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ok so i'm not currently single but he was my 1st love and such but we didn't have sex he's 16 i'm 15 we dated for 2 years and were taking a break but then we were thinking about getting back together but then he met someone a girl from a different school and she's a real slut he had sex with her now they broke up he is calling me again and he is telling me that he wants to be my 1st and alll this other stuff and well i still like him he was my 1st love what else is there but to fall for him and i think he just wants to have sex with someone that hasn't had sex yet that would be me what should i do should i continue talking to him or do you think he's useing me just to get sex idk plz get back to me and help thanks alot
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not to make you sad or anything but he might be using you ,to make sure keep on talking to him and if he just talking about having sex then he just using you.BUT if he not talking about sex all the time maybe he reget having sex with the slut and still has feeling and wants to be your 1st. I mean it's a 50%/50% he might using u or has feeling 4 you
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umm idont mean to be like mean and i k you dont want to hear this but it does sound like hes using you to have sex!
but there is a slight slim chance he still wants you if you love him and you want to have sex then go for it i guess if not then dont
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i say yes you keep talking to him if you really like him but if you see that theres pressure to have sex with him then you should deff. talk to him about it and yes most likely he wont tell you the truth but talking about it to him will help. . when you start seeing eachother if he tries to have sex right away if a dead give away also. just watch for signs such as those. hope i helped=]
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To me it definitely sounds like he's using you for sex. Have a serious talk with him about it.
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I don't know. It seems to me he might just be using you for sex, I mean he had sex with this other girl and then all of a sudden wanted you back. I guess the decision is ultimately up to you, decide if you really love this guy and whether or not giving yourself up to him is the right thing to do, or what you really want. So basically, if you know that this guy will stick around after you have sex and will mean it when he says he loves you and not just say it to get you back into bed, then I say do it. But if you have your doubts, then don't. Hope I helped :)
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Deep down he may be a nice guy, but to come running right back to you and wanting to have sex is because deep down he's a GUY and guys want sex especially now that he knows what it's all about. I'd tell him to take a hike, you had a good, special relationship before, but you don't want to get used. the way to really tell - ask him to go steady with you, without sex just like before and see what he says. good luck.
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