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Confused about her
So there's this girl I like from school. We are totally close, like almost best friends and a little while back we would be passing each others notes in class and I told her I liked her and she sadi she liked me back! I was so happy.
So then we would secretly hold hands and just keep passing notes. And she invited me over to see a movie and we totally cuddled together while watching it. After that I was thinking we should go out...but I never told her .So then the hand holding continued until summer break.
Now I live in a small town and she lives in the city so its kind of hard for me to go there so we didnt really get to see each other. So just recently I went to a party and a bunnch of people were there. And she was there too and so was a guy named Brandon. Now I heard stories of them getting "married" as a joke but when I got there she was totally flirting with him and barely noticed me the whole time. Turn out i'm old news and she has a crush on him.
Now obviously i'm jealous but...what happened? I know we weren't going out but...we were getting there. So should I still hang out with her alot? Or will that be just awkward.
Very confused,
Greenlalablue
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it is possible that she is trying to use him to get over her feelings for you and it is also possible that she might have a crush on him..
but call her up one day and ask to watch movies like the good old days :]
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Well you guys weren't going out, but you were close. Although moving onto another guy isn't wrong, it wasn't very nice of her. But she still has the right to have a crush on someone else.
First thing I think you should do is get the 411 on these two, are they dating, does she like him, does he like her, stuff like that. You can probably find this out from the same people who joked about them "getting married"
If they are going out, then there isn't anything you can do about it. But if they aren't going out, then steal her back!
Tell her how you feel, and she if she feels the same way. Hold hands, flirt with her, whatever helps you get her back. I hope this works out for you, you seem like a nice guy.
xoxo
marsbars
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Hang out with her anyways.
You are right, you weren't going out and there is nothing wrong with her developing a new crush. She was totally free to do that, but that doesn't mean this new guy is the love of her life and the only guy she will every even look at again.
Hanging out with her doesn't need to be awkward, just let her set the pace. If she is still technically single and wants to snuggle or hold hands (and if you are okay with that) go for it. If she is now dating this guy, you can respect that, but still be a close friend to her.
Just take a deep breath and let what happens happen.
And if you get a chance to ask her out again, just do it!
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Yeah I really feel you should hang out with her a lot because if you don't this guy will wind up stealing her from you,ask her if she still has a crush on you before you too start going out because for some reason some people may not feel the same anymore as some time passes, and so you don't waste your time on someone who may not be even worth it.
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