My boyfriend(we're 14)is going back to visit his hometown soon...he lived there till last year..he has 4 ex girlfriends that live there that he is still good friends with and im pretty sure hes planning on visiting them! im so worried that these girls(who by the way are very slutty and did alot of things with him) are gonna be all over him and he'll be tempted and he ll cheat on me! i trust him alot but hes so close with them that i bet anything could happen! what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sml111992 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 7:48 am: dont you hate that about him that hes so close to them ya im close to someone like that and he talks to this girl he really liked and she totally dumped him so i think he just a liltle bit still likes her. but i trust him he wont do ne thing if he likes you enoough hes not going to do ne thing so what if he sees them if he doesnt do ne thing then its ok but if your so like not trusting him then talk to him about how you care and dont want him to leave you b.c you did something stupid but if you dont talk to him just trust him that he wont do ne thing and maybe he wont i idought he would. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
Serenity answered Monday July 17 2006, 3:24 pm: You should relax, did you ask him did he still had feelings for those slutty girls. If he loves you he would not be tempted to get with them, but he does, he's not for you. [ Serenity's advice column | Ask Serenity A Question ]
kaitX3 answered Monday July 17 2006, 1:23 pm: You didnt mention that he has cheated on you so if i were you i wouldnt be worried. he obviously likes you since he is going out with you. everyone has a past and has past relationships. but remember that there is a reason why those past relationships failed. if he is smart he wont do anything with those girls. just because hes done stuff with them before doesnt mean that he will do soemthing agian because now the circumstances are different than they were before. you say you trust him alot and you obviously have a reason to trust him just remember that. its okay that he is still friends with them but thay are friends and nothing more. so there is nothing for you to worry about!
Lucky answered Monday July 17 2006, 12:25 pm: dont be worried. if he likes you he wont cheat on you. if he still likes the other gf's, he shouldnt be with you. Simple as that. If you dont think you can trust him, sit him down and tell him. But other than that i think you can trust him.
pootietang answered Monday July 17 2006, 12:01 pm: I think you should sit down and talk to him about it. And then let him do what hes gonna do. If he loves you he won't cheat on you. Just trust him and if something happens then you can find someone better. Theres always someone better! [ pootietang's advice column | Ask pootietang A Question ]
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