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i broke up with my bf and he says he loves me real bad and wants to work things out. i dont wanna because dont really have anymore feelings for him but i didnt tell him that i told him that im gonna be to busy this summer to have a bf which is true. but i cant get him to stop wanting to be with me how can i get him to move on?
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I hate to say this, but you will have to be honest with him and tell him that you just don't have the same feelings for him now that you once had. After all, if the shoe was on the other foot, I am sure you would want him to be honest with you too.
If you told him you were going to be too busy this Summer for a boyfriend, he probably already suspects there is another reason and telling him the real problem will quite possibly set his mind at ease, instead of letting his mind run riot. Telling him the truth will also help him move on. Knowing you have no feelings like that for him any more doesn't leave him much option but to find someone else. Just as long as you are nice and tactful about it, this shouldn't be a problem.
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Try to be tactful and to the point. Take some quiet time, be sympathetic, and explain gently your reasoning. Make sure that you aren't talked out of it though. Stay firm to your point of view, but in a delicate way.
The best way to get over an ex is to go cold turkey - that is actively cut off contact with them. Since he's the one trying to get over YOU, it's up to you to do this.
Cut them out your life completely for a couple of months if not forever. Get some new friends or ban your friends from mentioning that person. Get his friends to do the same. Eventually he should get the point.
Good luck!
♥ Evy
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if you dont want this guy as a boyfriend and you really want him to get off your back, straight off tell him. but in a nice way. tell him that hes a great guy but you both have nothing in common and you dont see him as a potential bf for you. politley say that he needs to pull himself together and move on, just as you have done. i think that should do it but if its doenst you can always ask me again lots of luck !!
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Stop talking to him, you can be friends once he gets over it.
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You won't be able to get this guy to stop wanting to be with you. You just need to explain the truth. Tell him that you are honestly through with him and you need him to stop bothering you about it.
If he's constantly calling you, don't answer his calls, try blocking his number or something to let him know that you really do want to move on. If he's instant messaging you, block him and don't talk to him even when he tries to say that he wants to be your friend. If he's coming up to you in person at school, tell him you are sorry and walk away.
Whatever you do, shut off all contact with him so that he can't talk to you. Don't even act like you want to be his friend because things are way too intense for that. The only way for someone to move on is for them to have to access to talking to them and not talking to them in a really long time. That is how you get someone to move on. Don't toture him by letting him talk to you.
-TheTeenGirl
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find out what kind of girl he likes and set him up with her, if he likes her enough he'll totally forget about you and both of you will be happy. if you dont want to do that then have a talk with him about why you two cant be together anymore.. tell him the truth and everything will turn out great
<3 allie
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