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Gender: Female
Occupation: Microbiologist
Age: 24
Member Since: May 3, 2006
Answers: 670
Last Update: September 8, 2006
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Ok, well I'm 14/f and I'm not sexually active at all... i don't even kiss guys (it's a personal choice). But I do crazy stuff with them if I'm at parties or soemthing.. like go streaking, flash them, haha play strip poker. It's just how the parties go. And it's not liek I do it alone, my best girlfriends all are in. Is this liek really slutty? Am i considered a slut? I mean I have fun and all, but I don't want to be considered a slut at all. Thanks for the advice (link)
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I would say yes, you are. I'm sorry but you need to calm down if it bothers you and change your behavior.
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18/f
What is the best way to achieve multiple orgasms?
gracias! (link)
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Lots of practice!
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how can i make my mascara appear more dramatic? (link)
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Try Lamcome definitions, also pause and hold the wand still at the tip of your lashes for a second when you swipe.
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I was wondering, how effective is spermicide that is already on condoms, because my boyfriend and i have been using that type so i was just curious how effective it was. (link)
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Spermacide is the slick feeling stuff that it is coated in, and it functions to "kill off" some of the sperm. Altogether, the condom and the spermacide on it are still less then 90% effective, meaning you are at risk for pregnacy (and some std's) 10% of the time. Better then nothing but not great. Make a GYN appointment with your doctor and talk to them about all your questions.
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Ok please dont anyone make fun of me! I am 16 yrs old and weig 200 lbs. i really need to loose as much weight as possible bfore school ends which in like 5 wks! please i will do ANYTHING! i rate 5's!!!!!!
~*Nikki*~ (link)
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Your goal in not only unrealistic but unhealthy. It is healthy to loose maybe 2 lbs/week through diet and exercise. Exercise each day for an hour (you said you would do anything, right?) NO junk food or fast food and LOTS of fruits and Vegetables. Cheack out weight watchers, they are the best diet plan out there.
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I have had what seems like a blister, sore,boil on my labia. It hasn't really gotten any worse. It hasn't really drained or crusted or anything like that. Doesn't even itch. It's only sore now cause i tried to pop it. Any idea what this is? It showed up right after my mestral cycle. Please help. I don't have insurance so i can't go to the doctor and i am not sure what to do. I'm freaking out cause it could be a STD, but it's not following the symptoms of herpes.
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It could just be a razor bump....but wouldn't you rather find out for sure. Ask your school nerse or new a web search for free health clinics in your area and make an appointment.
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hey, thanks for the advice =)
this morning, i put in a tampon to get use to it, but i dont know, it just hurt kinda..and felt uncomfortable.. i know ppl say that.. its probably not in right because its not in all the way, but sometimes when i put it in, it kinda hurts to push it in any futher, any suggestions on what i should do? (link)
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Yeah, if it's in right then you won't feel it at all. Keep practicing and follow the direction that came with the box. when you do get it in, try wearing a pantyliner (thin) just in case it's a little leaky.
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what if i wear them ,do my thing and i put them back,they wont know.i will see themthe next few weeks &could put back before they knew it was gone (link)
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Dude, they are bound to get suspicious soon! It's ok to do that kind of stuff but not ok to invade the privacy of your family. It's only a matter of time before they find out, I'm telling you. Break that habit!
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17/f. Recently I found out that my boyfriend had kissed his best friend about 2 months ago. Found out from a source other than him. As far as I know, it was a quick thing that he regretted afterwards, a slip. I'm not really mad that it happened, but I'm kind of hurt that my boyfriend wouldn't tell me, we're always very open with eachother about everything and I've told him before that he can tell me things like that without me being irrational. I'm wondering if you think I should ask him about it? He's never given me a reason not to trust him before, and I'm pretty sure I know why/how it happened, I just don't know whether to bring it up with him.
Thanks :) (link)
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If he is your boyfriend then plain and simple he was wrong. You ahve every right to ask about this.
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I might be depressed but I don't know. Well my dad died when I was 7 and my mom went blind (a lot of stuff happened but I don't want to say online...friends go here and stuff) so anyway. Lately everyting sets me off. I start to cry. Not just cry but hide under my blanket and half scream into my pillow. I used to cut myself a while back, but I stopped because all my friends didn't look at me the same way. My life is pretty messed up, but I've always been able to deal with it before. This one person said that I should talk to someone outside of my family, someone I trust. The thing is, I don't trust anyone so its hard to do that. So I have really kept all this in for like ever.... I have been having like panick attacks. I can't talk to a lot of people at once online, or I get angry and overwhelmed. I keep friends for a month, than I stop talking to them for a month and than the next month I talk to them again. I cry like every night. I don't want to talk to a counsler as everyone suggested because they get payed to listen to problems they don't really want too. Besides I don't cry in front of people. I have never cried in front of anybody except like maybe when I was like five. I feel so weird if I cry in public and people give me sympathy or w/e. I don't want sympathy. I don't want to talk to some stranger who just sits there and listens. Idk. I've been to one before right when my dad died and it didn't help at all. They released me after like two sessions saying I was a normal child. Even though I wasn't, I never talked during the sessions because like I said I just wasn't comfortable at all, and I don't feel like the counsler really wants to be there. There is a lot more stuff, I just don't really wanna type it all out. I know this is super long and hardly anyone is going to read it. But if you do, please help me. I don't know what to do anymore. (link)
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Yes, you need a therapist, and if you can't open up to them right away it's ok. This is different then when you went after your Dan passed away, and you are no longer a "normal child". You almost certainly have at least one mood disorder, I see symptoms of two actually, and you probably need to be medicated to some degree. If you don't then it might get much worse. If you can't bring it up to your mother or caregiver, ask your guidance counselor to point you in the right direction. Tha is their job. There isn't anything "wrong" with you, it's just like being sick and needing to go to the doctors.
If you don't have guidance conselors then tell your favorite teacher, or even least favorite teacher. It doesn't matter. Tell someone at school that you need help finding help. That is their job, to help you.
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i broke up with my bf and he says he loves me real bad and wants to work things out. i dont wanna because dont really have anymore feelings for him but i didnt tell him that i told him that im gonna be to busy this summer to have a bf which is true. but i cant get him to stop wanting to be with me how can i get him to move on? (link)
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Stop talking to him, you can be friends once he gets over it.
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Well a couple of days ago i had sex with my boyfriend and now when i pee it stings and i have a little blood come out thats pink not that its like my period what do you think it means? (link)
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If it hasn't gone away by now then it's not your hymen, it's an infection (no big deal). Call your doctor (gyn if you have one, regular if you don't) and let them know what is going on.
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VERY LONG BUT I RATE HIGH!
my dad. i dont know how to explain him.. he divorced my mom when i was 3 and i guess my mom walked out on me. she came back so now i see her every other weekend. my dad and her still fight sometimes and he gets frustrated with her easily. everyone at my dads house always says bad stuff about my mom, including my brother, so i defend her as best i can and my dad gets really angry. i live with him & my grandparents & my brother. i cry at least one time a day but i dont cut or anything like that. i just cry alot. hes very agressive, smokes, drinks, and takes pills. i dont know what to do though because im not sure why hes like this and he always takes it out on ME. i cant go to a psychiatrist because he wont let me or anything and i dont wanna tell the police or anything because he doesnt physically hurt me, only emotionally. oh and please dont tell me to talk it out with him because he will not do that :(
well if you have ANY advice then please help. & i am a 15/f if it changes anything :/ (link)
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You need to tell all this to your guidance counselor, he or she can help you best if your Dad won't get you medical help. You don't have to tell your Dan, just show your counselor this letter.
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my hair is a medium brown color. i have been trying to dye it medium blonde with very blonde highlights, but it either turns out a brassy dark red or stays the same. how on earth do i get my hair the blonde i want without using bleach which will dry out my hair wayyy toooo mucchchhh? should i get it professionally done? (link)
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If you actually care about the health and appearance of your hair, then get it done by a professional.
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my boyfriend and i had dry sex, though im just the only one having my undies. i just want to ask if i can get pregnant doing dry sex. also, accidentally, mine and his came into contact but it was very quick. there was no penetration. can i get pregnant by that? im really confused and i really dont know what to do. please help me. thank you so much. (link)
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Ignore all these other answers. Yes, it is possible. Sperm is present even without ejactulation and is capable of swimming from completely outside your vagina into it. Underwear is a joke as a barrier. Please use condoms every time and consider the pill.
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I recently applyed for a new job,as requierd I submitted a drug screen urine test.Note; I am a 50 yr/old male and have not used any type of illigal drugs sence my teens,and no alcahol in about 20 years,yet the urine test showed possative for methamphetamine,I do take some over the counter meds for sinus & headaches,is there anything out there that could cause this type of negative response in a urine test? From Fairshake and hopeing for a answer.Thank You Fellow Advicenators. (link)
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Well, since you CAN make meth using those over the counter products then I would imagine that could have caused your reaction. Talk to a doctor. You could always contest the results....demand another test (or at least find out the policy).
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would putting de-odorant on your face cut down sweating? (link)
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Nope, talk to your doctor. There are things they can do for you if your problem is severe.
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i wear my mother-inlaw & sister-inlaws clean & scented panties.ihave plenty of my own,& my wifes pairs just dont do it. i want to tell them before they find out that i been in their draws &hampers.i dont wnat them to get mad or upset so im trying to find a way to let them know what im doing before they find out,especially my mother-inlaw. (link)
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They are going to freak, I wouldn't tell them at all. Yeah, you can order some online, please stop using theirs though. That would really make them uncomfortable with you from that point on.
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My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?
The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.
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yes
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Where did Shampoo Ginger Plants start growing? Does anyone know any good non-googled sites that woudl give me really good information? (link)
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You mean the ginger that goes in shampoo? It's just the regular plant, whiich fragrances and oils extracted out.
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