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boyfriend trouble
ok so i wanna start by saying that i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend.
ok dont get me wrong i like my boyfriend a TON,like i makeout with him and would do anything for him.
but sometimes i get the feeling like he doesnt like me even tho he says he does.
and sometimes he treats me like im stupid.
i didnt realize this until one of my best friends pointed it out.he told me that he really likes me and is always telling em how lucky my boyfriend is.
i hangout with him at him house and we have SO much fun,its almost like were going out already.
but i havent done ANYTHING to cheat on my boyfriend.
my question is,should i breakup with my bf for my best friend who would treat me better,or stick with my super hott amazing boyfriend that i could try to fix things with?
also,im not really sure who to choose because when were alone my boyfriend is really nice.and when im alone with my bff hes so funny and sweet. this is killing me i cant veen sleep at night.idk wht to do.=[.
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Hey. Well first off, this Is a really tough situation you're in. Do you really love your boyfriend a lot? If he makes you feel stupid sometimes than that's not a good sign. But if you really aren't sure about this and have a lot of fun with him than he may feel the same about you. Or, have you always really liked your best friend? If you feel like you're already going out with him than that's an amazing relationship too. But do you think this could mess up your friendship? Or you may feel that this would strengthen it. You really know what you want to do deep down but you probably don't want to hurt anyone. If you break up with your boyfriend I would tell him you still want to be friends (as you probably know) and let him down easy. Whoever you feel you have the better time with and makes you the most comfortable, choose that guy =). I really hope I helped you and good luck! =)
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ok this is very complicated... do you love your boyfriend? if it were me in this situation then i would go for what feels the best. who do you feel more comfortable with? who makes you feel like your the only girl he ever sees? would you rather have someone treat you like your some stupid animal? or would you rather have someone that treats you like your a human being? looks are not everything. its the person inside that is the MOST important! im not kidding i would rather have a guy thats just cute but not hott that treats me like the best thing that has ever happend to him then have someone super hott and acts like im some stupid shit. you see what im saying?
hope i helped!♥
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First off, I want to say that it's normal to have these thoughts and feelings. I can't tell you who to chose, you have to make that descision on your own.
I can tell you this though; TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND! It's very important to let him know everything you've said here! Let him know you worry about your relationship together, and you've been having thoughts about your best friend. If your boyfriend doesn't seem to care, then he's definitely not worth your time. But he probably will care and get very protective over you.
Also, talk to your best friend about this too! You don't want to break up with your great boyfriend just to have your best friend not share the feelings you have for him.
Good luck, and I hope everything works out well for you three!
<3 Katie
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