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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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ok well 3 weeks ago this realllly hot guy *tai* came came over and hes a senior & im a sophomore. well hes the guy that every girl wants bc hes funny and freakin soo hot its unbelieveable. but so he came over & we had un protected sex and idk i was 2 weeks late for my period then i had it. but i heard that u can be pregnant & still have ur period. the only reason im sooo worried is bc i had been pregnant before (but had a misscarriage) and i had the same feeling that i was like before. im so scared cuz i mean im only 15 and i cant be pregnant again. wut do u think i do???

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You're not pregnant. Not if you had your period. It's impossible to have your period while you're pregnant.


Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
Yes.


Gadisco i tipi lo gradiscono non conosco che quale gradisco il la cosa migliore potete aiutarli (link)
Gadisco the types appreciate it do not know that which I appreciate the better thing you can help them is what you said. Doesn't make sense,but that's it.


omg ok i turned 15 in june & i've never "french kissed" any1..like wut tha hell..all my friends have and iduno..i've had so many boyfriends & almost all of them have wanted to make-out with me, but that's when i usually dump them and go hide b/c im soooo nervous...like i want to sooo badly but i'm scared..i don't know what to do, and i don't want to look dump b/c i'm a bad kisser or w/e..iduno..i'm seein this guy now..who i absolutely adore & i don't want to ruin it b/c i'm scared of my first kiss..i love him so much and he's 2 years older than me so i know he'll want to kiss..help..='(...i know after i get the first one over with i'll be fine..i'm just usually hesitant when it comes to doing things i'm unsure about..sorry its so long..i'm just upset & scared & confused..and i hope ya'll can be understanding and help me out..thanx (link)
You're nervous that when you kiss him,you're gunna suck. And you probably will,but it takes practice like everything else. If you do it with somebody who likes you,he'll be more than happy to practice with you. You'll get better,but you have to get your feet wet at some point.


ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something? (link)
A magnetic effect? Well no,I wouldn't go THAT far. The guy usually will put himself in you,but you could always do it if you're goin at it doggie style. It actually takes some coordination to have sex. It won't just go in. That's why people never accidently have sex.


i've been playing the guitar for almost 2 years now and i'm pretty good at it... my friends want to start a band but they need a bass player... i was thinking about becoming a bass player. has anyone here played guitar and then started playing bass? is there a big difference? how hard is it to play? and how badly will i get calisis on my fingers? (link)
From all the people I've talked to that play guitar,they ALL have said it's easier to play bass guitar. They said it's just more basic and they explained it some kind of way,but I really didn't understand. If you can play lead or rhythm,you can learn bass.


Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.

Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me (link)
Why would his friends believe the bullshit that this bitch told about him? They must be very easily covinced and/or stupid. I would tell the friends that what she said was untrue. Talk to your brother first about the situation and find out more about what's going on.


can someone tell me why guys are so into boobs? i mean, i always hear boys saying"well i dumped her because she is soooooooooooo flat!" what do middle school kids need to be worrying about that stuff? and why do boys even need to worry about it? (link)
I'm not. I'm into legs. But guys can be shallow and if the chest size isn't big enough,sometimes the girls are dumped. If a guy is gunna dump a girl because of her chest size,he's a real loser anyway. Like a girl dumping a guy for his dick size.


i am going out with this great guy and i am totally in lvoe with him but i am jelous of my best friend becuase so many guys like her ..... i am totaly in love with my boy friend (so dont say maybe i'm not) and i am "old enough" to be in love ..... but i dunno maybe its just becuase i never realy had a guy love me or treat me right untill him when my best friend can have anyone she wants and they all treat her perfectly .... is it bad that i am jelous of her even tho i am in love? (link)
No,it's not bad that you're jealous of her just because she can have whoever she wants and you can't. That's a normal reaction. I mean,I'm jealous sometimes when guys are total pricks and just get whoever they want. While I'm nice and I get shit. Jealousy is human,but don't fault your friend just because she can get guys.


Next weeek theyres gunna be a party and theyre gunna be weed and regular cigs there and i wanna try it and ive been meaning to try it with osme of my good frends but my other frends sed theyre not gunna like me as much i guess if i do it i dont no wat to do
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You have to decide,do you want to impress your friends that you have or try and impress these people that really don't care whether you smoke with them or not? I don't really know what to tell you here,but I know what I'd do. And you know what to do too. Most people have tried weed and so have I. It's not that great.


I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
No.


Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage? (link)
People are under the impression they are in love at 13 when they indeed are not. Marriage means so much less now than what it used to. Half of all marriages end in divorce anyway. People get married for a lot of reasons besides they love each other these days. As we get older,it'll only get worse.


you seem like a pretty interseting guy it seems like you have good taste... my question to you is if you have any suggestions on a good book to read for highschool... i'm going to be a freshman i'm 14 and i'm open to reading anything except for the lord of the rings trilogy (if that's how you spell it) and harry potter... i've already given those books a try and it's just not me. i'm not exactly into fantasy books i'm more into new-aged novels about things that could actually happen to people... i just finished reading the notebook.... do you have any suggestions? thanks alot! (link)
I liked to read Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger. It's about a boy who is about to enter college and he's very nervous about it. It's about his last few hours/days before he goes. Anything by Stephen King is good and not all of his books are scary. Read The Shawshank Redemption about a man wrongly accused of murder and imprisoned for 19 years. After 19 years,let's just say he's decided he's been there "just about long enough" as Morgan Freeman says in the movie. Read The Green Mile about a man wrongly accused of murdering two little girls and his amazing power to heal. But in high school,you won't get Stephen King,you'll get Shakespeare.


I think I wanna start babysitting. How do I get people to want me to babysit? what should I charge? I dont have a red cross liscence thing for babysitting either. I donr know what to do. Please help (link)
Get your parents to get the word out. That helps and make fliers. Put some ads in the paper if it's not too expensive.


ok i am friends with these two girls and i really like them both well they are always together like 24/7 day and night well like when ever i wanna do somthin with either of them they both come like we had a school dance and like i went and i didn't have anyone to go with so i asked they both were like hey we will go with u so instead of buying dinner for one person and one set of flowers i had to by two and like they are always flirting with me like tonight they came over and we were watching a movie and like they both got all dressed up skirt heals everything both lookin so sexy and like they are laying all over me and like no matter what they wont ever do anything with me not just tonight but ever! i mean like we are completely cool with each other we ain't got no problems stripin infront of each other so it's not like we got anything to hide from one another but i want to know like they will be like all over me some times but they always say they don't like me and like they will never do anything with me and i wanna know is why do they do this to me!

15/m (link)
Dude,they're playin you. They like you,but not enough to let one or the other have you. Plus,as you point out,it's twice as expensive to take two girls out as one. They don't intend on doing anything with you,they would've probably already done it. Man,if you get a threesome though,holy shit. The problem is you won't. You can't ask two girls to a dance. You just can't.Why do they play you? They do it to you for the same reason a dog licks his balls. Because they can.Choose one or the other or neither as soon as possible.


hey, yo, i got a prob. ok see there is this guy that i used to like and have been talking to alot but every time i read his emails i just get this visual of him being fat, like hes not totally obese but hes definetly not fit ya know? and it just grosses me out, but i still kinda like him, i just can't stand his fatness ya know? what should i do? plz help (link)
If it's that much of a problem to you,then don't see him anymore. I mean it may sound shallow,but if it bothers you that much,then no,you need ro get out of it. If,however,you can see past that and find his good points(he's gotta have a few)then try and live with it. But it may be too much and that's ok. You want what you want.


What exactly is Libertarianism? I live in an all-Republican house, so its very hard to get unbiased opinions on anything. Also, what are some websites? (link)
Even if you lived in a democratic house,you wouldn't get an unbiased opinion. The word itself is an oxymoron. All opinions are biased because they're what people think. You're gunna get their view on the issue and everyone is bias about what they think. Anyway,libertarianism is essentially let people do whatever the hell they want as long as it doesn't infringe on other people's rights. It has some good points,but not enough. Plus it has a lot of bad ones. Like they support gay sex and abortion,a lot of things that republicans like me don't.


Im 16, and a while ago I was involved with this guy who was 18. He was a senior at my best friends school, and he was gorgeous and popular etc. I met him because he works at My gymnastics school

Now me, im invisable in my school. Im shy and no one notices me, I hide behind books and avoid talking whenever possible, but im different at gymnastics. My teammates are my best friends and im outgoing etc when im with them

When we met, I was seriously depressed about being invisable, and only my best friend knew. Now she went to school with the other kid, but she wasnt popular so he didnt talk to her.
Anyway, one day my best friend was working with him, and he told her he really thought i was pretty and kept asking questions about me and this pulled me out of my depression
-he saw me when i was invisable

Then a few weeks later we actually talked, like hed call etc, and he eventually broke my shyness and i ended up at his house in his bed making ut with him. That went on for a while, wed keep hooking up till he tried to get farther to fast. I told him to stop and he respected that then not much later he blew me off because i wouldnt sleep with him

After that I pretended to get over him quickly, but I still saw him at gymnastics, and when i worked with him hed be all over me, or when id be working out and hed be coaching, hed coach when my teammates were on the beam, but stop and watch when i was etc. He played major mind games with me, and I played them back. I went out with this other kid he goes to school with just so hed be jealous (which he was and he also checked up on me) and I made him think I hated him on perpose, though I think if id showed him I liked him I could have had him back.

Then he got fired. I took it as fate. Someone was trying to help me get over him, but it wasnt that easy. HE alone saw me when I was invisable.

Either way hes going to college in like 5 days, and I miss him so much and I cant get over him and it hasnt gotten much better over time

What should I do? (link)
Honey,I must say it was very unfair to use that guy like you did just to get back at the guy you liked. And his feelings were just what? Dog shit? Secondly,it's apparent to me that this guy must not respect your wishes if he just blew you off,as you put it,and just kept trying to sleep with you. Not to mention this also illegal and,if caught,this guy faces statutory rape. Sex offender registration time! That's not kool,huh? You shouldn't be playing mind games with this guy and he shouldn't do the same to you. HE alone saw you because your a gymnast. You know any fat and ugly gymnasts? You may say yeah,but 105 pounds ain't fat. Plus,some guys like the challenge of opening up a shy girl. Like Rocky and Adrian. Great movie,by the way. I say forget him and try and think about the other guy's feelings before you go out and use him to get back at a guy you like.


I watched Donnie Darko for the first time today, and I had a hard time "getting" it. I read through various websites, and I'm still struggling. I feel so stupid asking this, but could somebody relay it back to me in layman's terms? I might just have to watch it again, but oh well... (link)
Ok,you remember the crash in Donnie's room right that he avoided? Well,basically he was shown what would've happened if he had indeed avoided it. His girl would've died and everything else you seen in the movie. He loves her so much that he'd rather die himself and have her not know him than watch her die and feel that pain. It's a great movie,the best from Jake Gyllenhaal.


Whats Camel toe??? (link)
Camel Toe is when you wear pants so tight we can see the outline of your pussy. Kinda looks like a camel toe.




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