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I really I'm desperate i don't know what to do
Here's the story. I started going more to my church because i love listening about God right. So, this day that's where i met my best friend Raymond. When we met i felt this connection between us because we can talk about everything. We could tell each othe anything right. We used to hang out all the time none stop until one day we went out to this show called fuse right. We started holding hands and kind of flirting with each other that day was the best day of my life because for the first time i knew he was feeling the same way i felt about him. I mean we used to always send email to each other and call each other and talk for hours. But as the days pasted by the feeling was becoming stronger and stronger and this were starting to become intense with each other we start to kiss but i mean really kiss it got to a point it was none stop. And we couldn't stop thinking of each other and we were always there no matter what. But one day I didn't see him anymore. And we never broke up. And now that he's in my life again and i saw him again is akward we say hi to each other and smile at each other and always look for each other in the room but is like we don't know what to talk about or how to act around one another. And sometimes i regret going out with him sometimes i think maybe if we would have never gone out things weren't be this way. But i the same time i don't regret it because with him i felt a love that i never felt and i fell inlove with him and even though things are akward between us i still love him the same way and i can't keep him out my mind. And my question is this how can i stop loving him and just see him as my friend and how do i get things the way they used to be before when we were just best friends and used talk and laugh with each other.
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hi its me again well i didnt get to see him on thursday but he left to go to florida the other day and he called me b4 he left and i wanted to say it(i love u) but i couldnt,today he called me to say hes alive and having fun before we hung up there was a silence and a quick goodbye idk if hes thinking the same thing or what but i now know what to do b.c of what u told me if he says it then i will say the same thingg back unless u disagree with what im saying. i would love to hear what u have to say!!
thanx a bunch!!!
♥~sarah
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boy oh boy.
i know exactly how you feel.
& to tell you the truth,i dont know that i can give you an answer to that.
the same thing happened to me,and now,almost a year later,even though i am over him, he will always have a place in my heart.
everytime i see/talk to him,my heart still jumps.
so,i dont know what to tell you.
but,if you still want to try with him, then you should say something,because you dont want to lose him forever.
trust me.
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Ask if he wants to just hang out one day, as friends. Then kiss him at the opportune moment. I'm serious, that's what I'd do!!
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wow, just wow. this kind of love, its very very rare and you are so lucky to have experianced it. I believe that once you love someone, you always love them, and really theres not much that you can do to change how your heart feels. Over time you will start to get over him, it may take a long time, but eventually you will. In the mean time try to keep yourself as busy as possible so you can take your mind off him. To get over him, you sort of have to allow yourself to get over him, which is pretty hard to do because if your heart really wants him then it will deffinetly take some time.
honestly, i can't say that things will go back to the way they used to be. I'm not sure how you can make it less awkward, but chances are that he still has feelings for you. I mean from what you said, you guys really fell for eachother, and a love like this in my opinion never dies.
you've gotta ask youself, do i want to just throw this love away? or do i want to keep it? if you really want to get over him and just be friends, than you've got to talk to him as a friend. Ease into the conversation and hopefully eventually things will be less awkward. If you want to keep the love you guys had then just confont him about it. be like "what happened to us? why is it like this now?"
well i hoped i helped in some way =]
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