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Long story short, I'm from Los Angeles, went to an amazing school, left the US and moved to the Middle East. I've been backpacking around Europe and the Middle East on and off since August 2013.


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Quite frankly, I'm sarcastic way more than I should be. Read a few of my answers, and you'll see that I am not totally mean to anyone.

Type correctly or go home. Yes, that is an ultimatum.




advice

I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.

I both agree and disagree with you, and I'll tell you why.

There are a signifigant number of people on this site that are over the age of 21, making them an adult almost everywhere you go. There are a few parents on this site, etc. I can assure you that every single person on this site is an expert at something.

MikeCFT, for example, is a certified fitness trainer. He can give excellent advice on fitness, nutrition, etc., but he might not be the best with computers. [I have no idea how he is with computers.]

Lucky for Mike, he doesn't have to answer computer questions that he knows nothing about. He can wait and let DangerNerd answer them, or anyone else with computer expertise.

Teenagers, however, are great at answering the repetitive menstrual cycle and boy problem questions, for the most part. They have all pretty much had a signifigant other. They can also answer fashion questions. Maybe teens aren't the best people to answer certain questions, but they are more qualified than many adults to answer others.

On this site, we urge everyone to not answer questions for which they have no expertise.

A seventeen year old girl could be very qualified to answer questions on conceiving a child. For example, she may be training to be in the medical field, her parents could be doctors, or she could have been in a comparable situation. Also, teens today get this type of information in school, so they could very well know what they are talking about. Granted, you never know who someone is, or what they know. It is very possible for someone to make something up. People here generally don't do that, though.

And lastly, there are few cases where it really counts. For those that are, the more adult advicenators can offer their insight.

Age is just a number. Not to insult your intelligence, but I assume that you are older than me; I am fifteen years of age. I could correct your grammar, and maybe even give you some math or music lessons. My IQ might be higher than yours. It is physically possible for me to be pregnant (I'm not, don't worry). You cannot assume that just because someone is a certain age they have no life experience. Quite frankly, nowadays, I would bet that it were growing to be the opposite.

I think I've said enough. I hope that I haven't offended you, but this issue is something that is very, very important to me.

Have a nice day, and do respond in the feedback you leave!

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i went to a new dentist today.

i was wondering if i could be allergic to the kind of metal pick thing they use to count and scrap (etc) your teeth.

beacuse somethings wrong. i got home. they barely even touched my teeth just kind of poked around. and they hurt so bad my tongue cant even touch them. and my gums are all swollen and i have bumps that are really sore on the my gums. and when i brush my teeth they bleed so bad.

i was just wondering if anyone knew what i could do to fix it, or if im overreacting and i should just wait it out or see a doctor? .. i dont know. but it hurts. and it worries me.

Well, if your gums are irritated, then you aren't brushing your teeth well enough. Talk to a dentist ASAP.

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Can anyone help me and im a guy.

Well, I love to talk about stuff that happens to me.

And about me, as conceited as it may sound.

I also like to delve deeper into a guy than "Oh, my favorite color is blue. Like the sky."

Religion and politics are interesting, but don't get too heated. Generally, these are a no-no, but they happen to be the two things that facsinate me the most, so I talk about them with anyone and everyone.

Compliment the girl, make a comment about the restaurant, ask about her favorite food, horoscope, anything. Girls wil usually talk about anything.

At least I will. :)

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Is there any way to talk to other colomnists without asking them quuestions like can you message them like you can on myspace? thanks :]]

you can make a forum. visit sizzlinmandolin's column for more info. :]

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ok.. i really need a guys opinion for this. whta do you guys look for in a girl? like what kind of girls do guys like and how do they like them to act and stuff

Don't act. I hang out with guys, and one of the last things that they want to see is a girl trying to change for them.

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i hurt my knee snowboarding it was swollen up like a melon and really bruised, the doctor told me to stay off my knee until its comfortable to walk, i havnt really been doing that, and it still hurts when i walk but i just ignore it cuz it doesnt hurt enough to make my flinch, someone told me if i didnt stay off my knee and let it heal properly that next time i hurt it, it would be much worse and i could perminantly damage my knee, is that true? should i stay off my knee for the next few days

A doctor won't just give you arbitrary advice. If I were you, I'd heed the warning and take the rest of the week off, or at least use a wheelchair. No one here is a proven medical doctor, so call your doctor ASAP.

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does anybody have any suggestions for auditiioning for a musical? our school is holding audtions for beauty and the beast and i really want to make it. or any general ideas to become a better singer in general. thanxs

What the heck? A metronome won't help you unless you are trying to do rhythms.

Make sure you take low, supported breaths and sing with support. :]

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what is that song that goes:
rock your body, move your mody?

and its not justin timberlake.

i heard it at dance class and i never asked my teacher what the name of the song was, and i tried looking it up on iTunes and no luck =[

someone please help!

thank youu!

answers would be appreciated!

I don't know the title, but it is by the Backstreet Boys.

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what are some of the pros and cons about wearing thongs? thanks!


ps: pro = good thing ; con = bad thing .. incase you didn't know haha.

Well,

PROS;;
-no unattractive underwear lines
-more feminine [in my opinion]
-more comfortable
-no wedgies
-more confidence
-feel older

CONS;;
-if your pants are too low and your underwear is too high, you can look like a slut.

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So I'm a 17 year old guy and I'm a senior in High School. I also have a good number of friends. I've never been to a party before, or even a party with alochol. Most kids at my school have been to those kinds of parties, and I just feel left out and "Un-cool". Is it bad that I've never been to that kind of party, cuz I feel really stupid and anti-social and I feel that If I don't go to one I'll be hated by the people I like or looked bad apon.

=[

ant thoughts..???

Well, everyone will have their different idea. If you see yourself as antisocial, be extra-nice and try to make a new friend each day. You'll be invited in no time!

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14/f
is it bad for your hair to get your hair thind?

Depends on how it's done. In general, no.

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hey, i cant figure out how to make this type of curls, http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a309/bridesofdracula/f5beb25a.jpg

and please dont tell me,"thats all done by pros and it takes forever" because i know it takes forever but i just wan to know how to make that kind of hairstyle.

Heh. My hair is like that right now. :]

They are just brushed out curls.

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my busdriver makes me sit in seat #2 on the bus because i "turned around". my busdriver said that its my permanant seat, no ands,ifs,or buts. its so annoying and i want to be with my friends in the back. i don't want to sit with the geeks in the front and when my friends come on the bus, they need to sit in the front with me. it sucks and i need help. i am not even turning around on the bus, its always the guys.

Why does it matter?

Switch busses, or get another mode of transportation, or get the driver fired.

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well, i cant sing. I sound really stupid when i do. probabaly because my voice is stupid. Im 14 and like nearly 6ft and my voice is really quiet and crappy. Any tips because i really want to sing. Like barry manilow, or other great singers.

Well, you are so vague that anyone who knows anything about singing cannot picture this situation.

Might I suggest searching this:

only search advicenators.com

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About how many people normally audition from the Mason Gross School of the Arts for a BFA in acting and how many are actually accepted each year? Is this theatre school a good program compared to others? How competative is it to get in, and do you have any tips? Is this honestly a top (or at least an extremely good) school for theatre?

Well, I've never heard of it, but if it isn't in LA, your chaces are limited.

USC and UCLA both have amazing theatre programs. : ]

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ok, well i just singed up for the web jay thing where you can put a lot of songs int his box and you can put it in your myspace and you select the song you want to here. well when it says the url everytime i put one in and i click ok and then i play the song it says web jay. it dosnt have the song. how do i fix that so i hear the song ?

read their FAQ. i know, for a fact, that it will be there. :)

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Is it ture that its proven chocolate does NOT make you break out? Someone told me that but i didnt know if it was true. Cause it seems like whenever i eat it i break out.

thankss

It is actually good for your skin because it has antioxidansts. Eat up. :]

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can u put a song on your myspace thats not from a myspace artist? i mean instead of getting it from the myspace music can you get it from anaother website? b/c i want the song :harajuku girls by gwen stefani and she doesnt have it on her myspace music profile and any links to where you can get the HTML or watever to that song wuld be GREAT! thanks SOOOO much!!!!!

If you go to webjay.org, you should find it. :]

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I really want to know who sings this song:

"I got no reason to put you aside or choose
A new addiction that would take the place of you
I've tried every other way to be in love
There's nothing better I can crave, you are my drug
of choice and I, like the way, you kill the pain..

I've got a new kind of lover, yeah
I've got a new kind of lover..."

It's called.. New Kind of Lover.


I found it off of myspace but I lost her page.
I've tried looking it up on google and found nothing.

NO! The person below me is incorrect!!

It's "Numb" by Bec Hollcraft. It is NOT called "New Kind of Lover."

Enjoy listening to her; she is such a sweet friend of mine. :]

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ok there is this boy. hes in my class/grade. and last year he wrote me this note but i didnt think he was serious cuz he sed he was kidding. but now i think he likes me cuz we flirt a lot. i do like him. iv never had a boyfriend and hes a great person, but he has a gf and i think he wants to break up with her. any advice about any of this?
13/f

If a boy will break up with another girl for you, then he'll break up with you for another girl. Wait until he's single.

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