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Best friend and boyfriend
Ok, so I am a 16/f. The problem that I happen to have is this boy that I was supposed to be with (who is also the father of my child) all of a sudden changed his mind about how he felt about me when we started hanging out with my best friend. It all started a few days ago things between me and him were progressing and we were very close to getting together and then we started hanging out with my friends and he got a crush on my best friend, well me and her decided we wanted to mess with his head and make him think she likes him a lot and so now the problem is that she is really starting to like him and I have been pushed to a back-up girlfriend in case things between the two of them don't work. I don't know what to do because I know my friend doesn't like him and she's just messing with him but it still frustrates me because shes basically stealing him from me and now I have no one, it's hard enough as is for me to get a man considering I have a child and I just don't know what to do...HELP!!!!!
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Sometimes, when you play a stupid game, like getting your friend to lead on your boyfriend, you loose the stupid game.
Do your best to let it go for the moment. This situation is nearly entirely of your own causing, so deal with it with some grace. You don't seem to think the relationship will last, and I'm inclined to agree. If the boy is basically good one, he will still be there for your child and be good on his responsibilities. Make sure that happens first and foremost. Having another girlfriend shouldn't be an excuse for not seeing baby.
What you might want to learn from this however, is that your guy is fickle and chicken-hearted. It took him how many days to decide to dump you and go with your best friend? Who in the beginning was only playing with him? Do you really want a guy for yourself who is that uncommitted to you, whose heart can change completely at the drop of a hat? At sixteen, you have plenty of time, child or no, to do way better than that.
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It's normal to be frustrated at time's like this but it's not to late to try to get your boyfriend to be interested in you again,try not to keep him out of your time,spend as much time with him,and tell your friend that you don't want her to keep on with the plan.If she is still on with it then it should make you realize who you're true friends really are.
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Thats what you get for messing with his head.What were you thinking??You know guys get into temptation and like girls easily.How can you plan this when you KNOW it will end up by both of them being together?Youre suppoesd to be a mother(ha),woman!!Well DUH shes gonna like him,what do you expect??Hes got a great personality and so does she.You did this to watch and enjoy him feeling confused now enjoy watching them be together.If you want to be a mother you need to be mature enough.
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