God. man, what do i say to her? how would i ask her out? what do i do? man, why am i so shy!?" i hope i helped, and i hope it works out for you.
*TIP* if you and druggie DO start dating, get him to quit the drugs. because honestly, id think every girl would have better judgement of that. :) but yeah, take care!
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What Laptop/Electronic diary does Jamie have In the 2006 movie Read it and Weep ??
the one that folds the screen ?
I know its a tablet PC
but i wanna know what type she has ? (link)
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its a notebook. they are reaaally expensive...but they work really really well.
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i am a 19 yr old girl and when i shave my legs it still looks they're hairy (even when they're smooth) because of the pores are so black and so huge... is there anything i can do to fix this or put on it to elimnate this? I am tired of having it look like i havent shaved when i obviosly have. It is just all dotted and spotted looking!
PLEASE HELP (link)
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DO NOT SHAVE in the morning. your skin is poofier then, and therefore the pores will pop out more afterward...
what you CAN do is best if you shave while taking a shower. you dont even have to use shaving cream. just take out the razor and go ahead.
i hope i helped! :)
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so my boyfriend likes to play these games i guess you could call them where he pulls the strings of my hoodie and sometimes he hits me in the face like never hard just little taps and like yesterday it went to far he hit me really hard and it left a mark.. he knows i dont even like it when he does it softly and i told my best friend because i was crying.. and she was like im gonna go after that stupid a**hole and then some of my other friends found out and said the same thing.. im really afraid if my ex finds out hes gonna like beat him up really badly because my ex is like one of my best friends now and .. if he finds out my boyfriend will like end up in the hospital everyone says i should dump my boyfriend .. the thing is he said he was joking and it was an accident but we were arguing while it happened so and we definitely wernt joking around so i dont know what to do.. what do other people think i should do? (link)
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accident or not...he still hit you. its not even cool to do it softly. and if you said you two were arguing when he did it? maybe it wasnt an accident...
tell your friends to leave him alone. that you can handle it on your own. and then just think to yourself if you should break it off. see, what may give you something to think about is what if you continue to date him as if nothing has happened? who knows? he may start to really hit you. you need to end this now.
i hope it all works out for you! Take care! :)
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I know everybody asks how they should get their hair cut, but I am finding myself at a loss. I've been told I look like Selena Gomez ("Alex" from the Wizards of waverly place) and I have thick curly hair. I don't like my hair too long or too short. I have layers and side bangs, but I was wondering if there was anything else that would look good.
15/f
brown hair/eyes
squarish shaped face (link)
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what i can picture selena looking good with is a haircut like rhianna. (sp??) but you said you dont like it too short...but it'd shape your face out, kind of.
i dont know. it just matters what you want. if you cant decide, maybe its not time for a haircut. :)
take care! :)
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Lately, I've been feeling disconnected from everything and everyone. Like from my friends, family, church, school, and even God. I don't understand what's going on but I just don't feel close to anything anymore.
I've had a rough year full of fights with friends, nonstop arguments with my parents, and just overwhelming stress. Now, I don't feel anything. I just feel numb and disconnected.
When I look around at my classmates and even my extended family, it makes me feel so lonely. They all seem so close with each other and they always have each others' backs. And I don't have that. I'm not part of their friendship or closeness.
My family (intermediate that is) moved around a lot because my dad was in the military. He just recently retired. So, the earlier parts of my childhood, I didn't get the chance to feel close to my extended family because I always lived on the other side of the country from them. But now, I just feel so jealous and left out at family reunions, which is just really really sad.
Same thing goes sorta for my friends. When I first moved here, there was a brief period where I felt close to my friends. But then, all that changed during these random fights we've had this year. Now, I'm totally lost and feel so alone.
And in my church, I used to be the one everybody knew of because of my music. I'd always get asked to perform during the services, but now I don't. I've been replaced and I don't understand =[
I just want to feel close again. I want to feel needed and just...connected again. But I feel as if that's not even possible anymore. Like it's too late or something. (link)
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you might be going through depression. its normal with teenagers. you might go talk to your parents into getting you a counselor to go see a few times a month. they could help. for now, just try to fit in. talk to your friends. offer to play in church. pray every morning and night for God's help and support and He'll help you. praying works wonders, true story. and be more talkative at family gatherings and stuff. in time this may disappear, but for now, just be strong.
take care of yourself. :)
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I'm not a tomboy or anything like that. I love clothes, shopping, and basically being a girl. But I won't deny that I like to get down and dirty and play football with the guys.
But I feel like guys don't want any girls like me. I feel like they only want girls who go around (this is just a stereotypical example, because I can't come up with anything else) going "Omg, I broke a nail!".
I'm not like that, and I don't try to be. But I feel like no guy will ever want me because of that. (link)
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thats basically called a prep. and yeah a lot of guys at my old school only likes preps. and i always hated them.
if a guy will only like you because of the way you dress or act or talk then hes not worth it. you need to find someone that wont care what you are. they will like the way you dress and the way you talk and they wont mind getting "down and dirty" with you while playing football.
someone like that is out there and they are waiting for a girl who'll beat their ass at football. just be patient!
take care and dont be so down on yourself. :)
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im 18. im a lady and my best friend is a gay male. he has not been very open about it, even with... ME. but close friends know its true. starting in last october things started happening. herasment. car was keyed multipule times with hate, fag, die, and also perminent marker. keying of his car has happened various times. atleast 5. his tire had been stabbed. trees next to his house were drenched with gas and lit on fire. Various other acts have occured.. (although last june it was keyed but did not think anything of it). he has a very hard time sleeping. he has made police reports, but they dont help much, he has gone to therapy, gone to doctors. finally he came out and open to everyone right before the last car and tree lighting incident. hes always scared. he drinks ALOT now, takes alot of perscription pills for sleep and depression, although he says it doesnt help much. i hardley see him and i dont know what to do. he says he has no idea what i could do, he feels helpless himself. does anybody know anything i could try to help him feel better about himself, have alittle bit more fun, sleep, anything?? i miss him being happy please any help would be appricated (link)
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this is just over my head but why dont you invite him to stay with you for a while, if you have your own place. he might feel safer with a friend, and i dont think those bastards know where you live.
but it sounds like someone is pretty pissed off at him, and if the police wont help, i dont think anyone really can.
but like i said, if you have your own place, just let him stay with you for a while until he can get out on his own without being paranoid. :)
i hope he gets better. take care!
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okay so i have been going out with a guy for about 2 months and i really really like him but these past few days he has been getting mad at me for the weirdest things like i got my phone taken away and he got mad at me and called me stupid and when i talk to him on the phone he starts yelling at me and calling me lazy and stupid
should i put up with that or should i break up with him? (link)
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haha maybe your boyfriend has hit what my boyfriend and i call his "maneriod."
its been proven that once a month, while girls get their periods, boys have a few days in a month where they are just pissed off at everything. he might have hit his. just tell him to lay off for now...and wait a few days or weeks. and if this doesnt stop, then you need to break up with him. no maneriod lasts that long.
either that, or he broke into his mom's estrogen pills. ;) jk.
i really hope it works out for you. take care! :)
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My 12 year old sister has been making moves on me for like 2 or 3 months now. She'll take any chance to rub her body against me, she has big breasts and they get in the way if we have any physical activities but she specifically likes to do weird stuff like smother my face with them if we wrestle or whatever.
I try to avoid her mostly but she comes to me like to play around or wrestle and if I don't play with her she will just get on top and ignore the fact that I'm ignoring her.
I'm 18 and I have a girlfriend so this feels wrong on so many different levels. I've told her to cut it out but she doesn't seem to be getting the message. (link)
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yeah, that is strange. it wouldnt be as strange if she was your TWIN. but since shes a younger sibling...
im having a thought here? but i might be wrong. you said you have a girlfriend, right? well, maybe your sister has seen the way you act around your gf or the way she acts around you. and maybe shes noticed that your gf gets special attention that your sister USED to get when you were single and when you guys were younger. this is the way it is with toddlers. they are attracted to the opposite sex parents. and when they see the same sex parents getting special attention from the opposite sex parents, they want that kind of attention, so they start acting like the opposite parent. get it? maybe your sister is trying to act like a girlfriend towards you to get special attention from you.
try spending time with her more. like maybe take her to a movie for some sibling time. let her pick the movie and you buy the candy and popcorn and stuff. just have fun with her every now and again, and if said "stuff" doesnt stop, talk to her about it, or talk to your parents. because this IS wrong on so many levels.
i hope it all works out! take care. :)
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I have been on vacation for 2 weeks with my 1yr old daughter. This is my first vacation away from my two step-kids, 8&9 and my husband. Its been 2 weeks and I dont seem to miss them at all. I know that sounds horrible but they are horrible kids. They talk back, never listen, mean to their half-sister, physically hurt each other and my 1yr old, the list goes on and on. I have been a part-time step mother to them for 4yrs. What is wrong with the way i feel? Should I tell my husband the way I feel? (link)
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obviously, you and your husband are being too soft on them. your the parents, they are the kids. they need to listen to you, not talk back, not hurt eachother, or hurt your baby.
theres nothing wrong with the way you feel. you should talk to your husband about it, but also talk to your stepkids. also, its normal to not love your stepkids the way you love your real children. this is because you didnt carry them for nine months. and you didnt have that mother-child bond with them.
and even though my mom gave birth to my 2 younger sisters and myself, i know she loooooves a good vacation from us every once in a while. you just needed time to yourself!...and your daughter. dont worry. nothing is wrong.
take care! :)
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well...when me and my bf are fooling around he doesnt seem aroused.most of my friends has bfs that are aroused when they fool around.i was just wondering what could turn him on from our perspective.i am willing to try new things.
fyi-yes we have done it & yes we used protection
15/f (link)
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have you tried viagra?
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ok so is it possible that a person on msn cant get your message when YOU send it but you can still chat when THEY send it.cos there is this guy and i was like: sorry who are you again?
and then after like 3 minutes he was like:
sorry who are you?
etc.
so we talked but then i asked again who he was and when he answered it sounded like he never got my first message when i already asked.
errm and yeah i started talking to him the next time he got online TWICE but he never ever replied. so is it possible that sometimes you have this person who doesnt get your messages. because i really dont think he hates me lol
but im too shy to talk to him in person, but he DOES notice me alot in school by smiling etc. so i dont think he hates me.
i dont knowwww. lol
but is it possible ... the whole msn thing? cos its been bothering me.
DONT TELL ME TO TALK TO HIM BECAUSE I WONT NOW ALRIGHTT? dont waste your "typing-Hands"
no offence. :P
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yeah that sometimes happens to me on aim. it just means that there was a problem with the connection while you sent the message. happens all the time. its no biggie. :)
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Hi! this is kind of an odd question but, I'm a 15yo female and I was wondering do guys mind pubic hair?
Like, is it normal to shave it all off down there? Do guys prefer that? Or does it not matter. I'm kinda worried cause if I'm ever in a situation, i wouldn't want the guy to be grossed out by tons of hair!? Thanks in advance! (link)
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well, most guys dont really care. but i shave all of mine off just in case, you know?
one of my exes said that he thought it was gross and my current bf said he doesnt really care. but most girls shave it all of just to be sure.
i wouldnt take the chance. id just get rid of it. good luck!
:)
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i'm a fourteen year old girl and i need a job. my parents are making me and its not that i dont want one but no one wants to hire me. i went into a lot of food places and they all said i had to be older. so does anyone have any suggestions as to where i could apply? thank you (link)
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you could volunteer at a library or something if your good with kids. they like teen volunteers to read stories and stuff. it gives you something, but since its volunteering and your only 14 they wont pay you. but when you get older, it could put you in line to get a job there.
or maybe you could just wait until you get older.
i know a few chick-fil-a's that hire 14 year olds sometimes..
it just depends on what you like to do. if you like animals you could volunteer to help out with some animal shelters or something. but i dont know too many places that hire at 14.
but yeah. i hope you find something you like soon! :)
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Well you see i have a friend i'm not particularly close too but some of my friends are. She's been dating a really good friend of mine for awhile. My friend asked me out before he met her but i said no since i didn't really know him and we stayed friends. We have alot in common becuase i play sports with him, video games, watch gory movies, listen to music and so on. I'm the girl that hangs out with the guys, basically. Him and his girlfriend are going through problems, ok only him. He's smarter than his girlfriend, i ahte to be bitchy but its true she could be happy with any guy forever as long as she convinces herself he's perfect. I kinda envy her for that, Ignorance is bliss after all. Thing is he can't do that. He notices that they have nothing in common and she gets crazy freaky jealous when anyother girl comes within a foot of him. She seriously BIT a girl for smacking him. Not that he didn't have it coming, he's a complete flirt. But anyway a few days ago he called me and said he was in love with me. I know he loves his girlfriend and that he's just confused about what to do with him not having much in common with her. I dont have feelings for him but he is smooth and i've had too many close encounters with him trying to kiss me or otherwise and i'm not so good out of getting out of those types of situations. I'm not very good with boys in the romantic sense. I've told him he's just being confused and doesn't know what he's talking about and that i dont have feelings for him. But it really doesn't seem to faze him. I want to tell his girlfriend but she always see's him as the victim he could literally hold down a girl and she'd completely blame the girl. All she would see is me stilling her boy against his will. Please help (link)
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that bitch is crazy.
alright, first thing you have to do is really ask yourself: would you two really be good for eachother? since you have a lot in common, that parts in the bag! but there is a fine line between knowing eachother, and knowing TOO MUCH. if you really dont like him like that, he just needs to get over it. and besides, its not fair too bitchie-poo that hes basically cheating on her. and you need to let her know immidiately. even if she takes it all out of proportion, at least you'll know you're telling the truth. and you said you two werent that close anyway...so you wont really miss anything, will you?
or maybe you could learn to develope feelings for dude. like, take me for instance. i had this really close guyfriend. and he told me he liked me. but i didnt like him back. and he asked me out 5 times before i said yes. and now we're soo close. and i found my soulmate. you never know...dude may be your future. i found mine, now search for yours.
i hope it works out for the best. take care! :)
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So I had a dream about my fiance and I. In my dream he was straight forward and honest about any question I ever had (spoken or thought) relating to our relationship. For the two major questions I had, the answers were things that hurt me (he did or intended to do stuff that would be bad for our relationship). When he gave me the answers afterwards he tried to hold me and i pulled away (calmly) and just left him. I looked at my phone later and had 97 missed calls - when I listened to the messages they were clips from songs saying he loved me and basically he wanted our relationship to go back to the way it was when we first started. --- Eventually we were fine but I'm not sure if the fine part was the start of a new dream so it might not be related ---
any idea what it MIGHT mean? (link)
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you're insecure about your relationship. even if you say you arent, obviously your subconcious is. deep down inside, you really do love him. and he really loves you. and you know this. but you're unsure about some stuff. and you want to ask him. but you're afraid of what you might hear.
im not saying this is what REALLY is going on in your subconcious, but this is as best as i can come up with.
i really hope you figure it out soon. and i wish you luck to you and your fiance! take care! :)
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ok so me and my friend havent been speaking to each other for 2 months and we've been good friends for 5 years. i dont even remember the reason why we arent talking and i miss her but the last thing i said to her was that if she wanted us to be friends she had to be the one to talk to me (because i had been feeling like she was kind of distant for a while). i even asked her what her problem was and she would always say she was fine.
i miss her and it's hard to believe that she wants this friendship to be over after five long years.
what should i do? (link)
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she probably thinks since you said that, that maybe you dont wanna be her friend. what i would do, is keep calling her until shes willing to talk to you. my friend and i were mad at eachother for a long time. so i kept calling her and got on her family's last nerves...but she eventually was willing to talk to me.
maybe thats the case with chickie-poo! ok well, i hope it works out for you!
take care!
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hi
i need some advice on a matter.
ok last year i was very unhappy in my relationship, therefore i sort comfort in other places. i never slept with anyone else but another guy who i was friends with before i met my current boyfriend sent me flowers saying i deserved better and stuff like that.. there were 2 guys and the other we were close but never kissed or anything as well.. just after our 1 year we broke up for a few weeks, then we got bak together and we both had changed as persons. he was much more considerate and nice and i am much more stronger. i told him that i did seek comfort in other places and he understood and was sorry. i didnt tell him everything that happened just that i was unhappy, yet i still feel guilty for leading the other guys on and now that our relationship is perfect i need to forgive myself, i no it was stupid to talk to a guy that says i deserve better because it made my relationship very confusing esp because i was unhappy but i dont talk to them anymore at all.. we are happy again and yet it still bugs me that i spoke to other guys.. should i still be feeling this way even tho it was 6 months ago and i didnt 'cheat'? someone please help me (link)
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you're thinking about it too much!
look, yeah what you did was stupid, but your bf was being neglegent, correct?
why dont you just explain to these other guys that you werent into them, you just needed a shoulder to cry on. and explain to them that they will still be really good friends with you, but now everything is ok.
but dont make it sound like your being a flake, because thats not cool, either.
you just need to put things straight. the way you think they should be, you know? with your bf and these other guys. it'll feel a little weird at first, but in the long run it will pay off.
and i hope it does. take care!
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