HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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well i am moving to a new school. i mean these girls are beautiful and very mature. i made 3 new friends over AIM but they seem to be real sexually active. like they grind with boys, make out, and one girl even sticks her hand down boys pants! but i have never even kissed a boy and there are parties and stuff and i dont think i know how to grind or kiss or anything. I find it kind of gross but, i want to fit in. wat do i do? (link)
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You dont have to act like them to be cool.Wheres your personality?Do you just let yourself be influenced so easily?No offence but what theyre doing is slutty,i dont think you should do it if youre not comfortable with it.Besides,their your freinds and should respect your opinion.So by your question here does it mean you want to put your hands in a guys pants just to FIT IN??Dont do something you will regret later on.
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i change my braces every 6 weeks what color should i have only 2 colors or 1?
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i think you should only get one color.Two colors is going to look really annoying and low class in my opinion.One color is enough.
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Hi, I have this best friend that told me he was gay when I was 10. It like really freaked me out. But it's been 4 years and I'm cool with it then all of a sudden just out of the blue he tries to kiss me while we are riding the ferris wheel. I really need advice on what to tell him. I like him but I like him only as a brother and I just found out that he had got into a fight with my boyfriend just the other day. I really really need some help. I'm desperate. I want him as a friend but I don't want to hurt his feelings of being let down. Please. (link)
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Tell him that you like him alot as a freind but you already have a boyfreind and that what hes doing is ruining his freindship with you and ruining you realationship with your boyfreind and hes going to end up without having you as a freind either.
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MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help! (link)
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You need to threaten your father here.Tell him that he has to stop hitting you guys and if he doesnt,talk to your mom about complainig to the police department,its the only way to get rid of all this drama.Or you can talk your mom into getting divorce,she cant just stay with him and watch him treat you guys like this!
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ok im 14/f and im almost 15 i have this boy friend who i really love i mean i think he is the one or some thng...but my best friends sister (who is also kinda my fried) likes him and makes it known when i am with him...and rite now im just scared that she will do something with him because she has done stuff with my boy friends befor but that is in the past and she is known for stealing boy friends even thoguh she is ass ugly and i dont kno i wanted to take my relaton ship woith my boy friend a little further but now idk because what if she dose somthing to him???? im just confused someone help me! and if i dont get any bs ill rate high (link)
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WOW!!shes done things with youre past boyfreinds and you forgive her?!?!LOL!! she woulda seen my dark side!!If a person betrays you once they WILL do it again,like for example,the first time you EVER lied,did you stop lying after that???NO!
ok you need to tell her to back the fu** off!Talk to your bff about this and tell her to keep her sisters hands to herself.And if she does happen to do something with your boyfreind and he doesnt stop her,then hes too immature for you to be going out with.He probably dont love you then.Tell your boyfreind how you feel about this and how shes a slut that did things to your past boyfreind and if he loves you,he has to keep away from her.
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where can i buy two nice rings for me and my boyfriend. I only have 80 bucks (link)
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ya i know exactly where you can buy that.Theres jcpenny, i checked the websites jewelry section and theyve got really nice jewelery in a section called $99.99 and under....here check it out
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/ProductList.aspx?DeptID=11848&PCatID=39315&CatID=39323&CatTyp=LFS&Dep=Jewelry&Pcat=%2499.99+%26+Under&Cat=Rings&RefPageName=CategoryAll.aspx&RefDeptID=11848&RefCatID=39315&cmAMS_T=U3&cmAMS_C=C3&CmCatId=11848|39315
just copy and paste it to the adress bar
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i have a friend and she had sex with her bf and then everyone found out that she did that and know i barley have any friends cause they thought that i was the one telling everyone witch i wasnt! it was someone else now im kinda scared to go to highskool cuz i think everyone going to talk shiznit that im the "RUMERER" and i had allot of friends know i only have about 4 so cana help a sissta out pizzz?? (link)
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First of all does your freimd believe taht you didnt start the rumor??If she does,the she should help you by telling the others that it wasnt you who started it.If she doesnt beilive you then thats her problem,next school year just stand your ground and tell everyone the truth,they dont have to beilive you,and if you have freinds that beilive you,let them stick up for you.
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Ok i made my boyfriend promise that we wouldn't do anything sexual anymore. And he said that he promised. He even promised that he would stop me in the case that I came on to him. But yesturday he was playing with me and tried to have sex with me and I pushed him away but he kept coming at me. Now I don't know what to do because..it really hurts me that he finally seemed like he made a promise that was worth while. Does he even love me. We have been going out for almost 10 months now... (link)
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Mabey he just got into temptation.You know its REALLY hard to resist,especially for guys.I think you should tell him that what he did pissed you off though and that if he wants to be with you he needs to respect your opinion and what you want and dont want.
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Ok, So I am going out with this guy. He is 26 and I am 16, well soon to be 17. But people keep saying that he is to old. But he makes me happy. Then again he makes me annoyed sometimes but then again thats life. lol.
So I really like him and I just keep thinking that it is just like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moor. (link)
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Mabey he IS a little too old but age shouldnt matter.Besides older guys are a LOT better.Its better to date an older dude cuz hes more mature then someone youll find thats your age now and he will be more expereinced and know how to treat you.He will understand you more too.But you just gotta make sure you aint bein played with.Hope this helped
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Ok, so I am a 16/f. The problem that I happen to have is this boy that I was supposed to be with (who is also the father of my child) all of a sudden changed his mind about how he felt about me when we started hanging out with my best friend. It all started a few days ago things between me and him were progressing and we were very close to getting together and then we started hanging out with my friends and he got a crush on my best friend, well me and her decided we wanted to mess with his head and make him think she likes him a lot and so now the problem is that she is really starting to like him and I have been pushed to a back-up girlfriend in case things between the two of them don't work. I don't know what to do because I know my friend doesn't like him and she's just messing with him but it still frustrates me because shes basically stealing him from me and now I have no one, it's hard enough as is for me to get a man considering I have a child and I just don't know what to do...HELP!!!!! (link)
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Thats what you get for messing with his head.What were you thinking??You know guys get into temptation and like girls easily.How can you plan this when you KNOW it will end up by both of them being together?Youre suppoesd to be a mother(ha),woman!!Well DUH shes gonna like him,what do you expect??Hes got a great personality and so does she.You did this to watch and enjoy him feeling confused now enjoy watching them be together.If you want to be a mother you need to be mature enough.
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I'm aware that the new style is now 'skinny' jeans, but I think they are absolutely hideous. I refuse to wear them. My question is will I stick out in school this year? It seems like lots of people are switching to skinny jeans, and I'm sticking with my flares. Just tell me that truth, I need to know. Are flares still okay or is it all about skinny? (link)
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Not everything thats the latest fad is always good.Like for example 2 peice bikinis are popular nowadays and youre overweight like hell,would you wear them or save yourself the embarassment?Just wear what you like and what ooks good on you.Its better to look different than everyone.Its just annoying in my opinion to wear what everyones eles wears.Flares are still cool.I actually prefer flares too and i think skinny jeans are annoying too,flares are a lot cooler.
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Ok I need some advice. I really want to shave my hair "down there" because it bothers me to wear bikinis and stuff. I don't think my mom wants me to but I know she wont get mad if I do. I just need to know if it grows back fast ( how long) and is it painful to shave. I don't want to shave it off then regret doing it. Do alot of people shave there? Please help. Thanks (link)
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Half of the world shaves there i shave there.its nasty if you dont.it doesnt really hurt once you get used to it.Just dont use a razor cuz the results will not be good.Your vagina will be all pokey and ewy.waxing will make it nice and smooth
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how many of yall would think its slutty and/or givin out the wrong idea if i bought a playboy bunny necklace? im bout to be 16 & im like a 'good girl' or w/e i mean ive only barely been to 2nd base but i jus think the necklace is pretty cuz its the little bunny head made out of [fake] diamonds. so, slutty or no? (link)
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awww comeon ofcourse its not!i LUV the playboy bunny!!!!im like obssesed!!just cuz you wear it doesnt mean youre a slut.I have a shirt that has the sign and its really big and im no slut.If people wanna think youre a slut then its their problem.
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I'm addicted to soda. I'm average weight, and other then soda, I'm very healthy. My doctor says the soda is addding extra fat on my tummy and thighs, so I should stop drinking it so much. I drink about 2 cans a day, sometimes more. Its alot I know, I've tried stopping so many times. Cold turkey hasn't work, neither has slowly reducing how much I drink. Any other ideas? (link)
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Its very dangerous to drink so much soda cuz it has a HELL lot of sugar and too much sugar leads to diabetes!!!!And if you get diabetes you will NEVER be able to as much as LOOK at soda.Its because of the nicotine in it so its kinda addictive at times.Dont reduce any amount.Just try to go through ONE day without drinking any then the next day will be easier and so on.Try drinking something eles like gatorade or something.
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Can anyone please tell me a bit about this disease. My ten year old daughter has just been diagnosed with it. She also has nocturnal epilepsy. Is there anything that I can do to help her? (link)
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Trichillomania is a kinda sickness where a person does self harm to himself like cutting,hitting,pulling their hair out and its usually cuz of stress,becareful if you dont talk to your daughter about whats upsetting her and help her out,this disease will increase with her as she grows till its uncurable.Its like a cry of help from your daughter for help.
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Does anyone have any recommendations of what brand of makeup to use .. I have tons of makeup but it's all crappy stuff so I want to buy better stuff. Thanks, anything is appreciated. (link)
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nothing EVER beats christian dior and chanel...a lil pricy but the BEST and theres M.A.C
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okay i have this pimple near my pubic area. it hurts a lot. its a really big pimple though. is there something wrong with me? i dont shave there (link)
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ew,you need to shave there its not healthy to leave yourself like that.You should see a doctor.if youve had sex before it can be genitial warts and if you didnt mabey its pubic lice...you really need to see a doctor so he can solve the problem before it gets any worse
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What do girls look for in a guy??? I mean like calone, styles, and personality. Please help. (link)
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It depends on the girl,some girls look for loyalty,dedication and honesty and we like guys that have a strong personality and and will not let anything get in their way or stop them from loving us.As for style...i personally LUV it when guys dress all gangsta lol with the chains and yankee caps and baggy jeans.Oh and it makes things better for girls(some girls like this)when guys work to get their own money(i like that) because it gives girls the feeling that the guy can depend on himself and isnt spoiled(i hate spoiled guys...cute but annoying)
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If you try one cigarrete do you automatically get addicted to smoking? (link)
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Teens are more vunerable to the addictive effects of nicotine addiction then olde people,i did a research about your question and it said that some scientists followed hundreds of children, aged 12 and 13, for 30 months. They found that, of 332 who tried smoking, 40% showed signs of addiction. This was despite the fact that some of them had only tried smoking once and that 237 children who said that they had inhaled, over 50% displayed symptoms of addiction
and girls took, on average, just three weeks to become addicted from the time when they started smoking occasionally...so yeah its possible
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im going to be sixteen in 3 weeks.
ive been wit h my boyfriend(17) a long time. and well you know were teens we party and drink. one night it got outta hand and we had sexual intercourse, the condom broke.
here are the signs that im pregnant::
firm breast.
moody.
bloated.
hungry.
frequent urination.
cramps.
spotting.
im really scared because i havent gotten my period yet either.
what should i do.
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well,if you want your boyfreind to take care of the kid too,i suggest you tell him.You need to tell your parents too cuz when they find out later on,it wont be pretty.Thats if you want to keep the kid,if you dont want to tell your parents and boyfreind and go through all of that then just get an abortion.
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