ok im 14/f and im almost 15 i have this boy friend who i really love i mean i think he is the one or some thng...but my best friends sister (who is also kinda my fried) likes him and makes it known when i am with him...and rite now im just scared that she will do something with him because she has done stuff with my boy friends befor but that is in the past and she is known for stealing boy friends even thoguh she is ass ugly and i dont kno i wanted to take my relaton ship woith my boy friend a little further but now idk because what if she dose somthing to him???? im just confused someone help me! and if i dont get any bs ill rate high
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lola answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 1:37 am: There is completely definitely nothing to worry about ,and there is also nothing called stealing my boyfreind, she can not do that, and you know why, because if your boyfreind really does love you as true love ,then he would never betray you or cheat on you. Because the first rule in any relationship is trust, and he won't break that, and i promise, because if he does, then i am sorry to that ,but he never loved you.
So i want you to relax and take your relationship with your boyfreind alittle further as you like ,its okay and no one will try and stop you or steal him from you. And she may have stolen all those other boyfreinds, but if they really loved you they would have never betrayed you, but they simply didn't and thats why they ran after the ass ugly girl because they are low too and they just simply don't deserve. besides thats a guy we are talking about, he would stand up to himself if any girl tried to do anything to him.
so goodluck and don't worry.
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kendrabdatgirl answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 12:23 am: If your boyfriend goes with her or does something with her then that's on him. It's his lost. And if your best/F sis munipulates him to do shit with her then he's not for you. And is not worth going further in the relationship with. If he is for you he wont do anything with her.. Just think of her as a test for all your boyfriends, if they make a mistake with her then leave them. Make sure your boyfriend feels the same about you how you feel about him if you really wanna go a little further. And just remember that there is always going to be a chick/chicks that envy and just gonna hate on you, the best thing is to let them continue doing that ..and again if your boyfriend is real then do what you want. hope i helped [ kendrabdatgirl's advice column | Ask kendrabdatgirl A Question ]
caramella answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 12:16 am: WOW!!shes done things with youre past boyfreinds and you forgive her?!?!LOL!! she woulda seen my dark side!!If a person betrays you once they WILL do it again,like for example,the first time you EVER lied,did you stop lying after that???NO!
ok you need to tell her to back the fu** off!Talk to your bff about this and tell her to keep her sisters hands to herself.And if she does happen to do something with your boyfreind and he doesnt stop her,then hes too immature for you to be going out with.He probably dont love you then.Tell your boyfreind how you feel about this and how shes a slut that did things to your past boyfreind and if he loves you,he has to keep away from her. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
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