i wear my mother-inlaw & sister-inlaws clean & scented panties.ihave plenty of my own,& my wifes pairs just dont do it. i want to tell them before they find out that i been in their draws &hampers.i dont wnat them to get mad or upset so im trying to find a way to let them know what im doing before they find out,especially my mother-inlaw.
Additional info, added Friday May 5 2006, 10:12 am: ive been on line. i feel better w/ the scent of people i know. im clos to my inlaws and enjoy being in theirs.its only panties and i dont see any real harm. i would eve buy them more pairs if they wanted.ijust want their scent and to wear theirs .. Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? RealisticWench answered Friday May 5 2006, 4:17 pm: It's never a good idea to tell someone something like that, this is where the saying "what they don't know can't hurt them" applies. But you need to stop, because wearing, stealing and smelling someones panties without their permission is wrong. Just because you have a fetish for it doesn't mean you are allowed to do it. Leave it as a fantasy. Many people fantasize about things that they should never do like rape and incest but luckily those people have enough self control not to carry out their fantasies. [ RealisticWench's advice column | Ask RealisticWench A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Friday May 5 2006, 12:48 pm: What you are doing is not right. Telling them that you are wearing their underwear is not a good idea. They will not understand. You are using your family in a very perverse way. You need to seek counseling for this. Please start taking steps to stop what you are doing. It needs to stop, not be understood by your victims.
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Tulipg17 answered Friday May 5 2006, 11:37 am: They are going to freak, I wouldn't tell them at all. Yeah, you can order some online, please stop using theirs though. That would really make them uncomfortable with you from that point on. [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
Razhie answered Friday May 5 2006, 9:00 am: They are going to get mad.
It doesn't matter if you fess up before they find out. You have invaded their privacy for your own sexual gratification. They will be upset, insulted and probably feel victimized. They will be absolutely right to feel this way.
There are plenty of places online for people with your fetish to purchased panties used, and even more places for you to purchase new ones. Invading the privacy of your in-laws in not an option. Put whatever you took back, hope to hell they don't find out, and find your enjoyment elsewhere. There is nothing wrong with you fetish or enjoyment of panties, but your in-laws are off limits unless you feel like destroying any relationship and all trust you have with them.
Currently what you are doing, taking their panties without their consent, is not only very selfish and immoral, it's illegal. Stop it now, if you find you can't make yourself stop, then you have a sexual addition and need to seek professional help with it. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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