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ok so i wanna start by saying that i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend.
ok dont get me wrong i like my boyfriend a TON,like i makeout with him and would do anything for him.
but sometimes i get the feeling like he doesnt like me even tho he says he does.
and sometimes he treats me like im stupid.
i didnt realize this until one of my best friends pointed it out.he told me that he really likes me and is always telling em how lucky my boyfriend is.
i hangout with him at him house and we have SO much fun,its almost like were going out already.
but i havent done ANYTHING to cheat on my boyfriend.
my question is,should i breakup with my bf for my best friend who would treat me better,or stick with my super hott amazing boyfriend that i could try to fix things with?
also,im not really sure who to choose because when were alone my boyfriend is really nice.and when im alone with my bff hes so funny and sweet. this is killing me i cant veen sleep at night.idk wht to do.=[. (link)
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ok this is very complicated... do you love your boyfriend? if it were me in this situation then i would go for what feels the best. who do you feel more comfortable with? who makes you feel like your the only girl he ever sees? would you rather have someone treat you like your some stupid animal? or would you rather have someone that treats you like your a human being? looks are not everything. its the person inside that is the MOST important! im not kidding i would rather have a guy thats just cute but not hott that treats me like the best thing that has ever happend to him then have someone super hott and acts like im some stupid shit. you see what im saying?
hope i helped!♥
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my boyfriend says he loves me but he was checking out some other girl at school i don't know if i should breakup with him or not?
female
13 (link)
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ok so your 13 well i know your going to be annoyed hearing this but your really young to be in love and well when your that age and "in love" a guy tends to forget he is in love with you. he probally really isnt and is just saying that to get some (if you know what i mean) he said it first then it eiter means i want to get some or he really does and if you said it then he was probally scared and said it to make you feel better. If he is known as a player then i would deffinatly break up with him because you know and i so know that he is just going to turn on you and break your little heart! its been done to me so i know!
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this question is mostly for guys. but if any girls have guy friends or boyfriends that tell them, then this is for you too! do guys like when you have anything on your lips when you kiss them? i mean like lip gloss, lip stick, chapstick, nothing, etc. i mean wahts their preference and does anything annoy them? thanks in advance! (link)
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well my boyfriend said that he likes it when girls where flavored lipgloss something like that but make sure its clear because its annoying to say come out of the movies with red lipstick all over his face like a two year old put it on him and nothing at all is fine too!
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15/f
When a guy asks you to see a movie, does that necessarily mean it is a date? What if he is bringing one of his friends but doesn't care if you bring someone?
I suppose I am going to get different answers, but I'm sure there must be a way to figure it out.
Thanks! =) (link)
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yes if a guy asks you to go to them movies that means its a date when he says hes bringing one of his firends he just doesnt want it to be akward and you should deffinatly bring a firend that way its not just you him and his friend.
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My friends really make me mad! They say that if I bring my boyfriend to the dance that there not going to go. Thing is, I really like him a lot and we have been dating for like 4 months now. Should I let what they say affect my decision or not. Im so confused and I feel like crying!! Nothing even happened between them. They just do not like him. I asked them why and they said they dont know why but they just dont like him. (link)
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well sometimes friends have a feel if you know what I mean that someone is just not rite and well they probally have a feel of that and thats why they dont like him. I understand that Ive done that many times. They probally dont like him because they think hes going to hurt you or they think your spending to much time with him and just want you to be with them and thats one way of showing it is by going to the dance with them but if you bring your boyfriend they know your not going to pay attention to them at all so just tell your boyfriend that you want to go to the dance with your friends instead hell understand! tell him that you need to spend time with the girls!
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Okay...so this weekend my boyfriend nd his friends came over. My boyriend and his two friends had spent the night but his two frieds were terribly bored...so they made a deal that my boyfriend had to stay at carrie's house this weekend...i know this sounds conusing but my boyfriend in the past has been know as a "john tucker" ((aka a player)) and im scared hes going to cheat on me...this weekend at her house..what do I do? (link)
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o.k i have a friend who HAD a bf like that and well you know didnt go well what you should tell him confront him I mean thats what you should do. Just go up to him and say that Im not liking the idea of you going over another girls house and its not that I dont trust you its that Im not comfortable with you going...im sure hell understand what you mean if he was a good boyfriend to you then he wont ask questions but if he is a (john tucker) then the good thing to do before you get your heart broken is to dump him players are players and they never change get a boyfriend thats good to you who treats you like a human being without the cheating lying blah blah. hop I helpd you out
~sarah
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I like this guy and he likes me back but we never have anything to talk about online. I'm sick of the usual how are u, wuts up, and hows ur summer going. There is nothing really we have in commom we dont like the same movies, music, he doesnt play sports and i do and we go to diffrent schools any ideas? (link)
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ooo im soo glad u asked that well..... i know exactly what you should say!!! ok to start a convo you say heyy stuff like but this time when he asks whats up you say something like you know sexsual it will get the guy sooo worked up he will not stop talking to you! ( i know a liltle too w.e but it works) ok rite now you must be thinking ya but what sexsual thing do i say!!?? ok i said once to someone that ohhh im sooo sore....hell go "y" YOU: ohhh i did a stradle or a split without stretching and you know hurts really bad....then like if hes like cool or something then hes not worth your time....but i know you like him so what you can do if the 1st one doesnt work out then you just ask him questions...meaning so do you like ne one? well i do ill be honost with you if you are honost with me! stuff like that i hope i helped tell me how it goes!!!!
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this is for everyone to answer.
what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?
i just wanna get some ideas. thanks. (link)
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well my first Boyfriend was the age of 13 and first kiss 13 so i had it together all at one age
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My boyfriend(we're 14)is going back to visit his hometown soon...he lived there till last year..he has 4 ex girlfriends that live there that he is still good friends with and im pretty sure hes planning on visiting them! im so worried that these girls(who by the way are very slutty and did alot of things with him) are gonna be all over him and he'll be tempted and he ll cheat on me! i trust him alot but hes so close with them that i bet anything could happen! what should i do? (link)
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dont you hate that about him that hes so close to them ya im close to someone like that and he talks to this girl he really liked and she totally dumped him so i think he just a liltle bit still likes her. but i trust him he wont do ne thing if he likes you enoough hes not going to do ne thing so what if he sees them if he doesnt do ne thing then its ok but if your so like not trusting him then talk to him about how you care and dont want him to leave you b.c you did something stupid but if you dont talk to him just trust him that he wont do ne thing and maybe he wont i idought he would.
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Ok so here's how it works, I babysit 3 kids, one is 11 year old girl, a 8 year old boy and another 5 year old girl. I constantly have my hands full. I watch my employers kids, I clean her hous, I do her dishes, and stay there all night, most of the time, she usually stays out and comes home the next day. How much should I charge her? Thanx for the advice in advance.. (link)
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alot like all night really ewww like if you clean then more rite $5 per kid $3 and hour and $5 for cleaning the house or maybe$10 so it adds up get money out of her maybe she wont be out all night! ne more.
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Okay, this may not seem like a problem, but I started babysitting for this one family this summer. They have a pretty big house and good jobs, so it's not like they are poor. I think they overpay me though. I know I shouldn't complain, but they paid me $40 for watching a 4-year-old and a nine-year-old from 6-11pm....and they pay me $100 a week to watch the 9-year-old while they are at work during the summer....watching the nine-year-old basically consists of watching tv or watching him play nintendo or watching him fish. it's not a hard job, and I enjoy it...should I say something about the high pay, or just take it as them appreciating me and being nice? I don't want to get more than I deserve.... (link)
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i get paid 150 a week so dont feel bad TAKE THE MONEY lol dont worry anout it! and my job is easy but sooo boring!
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Here's the story. I started going more to my church because i love listening about God right. So, this day that's where i met my best friend Raymond. When we met i felt this connection between us because we can talk about everything. We could tell each othe anything right. We used to hang out all the time none stop until one day we went out to this show called fuse right. We started holding hands and kind of flirting with each other that day was the best day of my life because for the first time i knew he was feeling the same way i felt about him. I mean we used to always send email to each other and call each other and talk for hours. But as the days pasted by the feeling was becoming stronger and stronger and this were starting to become intense with each other we start to kiss but i mean really kiss it got to a point it was none stop. And we couldn't stop thinking of each other and we were always there no matter what. But one day I didn't see him anymore. And we never broke up. And now that he's in my life again and i saw him again is akward we say hi to each other and smile at each other and always look for each other in the room but is like we don't know what to talk about or how to act around one another. And sometimes i regret going out with him sometimes i think maybe if we would have never gone out things weren't be this way. But i the same time i don't regret it because with him i felt a love that i never felt and i fell inlove with him and even though things are akward between us i still love him the same way and i can't keep him out my mind. And my question is this how can i stop loving him and just see him as my friend and how do i get things the way they used to be before when we were just best friends and used talk and laugh with each other. (link)
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hi its me again well i didnt get to see him on thursday but he left to go to florida the other day and he called me b4 he left and i wanted to say it(i love u) but i couldnt,today he called me to say hes alive and having fun before we hung up there was a silence and a quick goodbye idk if hes thinking the same thing or what but i now know what to do b.c of what u told me if he says it then i will say the same thingg back unless u disagree with what im saying. i would love to hear what u have to say!!
thanx a bunch!!!
♥~sarah
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ok so i'm not currently single but he was my 1st love and such but we didn't have sex he's 16 i'm 15 we dated for 2 years and were taking a break but then we were thinking about getting back together but then he met someone a girl from a different school and she's a real slut he had sex with her now they broke up he is calling me again and he is telling me that he wants to be my 1st and alll this other stuff and well i still like him he was my 1st love what else is there but to fall for him and i think he just wants to have sex with someone that hasn't had sex yet that would be me what should i do should i continue talking to him or do you think he's useing me just to get sex idk plz get back to me and help thanks alot (link)
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umm idont mean to be like mean and i k you dont want to hear this but it does sound like hes using you to have sex!
but there is a slight slim chance he still wants you if you love him and you want to have sex then go for it i guess if not then dont
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26 year old female, I've know this guy for over a year, we've always been friends and there has always been an attraction between us but he had a girlfriend until a few months ago. For the past few weeks we've been hooking up he's said he isn't ready for a relationship but since we've been together he's treating me like a girlfriend almost we talk all the time, hang out almost everyday he got his feelings hurt when i didn't call him one weekend. I'm not sure if this means he has feelings for me or if he just wants booty. (link)
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it actually could be both im not sure but it snds like hes really sensitive wait a while and kiss him and see if he does any thing like touches your ass when your kissing or like kisses back then youll know he wants booty or something.
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i like my nieghbor chris...but im not really sure? i mean....i love him soo much but i feel nervouse to do anything because im not sure if he likes me back..he said to my stept bro (hes my stept bros friend..and im friends with chris's sis whos a year yunger than me [im not using chris's sis mckenzie though]) that he doesnt want a girlfriend...but he said he doesnt want to say he likes me. one tiime (a week ago) we played truth or dare (t.o.d) and they dared me to kiss him.... before i go anyfurther, may i mention i have never kissed anybody in my life before him.....
it was embarasing. its the best way to describe it. first we leaned in and he had his eyes closed and i wraped my arms around him...but as soon as our lips touched i backed away quickly. its embarasing becaouse i backed away so quickly, but theres more to that....
i thought i also liked this guy correy...im not sure. i like correy but i love chris.
i need help about my kissing or sexual life and between correy and chris???? (link)
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hmm wow that snds just like my younger sisters life! but ne ways you know first kiss is always stupid who cares kissing just comes naturally just do it like i said sex and kissing is like riding a bike everyone is good at it and its fun!! lol and chris and correy you know if you LOVE chris totally go for him not correy chris is the way to go!
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Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him? (link)
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umm this is tough but you know sometimes friends will have to deal i mean if you have like him longer then its like fuck her she will get over it. so ya just ask him hell say yes it looks. and if your still not comfortable asking him b.c of her then tell her what you are going to do but are affraid b.c you dont want her to get hurt or something. shell understand and get over it sooner or later,.
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ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say. (link)
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i heart you thats an original it doesnt exactly mean it but it does do you know what i mean? well if you dont just ask and i will clear stuff up for you!
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I am a female and I am a virgin. If my boyfriend has cum or precum on his hand and fingers me, can I become pregnant? I really need to know this as soon as possible! Please help! (link)
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you should go see a doctor! thts the best you can do then getting a advice from peole that are not doctors.
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Ok, I really like his guy and I think I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him.
I'm positive he likes me too by the way..
And we made this deal where we're saving our first kiss for each other, and I really want to kiss him. Should I make out, too?
Should I make the firts move, because he's shy.
Any help is loved =] (link)
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jut do it he wont care trust me ive said this to like one person already trust me w.e you guys are doing he wont care if you just grab him and kiss him he will love you for it and first it can be just a kiss then start makeing out it will be perfect. shy boys are great they like it when you make the first move most of the time but ask him if he would like you to make the first move sometime he will say w.e and just do it.
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ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J. (link)
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what you do is just take him and kiss him trust me kissing is no big deal its like riding a bike or having sex but i wouldnt know but it feel good when you actually like the person and you dont have to be like wikid too old to get a first kiss i know your dying to get yours am i rite? cuz i was and i was 13 this year when i got mine but trust me you will like it if you really like the person. but dont be nervous about it just be yourself and do it kiss him he wont care what you guys are doing if your talking to someone or i mean he is and you grab him and kiss him he wont care trust me!!!
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